--Dave--
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I text someone (while extremely pished) something along the lines of "do you fancy some fun tonight" 
Thing is a vaguely remember doing it but I'm not proud of it because
a) gf won't appreciate it
b) this girl isn't exactly nice on the eye and is a bit of a munter
I hope she doesn't go blabbing her fat mouth to everyone we know.
What's the best course of action to take should the above be true? Deny all knowledge and say a mate did it?
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Pablo
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mate did it 
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Tom
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Defo say a mate did it, it won't get you anywhere blaming it on the beer
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Cavey
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I text someone saying "I heart you" the other night
(not quite as bad as what you did)
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Nismo
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no be truefule ,
She should respect you for being truefull with her , people who lie dont deserve a relationship.
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Tom
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BTW tell your mate your blame them first I did this once and my mate happily went along with it (pissed ex g/friend had seen us necking a bird and my mate was wearing the same as me and looks very simila to me) never got caught
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Pablo
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Ok, whos logged on as Nemo, cos dont sound like him 
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Marc
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My mates do this with my phone all the time, forget about it
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Nismo
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quote:
Originally posted by P4UL
Ok, whos logged on as Nemo, cos dont sound like him
no i can assure you its me
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bradfincham
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say as shes a heffer she makes it up as she wants your wily, then when she shows the text to her mates say she made it up!!
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--Dave--
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quote:
Originally posted by Nismo
no be truefule ,
She should respect you for being truefull with her , people who lie dont deserve a relationship.
I'm worried that she will blow up in my face and go mental ape donkey kong kung fu on my ass
seriously
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Colin
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Just say a mate school-boy error'd your sorry ass
We do it all the time with mates phones, texting your mates driving instructor or work mates that they fancy them is rather amusing
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--Dave--
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Originally posted by Tom
BTW tell your mate your blame them first I did this once and my mate happily went along with it (pissed ex g/friend had seen us necking a bird and my mate was wearing the same as me and looks very simila to me) never got caught
not quite as bad as what i've done really Tom
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Tom
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quote:
Originally posted by --Dave--
quote:
Originally posted by Tom
BTW tell your mate your blame them first I did this once and my mate happily went along with it (pissed ex g/friend had seen us necking a bird and my mate was wearing the same as me and looks very simila to me) never got caught
not quite as bad as what i've done really Tom
legend
But the principles remain the same
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Jonny P
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Mate did it
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CCA
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Its better to be truthful with her from the start as if she found out later on then the chance of her trusting you again would be much worse as you would have lied to cover your back
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James@CCC
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yea, u need to tell the truth. tell ur gf and tell her u did it for a laugh as u think she mings.
if u lie and are found out shell resume u meant it and so on and the relationship becomes poo
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Nismo
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quote:
Originally posted by --Dave--
quote:
Originally posted by Nismo
no be truefule ,
She should respect you for being truefull with her , people who lie dont deserve a relationship.
I'm worried that she will blow up in my face and go mental ape donkey kong kung fu on my ass
seriously
And when she finds out , cus she will they allways do, she will then blow up in your face and it will be worse as you hid it from her.
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Lynny
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definantly be truthful, i went through similar situation with an ex, he had an ex texting him, and he replied couple of times, didnt tell me as thought id kick off, i found out anyways, things were much worse for him...
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--Dave--
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quote:
Originally posted by James@CCC
yea, u need to tell the truth. tell ur gf and tell her u did it for a laugh as u think she mings.
This is the reason why I did it.
Mate just emailed me saying that they text her on my phone while i was sat next to them laughing
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Dannie
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quote:
Originally posted by Lynny
definantly be truthful, i went through similar situation with an ex, he had an ex texting him, and he replied couple of times, didnt tell me as thought id kick off, i found out anyways, things were much worse for him...
same happened to me.
be honest
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Tom
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But if he goes and tells her she's gonna doubt him anyway, especially if he makes a big deal out of it, she'll probably think he's hiding much more than what he's saying.
Dave why did you have this pigs number in the first place
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CCA
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If he tells her the truth straight away then yesh it'll take a while to trust him fully again but if he covers it up and then she finds out his life will be much worse
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Cybermonkey
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try and bring it up in casual convo, sort of between something irrelevant that a mate used your phone to text a munter.
Personally i would go with th truth thing and say you are very sorry.
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--Dave--
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not sure why her number was on my phone to be honest.
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