kz
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mum bought up something weird tonight. spent the weekend away with the missus in a hotel this weekend. she wrote I <3 CD (initials...) on my hand. and mum says, well, do you? (as in do i love her) i said nah...
she was really surprised!? said nearly five months is a long time to go out with someone without feeling love. do you think so? i dont...
i mean ive been in love before, quicker, but with this gf i do really really like her! but she also does annoy the shit outta me sometimes lol. it aint love though. is it harsh to keep going out with someone without saying how i feel? i reckon im safe at least up to about 10 months surely lol 
TO SUM UP: what this is about, how long before you said you love your current partner?
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sand-eel
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just don't say to her that you don't
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Haimsey
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Ive fallen in love too easily before
I try not to fall in love these days 
Marcy Marc 
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Rebecca
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quote:
Originally posted by Haimsey
Ive fallen in love too easily before
I try not to fall in love these days
Ditto.
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kz
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exactly i think i am kinda trying hard not to, lol
my mate said just wait for her to say it first! you in control then 
another point is what if i say it and dont get it back, ouch! shes probably thinking that too. but somedays i do wanna break up with her im an awkward cunt
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ShEp
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Love is a mugs game, and its fucking expensive
fuck buddy ftw
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All Torque
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Known my GF for 4 years, fell in love with her on her birthday last year which was a month into the relationship  There were feelings sooner but she was still with her ex and I didn't want to be an utter twat and split them up.
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dan_c4rsa
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ive only been in loev once, and it took me about 2 years AFTER the relationship to realise i was
Glad i have been though even if i didnt know it, cant be arsed looking for it, if i fall i fall ey.
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LeahWGA
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i said to ant i loved him after 2 months... he felt the same.. so it was all good 
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myke
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I'm sure you know when it's right, but i cringe and feel embarassed for one mate in particular who always says the dreaded to a new bird after 4-6 weeks.
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LeahWGA
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my first relationship i said the L word after 5 months..... think i only said it cus he did... MISTAKE!!
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kz
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i am just a confused being
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Steve
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i dont think you can properly love someone after 5 months.
5 months your not very attached to the person still, imo i could leave someone after 5 months without feeling much, actually did it to two people of 3 years +
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chloe16v
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me and my bf both new we was in love before we was going out with each other, we had known each other for some time before we got together, i left my ex for him, so it wasnt long before we both said it, now we have 3 kids
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Matt H
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It's the same as the word sorry. People say it, but rarely mean it
Even if you say it & don't mean it, so fucking what? It's a word, there are no rules for saying words
People get too carried away with "love" I think. Probably because it's a marketable thing
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Steve
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quote:
Originally posted by cb87
me and my bf both new we was in love before we was going out with each other, we had known each other for some time before we got together, i left my ex for him, so it wasnt long before we both said it, now we have 3 kids
its clear as day you never attended school
[Edited on 30-03-2008 by Steve]
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Steve
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quote:
Originally posted by Matt H
It's the same as the word sorry. People say it, but rarely mean it
Even if you say it & don't mean it, so fucking what? It's a word, there are no rules for saying words
People get too carried away with "love" I think. Probably because it's a marketable thing
i love you
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Matt H
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quote:
Originally posted by Steve
quote:
Originally posted by Matt H
It's the same as the word sorry. People say it, but rarely mean it
Even if you say it & don't mean it, so fucking what? It's a word, there are no rules for saying words
People get too carried away with "love" I think. Probably because it's a marketable thing
i love you
I don't feel the same way, sorry.
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chloe16v
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quote:
Originally posted by Steve
quote:
Originally posted by cb87
me and my bf both new we was in love before we was going out with each other, we had known each other for some time before we got together, i left my ex for him, so it wasnt long before we both said it, now we have 3 kids
its clear as day you never attended school
[Edited on 30-03-2008 by Steve]
yeah steve i know i didnt go to skool but whats your problem??  
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Hammer
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It's over rated and leaves you weak, cold hearted cunt FTW.
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JonnyJ
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I love lamp
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kz
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quote:
Originally posted by Hammer
It's over rated and leaves you weak, cold hearted cunt FTW.
there speaks a man whos been burnt! i feel ya brother
(not literally, if you have a brother)
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Hammer
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I refuse to get too involved to get burnt
p.s. Leave my brother alone please
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Shelly
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I fall in love too easy, give my trust too easy.
Next time, they earn my trust.
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chloe16v
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all you men act like your all hard men and will never get hurt but in reality most of you have, or will get hurt
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