xxJ0D13xx
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Just wondering how many of you have been through this (not just jealousy) in your relationship or with an Ex..
Ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months coming upto 7, and i used to be fine but lately ive started becoming very jealous of silly things and argumentative and i snap at anything which has made us nearly split up about 3 times.
People just say its a phase and it'll pass but nothing seems to be happening and i am trying 
Just wanted some opinions and to see if its happened to many of you?
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Cosmo
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A woman - who is argumentative and snaps? 
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DannyB
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Yeah its happened alot, comes down to trust.If you trust the person, then there's no need to be jealous.
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xxJ0D13xx
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quote:
Originally posted by Cosmo
A woman - who is argumentative and snaps?
 I know i know. But i never was for 5 months.
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Cosmo
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TBH this is the way I see things....
You gain nothing from acting like this, other than making yourself worry and getting on your fellas nerves. If you dont worry he may cheat, if you do worry he may cheat - so why get yourself worked up over it and just let things slide and make it so he has no desire to.
The more you nag the more he'll be def up and the more chance he will look else where.
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Matt L
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he's seeing another women behind your back thats why [/harsh]
tbf like danny said i imagine its down to lack of trust.
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DragonV
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Im like this with my boyfriend, been together a year and i still get like it now, i really dont mean to and i trust him 100%.. Dunno why i do it, but i annoy myself so i must be really fucking him off!
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xxJ0D13xx
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Originally posted by DragonV
Im like this with my boyfriend, been together a year and i still get like it now, i really dont mean to and i trust him 100%.. Dunno why i do it, but i annoy myself so i must be really fucking him off!
It annoys me because then when we argue i know its all my fault but i didnt mean to do it 
Its not that i dont trust him i just dont trust his ex's around him because they do try and even infront of me if were out. So surely theres something that we can both do.
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Dione J
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ex's lock off, simple.
ex's are ex's for a reason. .
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DragonV
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Yeah me and my bf have split up loads of times over it, i really try to stop myself from saying anything but its so hard not to. Its mainly the girls that rly annoy me and i just take it out on him
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Phi
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i think if people keep splitting up then the relationship isnt worth it imo
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Lawrah
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Sounds like he wants to be controlling. not happy, leave.
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Ian
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It's just trust, chill out and get some.
And don't consider the ex's a threat. If your relationship is strong, they're not. But you need the strength before you expel the vulnerability.
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Phi
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plus its early days , 7 months isnt long!
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Lawrah
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I dont know what people are talking about an ex ? Shes not talking about an ex ?
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Phi
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someone else mention ex, i think the two stories are gettign confused
[Edited on 01-09-2008 by Corsa_phi]
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Ian
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quote:
Originally posted by xxJ0D13xx
i just dont trust his ex's around him because they do try and even infront of me
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xxJ0D13xx
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Thanks for the replies, Think i'm going to just stick it out and see what happens next
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Dom
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quote:
Originally posted by Lawrah
I dont know what people are talking about an ex ? Shes not talking about an ex ?
And where did you get the idea that
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... he wants to be controlling
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Phi
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is your b.f Cosmo? he likes to be in control so i hear :/
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Cosmo
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Im an easy going guy tbh, laid back and fairly happy to go with the flow.
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Phi
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whatever
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Originally posted by willay
women.org/asm
Tee hee.
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