Fear
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Registered: 20th Nov 02
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Parents split up last year, moved in with my old man and got joint mortgage and only for 11 years, im 19 BTW
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Craig6682
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Originally posted by sxi16vjoe
i will be very soon!
sorting things out for myself and i shall be gone! 
Hope u get it sorted m8. I know what it is like 
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Scotty_B
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Registered: 11th Jun 03
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Moving in with girlfriend in June can't wait. I'm 25 BTW.
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corb
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Registered: 24th Apr 02
Location: Calgary, Alberta, Canada
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i fell out with my mum when i was 18 and still at school and moved in with my dad. Im now working and pay my dad rent. He's hardly ever at home, stays at his g/f's house about 4 nights a week, so i have the house pretty much to myself.
But would rather have my own place from the point of view that i could do what i wanted with the place(decorating, party, etc.etc.) but is it worth moving out yet, or wait til im earning more money and can afford to live like i am now, only with a house aswell.
I just dont know what to do  !!!
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Craig6682
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If i had a good parent like you then i wouldn't bother !!! I wud love to have stayed at home
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Gavin
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20 
pew pew pew pewwwww
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J da Silva
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im the guilty party he was talking to about it, build your own mate
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corb
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Registered: 24th Apr 02
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 I would soooooooooo love to do that!! Considering it, seriously. But doubt i'd get the loan, so may speak nicely to my dad about it.
Then, I could have everything in the house built as i wanted to start with.
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J da Silva
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true and you'd get some half price bricks and cement and stuff like guttering 
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sxi16vjoe
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Registered: 16th Dec 02
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quote:
Originally posted by Craig6682
quote:
Originally posted by sxi16vjoe
i will be very soon!
sorting things out for myself and i shall be gone!
Hope u get it sorted m8. I know what it is like
tis shite indeed but well u live and learn!
never thought i would turn out the way i am but im soooo happy.
i got so many good mates and know theres always someone i can rely on!
i dont need my family. but speakin to someone has made me make an extra effort towards them.
i wont stay but im trying to change. ive been made to realise it works both ways!
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sxi16vjoe
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Corb if i were you i'd stay put.
sounds like u got it cushty mate!
house aint really something u need to think about right now.
for me it is....
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Craig6682
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Like i said -- i love my parents and i left on good terms with them; my dad even did all the decorating and even fixed my zorst at the weekend. I see them every day but i just don't like they way they tried to control me.
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Craig6682
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All my mates still live at home (well apart from some uni ones) and having your mother to run around after you is great
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sxi16vjoe
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yeah but living on your own makes u grow up alot.
i cant wait as i think it will straighten my life out alot!
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sxi16vjoe
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and believe me my mum does not run after me!
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Craig6682
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It's a lot more work i tell ya -- but if you really need to get out of home then it's time to go IMO.
My mother did do a lot for me in terms of cooking and cleaning but both my parents where just like, where are you going, who with, no your not etc etc. The finsl straw was when i wanted to get a car, it was like no, not while your are roof.
I was at the point where i was going to have a break down or something. Just hiting walls with fists, head ect. I was even at the point where i would have taken my life if i had the bottle; i'm really glad now that i didn't and i'm enjoying like as it comes now. I've got 2 cars, getting my 206 soon and quite happy on my own.
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sxi16vjoe
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mine are totally different to that!
they dont trust me. but dont ask after me etc. i feel more like a lidger than part of family! 
and when i found out that my aunt had broke her hip i went crazy as she is also my godmother and found out AFTER the op!
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sassyminx
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Registered: 10th Jan 04
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moved out wen 17, moved in with fiance til i was 21 and then moved into my own place last august
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Craig6682
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It was more of a control prob with my parents.
It's hard to say what i would feel or do in your position as i have never been there. Have you got brothers or sisters and are they treated the same?
I have got a sister and she is treated the same. I really feel sorry for her but she is her own person and has the money to get out. She's in a much better position than i was as she can get free student accom as she is doing a PHD but i dunno why she stays.
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Craig6682
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My Nan died a few years back and left us some money.
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sxi16vjoe
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yeah older bro.
he still lives here.
he's had a lot of problems and used ot just think my parents loved him more.
Now ive realised he needs there help more than i do.
the last week or so has made change and also take a good look at myself, mainly thanks to the advice of a friend of mine!
also i work with my dad which prolly puts a strain on things.
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Craig6682
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Have you talked to your parents about it ?
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psycho sport
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me n bro just got our first flat, but renting it out and living with our dad for free, whilst saving up money from rent. 18 by the way
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sxi16vjoe
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Registered: 16th Dec 02
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quote:
Originally posted by Craig6682
Have you talked to your parents about it ?
not really.
i will go tho but i want to try and smooth things over. i dont think i'll ever be close to em but it aint too late yet for me to change and make things beter!
im gettin really wise in me ol age
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nat16v
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Registered: 1st Mar 04
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moved out at 17 n neva looked bak couldnt stand livin wiv parents
i just go n visit bout every other day though
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