1 SCR
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Any of your girlfriends going on holiday with there mates this year? Mine is. Dreading it like mad but there's nothing i can do really. Im not gonna stop her. Its not that im insecure, but when you think that your girlfriend is in a foreign country with fcukin dickhead guys just wantin to get laid, kinda makes u worry. Not just that, the rape side of it aswell. I no of girl that got raped on holiday whilst with her mates and its really making me cringe.
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dna23
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Dont get to caught up, it's matters beyong your control mate... Just make sure she's aware of the dangers .etc without being to pushy and i'm sure it'll be fine
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Tom
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Chill out, you can't control everything have some faith.
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1 SCR
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yeah true, thanks guys. Just a bit worrying if you no what i mean but i trust her and have faith.
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Jamie Walby
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Originally posted by 1 SCR
Its not that im insecure.
Course you arent 
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abdus
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is she going to rape land? LOL
I guess there's no need to worry, as dna23 said, it's just a matter of her knowing the dangers and also she needs to know the limits too...
[Edited on 05-05-2006 by abdus]
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Cosmo
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If she likes + respects you then she wont cheat, regardless what the lads are like.
And girls get raped all over the world, not just when they go on holiday. If she is as careful as you should be anywhere else then she'll be fine.
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1 SCR
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Originally posted by Jamie Walby
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Originally posted by 1 SCR
Its not that im insecure.
Course you arent
if one of ur mates was raped im sure ud get worried if ur gf was away for 3 weeks with horny guys that could take advantage. , now im ranting, sorry.
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ed
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Stop whining, no one cares.
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Lynny
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quote:
Originally posted by Cosmo
If she likes + respects you then she wont cheat, regardless what the lads are like.
And girls get raped all over the world, not just when they go on holiday. If she is as careful as you should be anywhere else then she'll be fine.
exactly, just as much chance in this country....unfortunantly...
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1 SCR
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yeah true
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K2 GTi
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lol might only be me, but i wouldnt trust my missus going away fro 3 weeks whether id been with her 4 years or 4 months! feel for you mate id hate to be in your possition! if you went away with the lads, all girls round you, and knew no1 wouild find out... would you do anything?
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Lynny
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just tell her to watch her drinks etc, not let anyone buy her one, and if possible drink bottles. plus you can get these new things for bottles which stops peopel putting things in yor drink
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Tom
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Hoy you can't think like that though, I have been like that in the past but where's it gonna get you, do you think your g/f will like you more if you say she can't go on holiday with her mates?! If I was goign out with a girl and she found that normal I probably wouldn't like her anymore
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Lynny
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Originally posted by K2 HOY
if you went away with the lads, all girls round you, and knew no1 wouild find out... would you do anything?
hope all blokes dont think like this!
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abdus
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simple mate: go with her
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Hammer
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Originally posted by ed
Stop whining, no one cares.
you have got to be the most dour faced depressing individual ever.
Getting back to the point like everyone says if you start worrying and it comes across to your girlfriend your not doing yourself any favours, unfortunately theres wanks all over the world so it could happen anywhere.
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1 SCR
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if im honest i wouldnt do anything. Reckon there might be some comments made now but honestly i wouldnt do anything cuz i love her to bits. i no fine there would be some way she'd find out anyway. But its gonna be tough. Had a lil incident in the past with something similar but wont go into details.
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Lynny
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iv got a mate who went on holiday and cheated on his lass with 3 other birds, caught an STI
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K2 GTi
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Originally posted by lynny_sxi
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Originally posted by K2 HOY
if you went away with the lads, all girls round you, and knew no1 wouild find out... would you do anything?
hope all blokes dont think like this!
i didnt say i would, or he would, or other lads would..... i just asked him teh question
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Lynny
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Originally posted by K2 HOY
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Originally posted by lynny_sxi
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Originally posted by K2 HOY
if you went away with the lads, all girls round you, and knew no1 wouild find out... would you do anything?
hope all blokes dont think like this!
i didnt say i would, or he would, or other lads would..... i just asked him teh question
i know you didnt say you would, but alot of people do think like this
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K2 GTi
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Originally posted by ed
Stop whining, no one cares.
lol, your a gimp mate
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Jamie Walby
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Originally posted by 1 SCR
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Originally posted by Jamie Walby
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Originally posted by 1 SCR
Its not that im insecure.
Course you arent
if one of ur mates was raped im sure ud get worried if ur gf was away for 3 weeks with horny guys that could take advantage. , now im ranting, sorry.
How do you know one of my mates hasnt, how do you know one of my family members hasnt  What if you said something like that to someone on the internet not knowing that person and hit a raw nerve.......
not that i know anyone that has,.......but WHAT IF
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1 SCR
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Originally posted by Sxi04
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Originally posted by ed
Stop whining, no one cares.
you have got to be the most dour faced depressing individual ever.
Getting back to the point like everyone says if you start worrying and it comes across to your girlfriend your not doing yourself any favours, unfortunately theres wanks all over the world so it could happen anywhere.
Yeah, i'll just have to chill a bit. thanks mate, most appreciated.
Sorry if ive bored you ed but im sure you'd love it if everyone went ''We dont give a Fcuk'' if u had a problem or worry.
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Lynny
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end of the day mate, everyone gets a bit insecure when they love someone, its only naturaly, it's better than sayin you're not bothered if she pulls etc, least this way you show you care about her!
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