VTR2008
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So, I dunno if you guys remember, but a while back I said that there was this girl I was mad for and blah blah blah. I can't remember if I said, but last Friday I came out and asked her out on a PROPER date. No sitting there wondering if it was a date date or a mate date.
Anyway, she said "Yea that would be cool, we could hang out... just as friends"
And I was pretty gutted
Anyway, earlier on today we met up for a jam round at my friends house. We were working on stuff for a few hours and we eventually ran out of steam and left. Now as I walked her home, I was thinking about what I could do. Could I say to her "Look, I really like you, you know... like THAT" and at least that would clear up any confusion that either of us may have. It's out in the open, blunt and mainly CLEAR.
But then I thought "Hey... but what if she's not sure if she likes me? And she wants to hang out as friends before saying anything just to make sure of how she feels?". Tough call, I know. But either way I'd have to work out what to do or say pretty soon.
Anyway, we get to her door and I say to her, We're no strangers to love. You know the rules and so do I. A full commitment's what I'm thinking of, you wouldn't get this from any other guy. I just gotta tell you what I'm feeling... gotta make you understand. Never gonna give you up, never gonna let you down, never gonna run around and desert you. Never gonna make you cry, never gonna say goodbye, never gonna tell a lie and hurt you. We've known each other for so long, your heart's been aching but you're too shy to say it. Inside we both know what's been going on, we know the rules and we're gonna play it. And if you ask me how I'm feeling, don't tell me you're too blind to see.
What should i do?
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Jambo
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Stop bumming Rick Astley and ask her to dance on the sausage
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Paul_J
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Sounds to me that she doesn't fancy you and you're in the friends zone...
No real option to get out of that mate, just have to accept the fact you're gonna be mates and no more, apart from maybe a drunk night in the future sorry bud.
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All Torque
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RICKROLLED  
Lulz.
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Paul_J
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quote: Originally posted by VTR2008
Anyway, she said "Yea that would be cool, we could hang out... just as friends"
As harsh as it is... if she felt that anything may happen between you in the future she would not of made this point clear to you. This is just like saying 'friends and no further'.... unlucky bud...
[Edited on 16-04-2008 by Paul_J]
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Steve
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just have friendly sex?
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antoni
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get steve onto her facebook dood, he can sort it all out
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BluKoo
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is this a joke with the,
"Never gonna give you up, never gonna let you down, never gonna run around and desert you. Never gonna make you cry, never gonna say goodbye, never gonna tell a lie and hurt you."
please tell me you actually said that 
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Blade_sri
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quote: Originally posted by BluKoo
is this a joke with the,
"Never gonna give you up, never gonna let you down, never gonna run around and desert you. Never gonna make you cry, never gonna say goodbye, never gonna tell a lie and hurt you."
please tell me you actually said that 
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Steve
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pmsl
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VTR2008
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quote: Originally posted by All Torque
RICKROLLED  
Lulz.
  
Had a giggle over this tbh. Sorry lads
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CorsAsh
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I prefer the Lionel Richie approach and molesting blind girls.
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SVM 286
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rapist
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Whittie
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mike
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Russ
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lol @ story.
i left my old office friday, and to say good bye i said,
thanks everyone, for the times you've given me, the memorys are... well there all in my mind, but now that we've come to the end of our.. rainbow, then broke into song and danced out the room. 
well i laughed anyway
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VTR2008
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quote: Originally posted by Whittie
mike
Hush   
[Edited on 17-04-2008 by VTR2008]
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Andy Stocker
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quote: Originally posted by Jambo
Stop bumming Rick Astley and ask her to dance on the sausage
Bish, bash, bosh .... that'll get you a nosh
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foxyk8t
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It does sound that she wants more friends at the mo you never know tho it may happen, The last paragraph came across a bit strong but it's nice to know men do actually think with their heads not always with their.....
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Theham85
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quote: Originally posted by foxyk8t
It does sound that she wants more friends at the mo you never know tho it may happen, The last paragraph came across a bit strong but it's nice to know men do actually think with their dangly bits not always with their.....
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dave17
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at the people doing legit replies, read first goddamn it
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foxyk8t
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quote: Originally posted by Theham85
quote: Originally posted by foxyk8t
It does sound that she wants more friends at the mo you never know tho it may happen, The last paragraph came across a bit strong but it's nice to know men do actually think with their dangly bits not always with their.....
Yeah yeah very funny maybe alot do think with their dangly bits? and yes i did read it i thought he was being serious
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Theham85
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Am sorry
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C2RL R
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is any of this serious or is it all a shit joke?
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Robbo
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quote: Originally posted by dave17
at the people doing legit replies, read first goddamn it
I thought this too
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