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All Torque

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15th Jun 08 at 00:01

Worst topic heading ev4r.. etc.

How do you cope when your BF or GF moves far away wether its work/Uni/other and you see them < once a month and hardly hear from them? What arrangements do you have to see them?

Has anyone had to end a relationship (or even a friendship) due to this?
Was it mutaul or was there some sleeping around involved? (Road Trip)

My head feels like a sack of spanners at the moment, GF is going to uni in September and if I don't get my insecurities/paranioa out of the way its going to end sooner rather than later

Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Dan Lewis

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15th Jun 08 at 00:09

she'll nail someone in uni

All Torque

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15th Jun 08 at 00:11

Who knows.

CorsAsh

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15th Jun 08 at 00:11

quote:
Originally posted by Dan Lewis
she'll nail someone in uni

Too much of a "free love, fuck anything with a pulse mentality". Even if she's devoted to you, there's too much temptation.

Sorry to say it Pete, but it happened to me. I hope I'm wrong and it doesn't happen to you.

[Edited on 15-06-2008 by CorsAsh]

All Torque

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15th Jun 08 at 00:15

I know Ash.

Also, she has a lot of college friends, a few really close friends, her family and me. She simply cannot keep close to ALL them at uni so I KNOW some people are going to get hurt and the way things are at the moment I'm going to be one of them

:'(

If you hold a butterfly too tightly in your hands you'll suffocate it but if you simply let it go it'll became a beautiful thing

jacko198

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15th Jun 08 at 00:16

Get her to go to one neer you so she can still live at home

All Torque

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15th Jun 08 at 00:17

quote:
Originally posted by jacko198
Get her to go to one neer you so she can still live at home

Not possible at all. Shes going to Aberwrystwyth

240 miles away each way.

Dan Lewis

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15th Jun 08 at 00:18

quote:
Originally posted by jacko198
Get her to go to one neer you so she can still live at home

not really the mentality to have though. if she wants to go to a uni miles and miles away its her decition. maybe you should think now about your options. be months and months of only seeing her briefly or think about ending it now before anyone gets hurt. as you'll be spending more time with your mates and you'll both have more temptation.,

CorsAsh

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15th Jun 08 at 00:20

quote:
Originally posted by All Torque
I know Ash.

Also, she has a lot of college friends, a few really close friends, her family and me. She simply cannot keep close to ALL them at uni so I KNOW some people are going to get hurt and the way things are at the moment I'm going to be one of them :'(

If you hold a butterfly too tightly in your hands you'll suffocate it but if you simply let it go it'll became a beautiful thing

Or, like the t-shirt the ex I'm referring to bought, "If you love something, let it go free, if it comes back it's forever, if not, who gives a FCUK."

I took it as a hint. Ta rah.

jacko198

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15th Jun 08 at 00:20

fuck me!

Im sure it will be fine mate, all depends on what kinda girl she is.

My girlfriend goes to uni round here, and lives at home, but im going to oxford next year, so it will be the same kinda

But she doesnt really like going out, getting pissed, she is shy, doesnt talk to lads etc etc, so i am really not worried at all!
Where as if she went out all the time, getting pissed etc, i would be worried!

Dan Lewis

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15th Jun 08 at 00:21

going uni WILL change her jacko198 no matter how you think other wise or she will end up as a social outcast at uni

jacko198

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15th Jun 08 at 00:22

Also, is there a reason why she is going all that distance away?
I.e isnt there a uni closer that does the same course? Have you checked?

Ben G

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15th Jun 08 at 00:22

my girlfriend lives in scotland, i live in essex.

i fly up there every couple months and she flys down here every so often.

it is difficult but it's so amazing when we see eachother (

) that i wouldn't change her for the world.

just gotta stick with it until you can be together. only another 7 months wait for me

and to add, i've cheated on her because i gave in to temptation

worse thing ever. she hasn't cheated on me, even though i've interrogated her loads of times

[Edited on 15-06-2008 by Ben G]

CorsAsh

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15th Jun 08 at 00:23

Teetotal girls are less of a worry. But students are actively encouraged to get plastered and wake up with a random or two.

I'd never touch a girl who admitted having a bf after knowing what it's like to be the guy miles away worrying. Plus if she's willing to cheat on him with you, how can you trust her?

Ahhh, early morning relationship discussions. Gotta love em.

jacko198

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15th Jun 08 at 00:23

quote:
Originally posted by Dan Lewis
going uni WILL change her jacko198 no matter how you think other wise or she will end up as a social outcast at uni

Yeah i know that mate, worries me a tiny bit, but i trust her 100000%

All Torque

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15th Jun 08 at 00:23

I need to speak with MattK, he has it dialled

jacko198

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15th Jun 08 at 00:24

quote:
Originally posted by CorsAsh
Teetotal girls are less of a worry. But students are actively encouraged to get plastered and wake up with a random or two.

I'd never touch a girl who admitted having a bf after knowing what it's like to be the guy miles away worrying. Plus if she's willing to cheat on him with you, how can you trust her?

Ahhh, early morning relationship discussions. Gotta love em.

True, thats the good thing about my girlfriend living at home for the 3 years of uni

Ben G

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15th Jun 08 at 00:25

just enjoy the time while you can, get the fuck off CS right now and go spend time with her.

you don't know just how lucky you are that you can see your girlfriend whenever you want.

mines 400 miles away

All Torque

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15th Jun 08 at 00:27

I can't see her right now as shes doing college work since how deadlines were brought forward.

But I'd like to spend ever hour with her if it was possible, maybe she has other ideas.

CorsAsh

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15th Jun 08 at 00:27

quote:
Originally posted by All Torque
I need to speak with MattK, he has it dialled

Pete, just carry on, make a shotof it, but be prepared for the worst. That way, when it doesn't happen, you'll be all the more happy.

What's the deal with you two? Both had a fair bit of experience or otherwise? A common reason for a break up is wanting to see other people whilst the chance is there, not be with just one person.

Ben G

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15th Jun 08 at 00:29

quote:
Originally posted by All Torque
I can't see her right now as shes doing college work since how deadlines were brought forward.

But I'd like to spend ever hour with her if it was possible, maybe she has other ideas.

she needs to take her mind off it. go and shag her

CorsAsh

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15th Jun 08 at 00:30

Nothing aids revision like a slipping her a cock from behind.

All Torque

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15th Jun 08 at 00:38

quote:
Originally posted by CorsAsh

What's the deal with you two? Both had a fair bit of experience or otherwise? A common reason for a break up is wanting to see other people whilst the chance is there, not be with just one person.

5 sexual partners each, this is the strongest relationship either of us has had.

I dont' want it to end, but I don't want to hold her back.

SVM 286

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15th Jun 08 at 00:40

Pete! Stop being such a bloody gay you great big massive bloody gay you!

Mornin dear btw

CorsAsh

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15th Jun 08 at 00:41

quote:
Originally posted by All Torque

quote:
Originally posted by CorsAsh

What's the deal with you two? Both had a fair bit of experience or otherwise? A common reason for a break up is wanting to see other people whilst the chance is there, not be with just one person.

5 sexual partners each, this is the strongest relationship either of us has had.

I dont' want it to end, but I don't want to hold her back.

Just relax then, you've a good chance of working through it. Probably gone past the sexual novelty stage

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