RichR 
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Registered: 17th Oct 01
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I've had a few of these recently and today's a major one. Genuinely thinking about packing it in, cutting my losses and selling the house and beggaring off abroad. 
 
Friend of mine did it, does the same job as me but travelled around Europe, Middle East and US since uni - no more than 3-4months at any one company and has just landed a £100k a year job plus 50k yacht completion bonus with all living expenses paid living in Monaco. He's 4 years odler than me and tbh was shit at uni. 
 
Anyone else have days/weeks/months where they just think about completely changing life?  
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Russ 
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why are you still logged in  
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DannyB 
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If you feel so strongly then do it, other wise you will regret it later in life when you wont have the chance anymore. Moving to Scotland was the best thing I ever did, I had fuck all when I came here, it was like starting all over again.
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LeeM 
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Not quite as extreme as you but I'm gettin pretty restless where I'm at now. Been doin the same thin with the same people for 3 years and can't be arsed anymore I feel I need change in my life. Need to finish this year at college, get next years finance sorted then might just fuck off abroad and come back in time to start next September 
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Joe 
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Just do it already... no point moaning on CS every day.
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Skylined 
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Pretty sweet, what job and company?
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Ben J 
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Registered: 31st Jan 05
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I did similar when I binned off the hotel industry. I'd had enough after 8 years. Rediculous hours, loads of stress, tosser of a boss, i'd had an affair with one of my staff, nearly lost everything. 
 
So one day at work rang the wife and said, I think I want out. And she just said, hand your notice in NOW then. So I did.  Tbh she'd told me previously I could quit anytime I wanted.   
 
Had 6 months off, recharged batteries, got a new job which I loves. 
 
Best thing I have ever done. So if I  can do it at 29, when married and with a kid, then you definatley can with no strings. 
 
 
 
 
 
 
[Edited on 05-01-2011 by Ben J]
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ed 
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Just do it. You only live once and if it all goes to shit then at least you can say you tried  
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adiohead 
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I've had this recently, which I why I'm gonna try and pack it all in for a 12k job  
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Ben J 
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quote: Originally posted by adiohead 
I've had this recently, which I why I'm gonna try and pack it all in for a 12k job   
   
 
I took a £10k pay reduction for my new job. 
 
Best thing i've ever done!!
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Lawrah 
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Been thinking about this also, but the way I see it those who have a job just now are lucky to have one..so i dont want to give one up and not get a new one.
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John 
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Today is a big one here too, probably a big bit of first day back though.
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Pablo 
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Only just got my house steals all my money, some days dont mind others get pissed off
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Brett 
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If you've got no ties then now is the time, Lee.
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Warren G 
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your one of 3 people 
 
Talker 
Moaner 
Do'er 
 
I ask myself why havent i booked he ticket...
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adiohead 
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I like doing sexy time. 
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Russ 
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Registered: 14th Mar 04
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quote: Originally posted by Warren G 
your one of 3 people 
 
Talker 
Moaner 
Do'er 
 
I ask myself why havent i booked he ticket... 
  becuase you are busy fixing the corsa  
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Conway563 
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You've no commitments anymore and AFAIK no plans to look at settling down anytime soon 
 
Get it done 
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RichR 
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The house is my tie; on one hand if I finish it I could sell it and get a nice lump sum of capital behind me, on another I could rent it and have an income regardless of where/what I did at least to keep a base. 
 
The main thing is to fuck it and sell it, maybe pocket a bit of capital but not much but at least have no ties, at the same time have nothing really to show for 3 years of effort or finish it and then go and do something.
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Russ 
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rent it, then in a few years you can sell your house to buy Fairline
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u25low 
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I got howse got car, muney low but still hav loads ov muney but no muney.
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Warren G 
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quote: Originally posted by Russ 
quote: Originally posted by Warren G 
your one of 3 people 
 
Talker 
Moaner 
Do'er 
 
I ask myself why havent i booked he ticket... 
  becuase you are busy fixing the corsa   
   
 
lol funny man 
 
nope, its because im not fixing it!
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RichR 
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Registered: 17th Oct 01
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quote: Originally posted by Russ 
rent it, then in a few years you can sell your house to buy Fairline 
   
 
not rentable yet! Downstairs is a building site, as in compelte buidling site! 
 
Just looking at contracting positions now; Ideally, I need something which will pay until the house is finished so 12months-18months at a push. That would be the head screwed on approach
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Russ 
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quote: Originally posted by u25low 
I got howse got car, muney low but still hav loads ov muney but no muney. 
  what the cunting fuck  
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Ben J 
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Registered: 31st Jan 05
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quote: Originally posted by Russ 
quote: Originally posted by u25low 
I got howse got car, muney low but still hav loads ov muney but no muney. 
  what the cunting fuck   
   
 
     
 
I want a howse and muney too   
 
I'll have to make do with a house and money. 
 
[Edited on 05-01-2011 by Ben J]
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