dave17
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grrrr danni is really starting to piss me off 
was 2yr anniversary las wk (13th) i didnt even get a card (she was too busy on her lunch break in the pub with the blokes from work)
14th she comes out with me an my mates, her being the only girl.
15th she wants to go out with her mates, fair enough, i go out with mine, but we go 2 the same place, i get an earful, tellimg me that im following her
comes to wednesday, she wants to go out with her mates from work and i offer 2 pick her up and stay at her house (bout 1am) turn up, shes sittin in the road pissed out her head, so i take her home, she passes out asleep, great  find out the next day that her trainer at work was trying it with her all night (only found this out because i overheard her on the phone 2 her mate)
thurday me and my mates decide were going to lloyds, danni turns round and says shes goin out with her mates, but they come lloyds too, so apparantly im following her again. (her trainer was there also, but she wouldn introduce us)
friday and she says she wants to stay at her step mums house, fair enough i go out with the lads and get pissed, we decide that were going to go lloyds again on the saturday.
saturday somes, she says shes goin out with her mates again, and asks me where were going, i say lloyds and she turns around and says we cant go there because shes going there? erm nah  so me and my mates go lloyds, danni turns up with her 1 mate and potters around with her all night. i go home with her, she falls asleep again.
comes round 2 today, she said she wants to come to the local with me an my mates (we do every sunday) so we organise that, shes comes upto mine, then my mates call and say they cant b arsed, so danni being danni, says she wants to go out, i offer cinema n a few drinks, then her mate calls and asks her to go out with her, so danni says yeh, leaves my house and goes out with her instead of me??
now shes goin on at me that i dont let her out on her own n that im too possessive? WTF
essay
[Edited on 27-03-2005 by Dave17]
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Drew
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summary?
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Jambo
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Mate, id have words. How can you follow her if u end up in the same place, so what if you do? apparently your a couple do you not like spending time together 
Seems pretty strange mate, not that i know you or her but from your essay i say she needs a quick stab in the wrong-un and then a seeya later.
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dave17
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erm, cant think of 1, il try:
she wants to go out with her mates, my mates want to go same place, so she moans that im folliwing her and am too possessive because i cant let her out of my sight
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'Which was nice'
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dave17
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Jambo - i offered to take her out in Croydon, but she said that couples dont go out jus the two of em to a club but on holiday we did it everynight
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Drew
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fk her arse again, while shouting 'take that ya bitch' wont help the situation any, but u will feel good for it 
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willay
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I think you should lay the smack down and post more pics 
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dave17
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quote:
Originally posted by willay
I think you should lay the smack down and post more pics
if i could get near her i would
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willay
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seriously dave, shes being a typical pain in the arse woman.
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willay
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just ignore her for awhile or some shit
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Jambo
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drew talks sense.
Dave, you seem to want to be with her. But she seems to feel all trapped, talk to her about it and tell her its making you confused and well pissed off.
Everyone needs time apart, but surely shes takin it a little too far?
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UPDATE - mates just phoned me and said hes going out to another club out of town (full of girls and my x girlfriends, offered to take danni their earlier but she said she dont wana go coz al my ex girlfriends flirt with me infront of her)
thatl wind her up proper 
[Edited on 27-03-2005 by Dave17]
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Dom
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sounds abit fucked mate, just tell her straight mate - but its sounds that your really dont spend much time with each other, maybe thats what you need to work on, because sounds you two just pass in the night, apart from the occasional "Do a Dave" moments 
However, if you want it over quickly, just admit that your sorry, buy her some flowers/chocs, treat out...you get the idea, and then get back to anal rammings
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willay
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man you're as much of a cunt as she is
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willay
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quote:
Originally posted by Dom
However, if you want it over quickly, just admit that your sorry, buy her some flowers/chocs, treat out...you get the idea, and then get back to anal rammings
Willay Ltd does not suggest this type of behavior as it will render you as
a) a dork
b) a complete pussy
Spending money on non-related cool stuff like flowers and chocolate is not the way forward. I suggest you tell her what the fucking deal is and that she has to put up with it.
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ohhhh and i forgot the most important bit!!!
the saturday we went out last week, she went back 2 some blokes flat with her mates n all his mates, but she made it so i couldn come (no where for me to stay, and i had no money n she wouldn lend me any for cabs)
so they stayed up till 7.30am drinkin, all passed out till bout 12, then she comes round mine, throws up and falls asleep. then when i moan that we dont spend any good time with eachother she said 'we spent all day sunday together' yeh right
[Edited on 27-03-2005 by Dave17]
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willay
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you need to keep in the loop and make sure she isnt getting ruined by some other jokers in West Wickham
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Women dont even get me started
Have words dave before sumit happens that you dont want to happen
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ditto they are all head fucks you ex sounds like mine just bin her dude cos u always seem to be going round in circles
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willay
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sod getting rid of her
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Dom
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quote:
Originally posted by Dave17
ohhhh and i forgot the most important bit!!!
the saturday we went out last week, she went back 2 some blokes flat with her mates n all his mates, but she made it so i couldn come (no where for me to stay, and i had no money n she wouldn lend me any for cabs)
so they stayed up till 7.30am drinkin, all passed out till bout 12, then she comes round mine, throws up and falls asleep. then when i moan that we dont spend any good time with eachother she said 'we spent all day sunday together' yeh right
[Edited on 27-03-2005 by Dave17]
ahhhh, if you said that lad i would have told you to tell her to GTF straight away!!!! Have words mate, like willay and everyone else said, otherwise it will lead to the worse mate - not a nice way to end things
But still, have words about not spending time with each - as her believing spending the night sleeping, is a day of being together then shes needs a kick up the butt pronto
Although, it also depends if your just with her for arse rammings or you actually want to be with her etc
[Edited on 27-03-2005 by Dom]
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dave17
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when were together were fine tho
thing is i cant b arsed 2 talk 2 her about it anymore, coz she just thinks im trying to control her and not have any friends.
thing is, on these 'girlie' nights out, all her mates invite their bloke mates or boyfriends, but im not welcome!?! but then the old 'oh well i didnt know they were going' speech.
she said she wants to come round 2morrow, might tel her that im busy coz i promised to flush the toilet
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Dom
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quote:
Originally posted by Dave17
when were together were fine tho
thing is i cant b arsed 2 talk 2 her about it anymore, coz she just thinks im trying to control her and not have any friends.
thing is, on these 'girlie' nights out, all her mates invite their bloke mates or boyfriends, but im not welcome!?! but then the old 'oh well i didnt know they were going' speech.
she said she wants to come round 2morrow, might tel her that im busy coz i promised to flush the toilet
dude, just phone her and say you need a talk about relationship etc and that tomorrow will be fine for it, <insert time etc> then put phone down and see what happens - sounds like you need to take the bull by the horns and put the train back on track, as she certainly isnt gonna do it
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just play it cool david, keep the interest for going out but if she doesnt want you to come along dont get phased by it 
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