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3CorsaMeal
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What do people think about dating someone who already has a kid with someone else?

would it bother you?

not aimed at anyone, just curious as to the general feelings, as i personnally couldn't do it
Karen
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Tell me about it! Guys generally dont want me coz of this fact even although my sons dad isnt involved at all in our life





PS-Shouldnt this be in off day
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how do i move it?

do u mind me asking how long u were together with father for before u had kid? was it planned?
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Nope not bothered.

How u doin foxy
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I think this depends on your own circumstances, however as a general rule I wouldn't let this put me off.
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hmmmmmmm good one...

erm... it just seems like hassle when there are plenty of birds around with no kids......

but i dunno i suppose if the right person came along it wouldnt matter.....

having said that you would constantly be reminded than she has 'milleage' on her
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i dont mind kids at all.. its even better when they arnt yours ;lol..

i used to go to a lasses house who had a kid and i loved hanging round with the little lad..

he used to say he loved me and stuck his tounge out at his mum and came running to me if he hurt himself lol..

to be honest i dont mind.. at all. .

it would not bother me in the slightet..

foxy.. its jus ta shame your all the way up there hun
Karen
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quote:
Originally posted by 3CorsaMeal
how do i move it?

do u mind me asking how long u were together with father for before u had kid? was it planned?


Admin will move it prob!
We were together for 2 years wasnt planned but he left 4 days after Rhys was born
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Nope doesn't make a difference.
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great bloke then
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quote:
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great bloke then


tossa if you ask me
3CorsaMeal
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@ Siberia

i probably narrowminded but it makes me think that they don't regard having a child with someone is a special thing.

i wouldn't consider having a child unless i felt everything was secure etc.

but i know some people get pregnant by mistake (bit careless really) and can't bring themselves to abort it.

in my mind a foetus is like a egg yolk j/k
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no. dont bother me ither. prob most of the time the guys worried what the father will do or say.
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quote:
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Nope doesn't make a difference.


no so long as tehya re just breathing is ok in your book
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foxy loving the pics who's ur friend in black?
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quote:
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quote:
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Nope doesn't make a difference.


no so long as tehya re just breathing is ok in your book


PMSL

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quote:
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foxy loving the pics who's ur friend in black?


obviously not interested in foxy then
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quote:
Originally posted by John_C
foxy loving the pics who's ur friend in black?


The asian lad
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quote:
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quote:
Originally posted by John_C
foxy loving the pics who's ur friend in black?


obviously not interested in foxy then


why would he, she has a kid - got a slack fandana
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quote:
Originally posted by _Allan_
quote:
Originally posted by John_C
foxy loving the pics who's ur friend in black?


The asian lad


joker

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quote:
Originally posted by vibrio
quote:
Originally posted by chris_uk
quote:
Originally posted by John_C
foxy loving the pics who's ur friend in black?


obviously not interested in foxy then


why would he, she has a kid - got a slack fandana


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quote:
Originally posted by John_C
quote:
Originally posted by _Allan_
quote:
Originally posted by John_C
foxy loving the pics who's ur friend in black?


The asian lad


joker

http://www.corsasport.co.uk/carimages/2215/2.jpg


My lebian pal Jenn
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Think very carefully before you commit to anyone with kids.

Its a lot harder than you think.

sometimes it works out really well and the girl will love you and her child equally.

with some people you will always be number 2 to the kid, i have seen this happen.

It does and can work, but needs a lot of effort from both parties. Definately a lot harder if you are both young.
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so that must mean vibs that your woman must have a slack fandana after she gave birth to my son..


[Edited on 04-01-2005 by chris_uk]
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quote:
Originally posted by 3CorsaMeal
What do people think about dating someone who already has a kid with someone else?

would it bother you?

not aimed at anyone, just curious as to the general feelings, as i personnally couldn't do it


90% of the people on here drive corsa's, and are only children themselves, it would be like another brother/sister to them

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