Rus
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was a friends leaving due today, was all going to meet up after work at this bar.
For very personally reasons, i wasn't able to make it and headed straight off home.
not wanting to say my real reason, i said to him eariler in the day i woudn't be able to make it because i'm not in the mood and feel horrible.
i know its harsh way of putting it but didn't really have a choice.
He's just texted me now saying
"Cheers 4 not coming tonight it spoke volumes! Have a good life! Shame ur not half the man ur brother is"
i texted him back saying theres more to it than i just didn't want to come. But he's being really narrow minded about this, i feel bad even though i couldn't do anything about it
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Sam
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Gaz
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say you will go for a drink with him 1-2-1 and say good bye that way...
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Steve
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[Edited on 20-05-2006 by Steve]
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Jambo
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you know who likes you and who doesnt. You know who your friends are and you know who arent.
You dont need to attend a do to prove this.
His loss, as you said you have your reasons, he's obviously just after some cock
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Matt H
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Tell him to go get fucked, if he's like that over one lousy drink he's probably an arse anyway.
Or just put "Thanks for understanding why I couldn't come, it spoke volumes"
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Matt H
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Or "Sorry I couldn't come, I was shunting your mother"
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Marc
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I'd of replied with some choice words, but thats me 
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Sam
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You should have asked him to MMS you some pics of his willy.
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Matt H
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Post his number up 
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Jules S
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Depends on the reason you couldn't make it I guess.
Bottom line is you should have called him and told him. text is perceived as the wimps way when relaying bad/unpleasant news 
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Rus
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i said to his face that i'm "not going to come"
well cheers for the tips guys, i've texted him back. See what happens
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Jules S
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just call him mate. text is stupid in this sort of situation 
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Rus
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ok, texted back. a bit more to the story here
its also another do tomorrow for another guy, which i said i'll go to. So he's just texted back saying why can i go to tomorrow's but not his. saying he's all fucked off about it.
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Gaz
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does he want your ass?
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Marc
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I'd of stopped texting him by now Rus!
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Rus
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i'm in a bit of a pickle here arn't i
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Cosmo
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tell him to fuck off. If he was an OK fella he would of understood when you said there was more too it. Just leave it there and not bother with him.
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Gaz
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send him number on to the gay chat room's and local fone boxes... he'll have a reason to be pissed off then
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Rus
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i would, but were like one big family at work, if i fuck one off, it all gets awkward with everyone else. The last thing i wanna do is go to this due tomorrow and him turning up. but i dont, not wanna go because otherwize i'll piss the other guy off. Ahhhh
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Rus
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Gaz, your Really not helping here
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Gaz
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sorry Rus,
As per my first message, 1-on-1 drink with him, would he not appriciate it more?
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Rus
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no worries mate  i'll let tonight cool down and see what happens tomorrow
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corb
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or, as he's being an arse about it, tell him the real reason you couldnt make it and that your well hacked off he couldnt just appreciate 'your word' in the first instance.
make him feel really guilty about being a complete arse.
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SVM 286
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quote:
Originally posted by Jambo
he's obviously just after some cock
Jambo you terrible fucker.
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