LoudandProud
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Split up with my fiance of 2 1/2 year at the weekend as she was complaining about me never being able to spend all my time with her when all i have done is treat her like a princess and havedone everything she has ever asked or needed, That excuse would normally be a fair point but she wanted us to move intogether so i had to do "work" on the side as im in IT and you can do private IT work and earn ££, so i did this to be able to afford a place, so she moans about the time thing so i spend more time and cant do the work and had less ££.
Then she just ends it without noa ctual explaination other than "you never havetime for me and wait on me like you used too"
What a fukin cheek!
Now im heartbroken and pished off.
thought i would share that rant with you  
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Ally
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If she made you get a second job then its not worth it, she will come running, you will knock her back and feel a million times better because she obviously isnt the one for you
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TNM
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screw her then!
She wanted your wallet not you!
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Jason Iles
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We will never understand women and vice versa mate.
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LET Nova
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Thats your problem mate....women like to be treated mean. treat them mean keep em keen. No point bending over backwards for them as "most" of them dont appreciate it
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Tom
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Agreed she was taking the piss, you found out in time 
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Kerry
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i hate these threads 
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Tom
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quote:
Originally posted by Kerry
i hate these threads
I love them PMSL 
***Rant rant rant rant rant**
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Kerry
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quote:
Originally posted by Tom
quote:
Originally posted by Kerry
i hate these threads
I love them PMSL
***Rant rant rant rant rant**
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Tom
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quote:
Originally posted by Kerry
quote:
Originally posted by Tom
quote:
Originally posted by Kerry
i hate these threads
I love them PMSL
***Rant rant rant rant rant**
See deep down you love them too
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Andrew
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AT least you have the money saved for a house 
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Jambo
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Who did the splitting up?
If she was your fiancee, instead of ending the relationship, why didnt u tell her to shut the fuck up and show her what you do for her?
IF she was serious about marriage etc then she will listen. Seems silly to me to bin all of that cos she says opne thing to you.
But then, thats just a snippet you just gave us and this is the internet so i dont fucking know
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LoudandProud
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Originally posted by Kerry
i hate these threads
you mayhate them but i dont see you trying to defend women? is it cos maybe, JUST MAYBE i have a point? 
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Kerry
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look you have been dumped
it happens all the time
men dump women and women dump men
its always for a reason and not just because its what all women do
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Jambo
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AY51MEE
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sounds a bit pants, why dont u try and talk to each other? A good argument and a bit of space sometimes goes along way to make things better. It seems a shame to throw such a long time together away. Its your decision at the end of the day, hope ur happy with whatever happens x
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Kerry
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x
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Skipz
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What it looks to me is the classic case of spoilt brat syndrome on her part..
i had this with my Ex, I kept complaining about never having money to do things with her or for repairs to the corsa, so she got me a well paid job Working for her dad, that was fine but it was 6 days a week and i was leaving the house at 7 and home for 7 for a 9-5 job! was totally shattered and hardly saw her she moaned because i used to see her all the time and since taking the job i hrdly saw her!!! in the end i got fed up with her constant moaning that we never spent time together! When all i was trying to do was get extra money to get buy her stuff (off my own back she never really asked for anything) and keep the Corsa on the road..
I ended it before she did, I wanted a Break but she kept annoying me so i eventaully told her i wanted to Split for good and found somebody else the same night not my smartest move but it worked  Now she cant keep a boyfriend because she works 12 hour shifts 3 days on 3 days off (which i used to put up with!!) and she feels that she was unfair towards me..
Sounds to me thats exactly whats happened with you except she's the one thats ended it,
Best thing to do is think about what you have gained and what you have lost,
1. you've gained extra cash
2. you've lost that annoying headache
3. you can now go out and find a Girl that doesnt want you for your money
[Edited on 17-05-2005 by h18_oab]
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Andrew
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3 days on 3 days off is well good. Wish my job was like that 
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Skipz
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Originally posted by Peugeot Nut
3 days on 3 days off is well good. Wish my job was like that
yes 3 days on 3 days off is well good when your doing 12 hour shifts
we hardly went out and it was hard to spend time with her with me practically pulling 12 hour shifts to do a 9-5 job!! also with that kind of shift work it meant she also every so often had to work weekends so i ended up spending the weekends doing sod all!!
In your case you have no life so it would probably suit you
[Edited on 17-05-2005 by h18_oab]
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Originally posted by Ally
If she made you get a second job then its not worth it, she will come running, you will knock her back and feel a million times better because she obviously isnt the one for you
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Lynny
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what is it with tarring all women with the same brush saying we're never satisfied?
my other half works 3 on, 3 off 12 hour shifts, and i work full time on top of college, granted we dont see eachother as much as we like, but that means that the time we do spend together is more important to us! we dont feel that we have to go out on a night, specially as we're both normally so tired we enjoy having a night in together jst chilling, watchin tv, or even jst asleep next to eachother
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Matt H
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Not everyone is the same though Lynnethy.....
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Lynny
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quote:
Originally posted by Matt H
Not everyone is the same though Lynnethy.....
thats my point, post is entitled 'women never being satisfied', seems a bit stim saying we're all the same, not all women are slapper, gold digging chavs, jst as im sure all males arent abusive, cheating tossers
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Tom
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quote:
Originally posted by h18_oab
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Originally posted by Peugeot Nut
3 days on 3 days off is well good. Wish my job was like that
yes 3 days on 3 days off is well good when your doing 12 hour shifts
we hardly went out and it was hard to spend time with her with me practically pulling 12 hour shifts to do a 9-5 job!! also with that kind of shift work it meant she also every so often had to work weekends so i ended up spending the weekends doing sod all!!
In your case you have no life so it would probably suit you
[Edited on 17-05-2005 by h18_oab]
That's backwards, if I had a bird who worked weekends I'd be doing loads of things with my mates 
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