Reedy
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What the hell, just a minute ago i went outside to spray my throttle body on the pug and i noticed a paramedic down at the end of the drive. I went to inspect and around the corner was loads of cop cars. Looked at why they were and the guy down the road tried to kill him self by turning on all his motorbikes and closing the garage. Luckily somebody mowing the lawn heard a shout from his wife and broke open the garage.
Messed up thing is, I talk to this guy like everyday and hes such a decent guy. I just cant believe it.
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Robin
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 thats a bit random.
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Reedy
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Originally posted by robmarriott
thats a bit random.
your telling me mate. I was speaking to him yesterday and he was all fine - well i thought he was.
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Eck
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jesus  will be awkward talking to him again
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Reedy
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Originally posted by Eckmcmann
jesus will be awkward talking to him again
no, im gonna just play it like it never happened.
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Reedy
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Thing is, the reason he wanted to kill himself is because he had a brain hemerage and ever since hes been in alot of pain. Thing is doctors cant do much more for him.
Listerning to the streets gossip, he wanted to kill himself because he couldnt handle another day with the pain, he couldnt sleep at night it was that bad.
[Edited on 27-08-2006 by Ian]
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Corsalad87
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Thats shoot
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Reedy
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Originally posted by corsaboy87
Thats shoot
exactly, being in pain everyday. No wonder he wanted to end it.
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Corsalad87
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No doubt he'll have another go if he is in a stable frame of mind ( Ie not put in mental institute for few weeks)
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Reedy
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Originally posted by corsaboy87
No doubt he'll have another go if he is in a stable frame of mind ( Ie not put in mental institute for few weeks)
im not sure, i dont think he will be put in a mental institute as he kinda has a reason why. Its not like hes mental. Hes one of the nicest people you could ever meet. I think he will be back home soon, probably depends on how long the hospital keep him in for.
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Eck
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poor guy  should he not be prescribed some sort of pain killers
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Reedy
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Originally posted by Eckmcmann
poor guy should he not be prescribed some sort of pain killers
i beleive he is on medication but i think the doctors cant prescribe anymore - probably cause more danger to his health.
Thing is, the pain wont ever stop, even with pain killers he will still have it.
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Jambo
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thats bad man, i hope he is in a better frame of mind. feeling for his wife...
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Reedy
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Originally posted by Jambo
thats bad man, i hope he is in a better frame of mind. feeling for his wife...
yeah shes gone with him in the ambulance.
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Shelly
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a few years ago my next door but one neighbour hung himself in his garage because he found out he had cancer. he was banging about in his garage all day making something to do it with.
i had to go to the inquest as i was the last one to see him peeping round his gate.
i don't know what goes through peoples minds to do such a thing, they must be pretty low to be in that place.
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RS6
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proper depressing!
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SVM 286
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quote:
Originally posted by Reedy
Thing is, the reason he wanted to kill himself is because he had a brain hemerage and ever since hes been in alot of pain. Thing is doctors cant do much more for him.
Listerning to the streets gossip, he wanted to kill himself because he couldnt handle another day with the pain, he couldnt sleep at night it was that bad.
Poor sod. That's terrible.
Can't belive they can't prescribe anything for the pain.
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Adam-D
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no way
my mum and dad are on almost the stongest pescription pain killers you can get- and they have good and bad days
to want to end it must be terrible,
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Reedy
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quote:
Originally posted by Shelly
a few years ago my next door but one neighbour hung himself in his garage because he found out he had cancer. he was banging about in his garage all day making something to do it with.
i had to go to the inquest as i was the last one to see him peeping round his gate.
i don't know what goes through peoples minds to do such a thing, they must be pretty low to be in that place.
luckily he didnt succeed. Gonna drop a card round later and just say that im round the corner if they need me.
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Shelly
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that would be a nice thing to do
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Ally
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You can reach rock bottom, it takes one hell of a build up thou, people who decide to end their lives will think about it every day for a while.
Its hard to imagine the pain you can be in untill you experience it yourself, at least now people know how bad he is and will get the help he needs
Reedy if u speak to him everyday then let him know your there, and just chat to him as normally as you can.
He may be sectioned under the mental health act and kept inside for days/weeks/months after hes had his assesment
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Ally
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PS - dropping a card round is a brilliant idea, good man 
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SVM 286
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Originally posted by Reedy
luckily he didnt succeed. Gonna drop a card round later and just say that im round the corner if they need me.
 Nice thought Reedy.
Having some support from the people around you can make all the difference when it comes to a situation like this.
[Edited on 27-08-2006 by SVM 286]
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Bonney
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there was someone around the corner from us that did it, everyone that knew him was saying that he was a really nice person, he had a nice house a wife and kids, then one night he hung himself in his shead
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All Torque
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Two people in my village commited suicide after bad GCSE results There must have been so much pressure on to succeed that anything below an A is total failure
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