chris_uk
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my g/f went out last night with her brother and his mate, they went out into town and had a good night. i stayed at home and picked them up at 2:18 am.. n e way we got back to my house and she told me that she went with her brothers m8 2 times.. she said they shit and didnt know why she did it, to which i replyed of they were so shit y did u go back for seconds?? then she just went quiet.. now she was pissed but im not sure how much she had had to drink...
ive been with her 2.5 years and she has never done this before, i told her i was ok and there wasnt really n e thing i could do,
what should i do, she appologised alot and said she really loved me and her kissing him didnt mean anything its bcoz she was so drunk..
Cheers 
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Ditch
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You sure you didnt pick em up at 02:19am?
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Chris@Speedfreex
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hmmmmmmm i cudnt trust her again to be honest m8
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Kerry
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quote:
Originally posted by chris_uk
she told me that she went with her brothers m8 2 times..
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and her kissing him
dont they mean different things 
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chris_uk
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well no.. i meant them as the same  but yea after she went with him!
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Patrick
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On a serious note, if you can forgive her then it depends how much you love her and want her.
If you can not trust her again and the night will keep coming back to you. Ditch her.
It will hurt to loose her but not as much as it will hurt when the memory comes back to you all the time. Also if you do forgive her and she does it again, it will probably destroy you.
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Kerry
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so went with him as sex or kissing?
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chris_uk
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i dunno wat to do, she says she dont remember much about last nite but i think she is holding this back..
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chris_uk
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Kissin kerry.. tounging to be precice
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Chris@Speedfreex
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kick the fuk outta him
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chris_uk
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ive told her that if she does do it again.. and i find out. then she has lost me..
i love her more than anything, i mean i'd swap my car for her... and thats saying alot!
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Originally posted by Patrick
On a serious note, if you can forgive her then it depends how much you love her and want her.
If you can not trust her again and the night will keep coming back to you. Ditch her.
It will hurt to loose her but not as much as it will hurt when the memory comes back to you all the time. Also if you do forgive her and she does it again, it will probably destroy you.
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Patrick
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Have a break. If all you think about whilst on the break is what she done and what is she doing now. Leave her.
If all you think about is how much you miss her and what happened doesn't really come up in your thoughts much then maybe give it another go.
Don't give to much to her though. Cos like I said, it could destroy you.
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corsa8adm
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get rid of her, she obviously doesnt appreciate you, and then beat the shit out of that lad
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chris_uk
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quote:
Originally posted by Chris@Speedfreex
kick the fuk outta him
also just to make this even better, 2 of her bro's m8's (1 she kisssed) and another lad both are making up sit like she slept with them..
dont feel 2 good!
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ajscorsa
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yeah and her brother he shouldnt of let her do it.
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Patrick
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quote:
Originally posted by Chris@Speedfreex
kick the fuk outta him
Yeah, and that! 
That always helps. Fix the wounds slightly.
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chris_uk
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well i gtg down for br8fast! talk to u soon guys..
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Tom
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Nah see how it goes everyone makes mistakes n she's told u.....but be honest with yourself, if you can't trust her it aint worth it (you'll just argue bcos' you'll be asking her where she's been etc etc), and if it does happen again then bin her and do not go back
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Chris@Speedfreex
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gutted m8 sorry
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Patrick
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If it helps, I've been there and I know it hurts.
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Kerry
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y kick the fuk out of him its not his fault is it....... my mate used to annoy me with that, everytime her fella cheated go kickin the lasses head in 
so she got drunk and kissed a lad not that bad is it ??? u are stil both young she may have done it out of curiosity then realised how much of a mistake she made and that she really wants u. better to do it now than in the future dont u think?
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MatthewR
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You should of give her hell mate jus coz she inat done b4 how'd yopu know?? Only coz she was with her brother that you cud eventually find out!!!! fcuk her off!!
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Tom
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quote:
Originally posted by Kerry
y kick the fuk out of him its not his fault is it....... my mate used to annoy me with that, everytime her fella cheated go kickin the lasses head in :rolleyes
I agree with this unless the lad knows she's with you...
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Chris@Speedfreex
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one reason becos he knows shes goin out wiv him
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corsa8adm
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The brother is well outta line, especially after two and a half years. A mistake is once but she did it twice, SNAKES!
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