JadeM
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Discussing this at work today, would you consider your partner 'cheating' if you found out they were having a 'virtual affair/chatting to the other sex via online datiing sites etc without actually meeting up with them?
http://www.google.com/hostednews/ap/article/ALeqM5gUsXBV6ROtFbEMxrSA82pcq62KEQD94ETNSO0
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Hamish
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Yup. I wouldnt stand for it personally. Its just like sending someone rude txt's
[Edited on 18-11-2008 by Hamish]
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AdZ9
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Yeah i would hate it, but Colin never has to know Jade.....
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JadeM
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Me too, if they feel the need to join up to virtual sites/dating sites etc when they're in a relationship, then there's something far wrong with the relationship they're in IMO!
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Daimo B
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quote:
Originally posted by JadeM
Me too, if they feel the need to join up to virtual sites/dating sites etc when they're in a relationship, then there's something far wrong with the relationship they're in IMO!
Exactly.
But if your 19 odd and do it, pffffff who cares. Sometimes you get caught and pay the price 
I wouldn't dare now 
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AdZ9
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quote:
Originally posted by JadeM
Me too, if they feel the need to join up to virtual sites/dating sites etc when they're in a relationship, then there's something far wrong with the relationship they're in IMO!
Good cover up Jade good cover up, i'm signing in now, you online?!........... 
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JadeM
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Exactly.
But if your 19 odd and do it, pffffff who cares. Sometimes you get caught and pay the price
I wouldn't dare now
I struggle to understand why someone in a relationship would sign up to dating sites/virtual sites to begin with.......
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JadeM
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quote:
Originally posted by AdZ9
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Originally posted by JadeM
Me too, if they feel the need to join up to virtual sites/dating sites etc when they're in a relationship, then there's something far wrong with the relationship they're in IMO!
Good cover up Jade good cover up, i'm signing in now, you online?!...........
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Daimo B
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Originally posted by JadeM
I struggle to understand why someone in a relationship would sign up to dating sites/virtual sites to begin with.......
Because they arn't getting what they want at home. Simple really.
Just some women don't seem to understand. Don't forfill the guys needs, then he will go elsewhere to get what he wants.
The woes of a young gun full of cum mindset. Some guy grow up, some don't hence affairs.
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Hamish
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Originally posted by VXR
Just some women don't seem to understand. Don't forfill the guys needs, then he will go elsewhere to get what he wants.
only if the guy doesnt talk to his other half  and tell her what he wants. Works both ways IMO
[Edited on 18-11-2008 by Hamish]
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Daimo B
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quote:
Originally posted by Hamish
only if the guy doesnt talk to his other half and tell her what he wants. Works both ways IMO
True, but most men (myself inc at 19, fcuk that emotional stuff) don't talk, esp at a younger age.
And also, if the women says point blank no..... Without discussion.
Some blokes change, some don't. Depends what you want in life and whats more important.
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Hamish
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quote:
Originally posted by VXR
quote:
Originally posted by Hamish
only if the guy doesnt talk to his other half and tell her what he wants. Works both ways IMO
True, but most men (myself inc at 19, fcuk that emotional stuff) don't talk, esp at a younger age.
And also, if the women says point blank no..... Without discussion.
Some blokes change, some don't. Depends what you want in life and whats more important.
fair enuff. I suppose im lucky in the fact that my other half listens to me 
[Edited on 18-11-2008 by Hamish]
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Ojc
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What if you talk to all your ex's via Facebook 
Facebook is bad m'kay.
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Daimo B
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quote:
Originally posted by Hamish
fair enuff. I suppose im lucky in the fact that my other half listens to me
My last girlyfriend didn't, so got the "rude bowyi" treatment
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Hamish
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quote:
Originally posted by VXR
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Originally posted by Hamish
fair enuff. I suppose im lucky in the fact that my other half listens to me
My last girlyfriend didn't, so got the "rude bowyi" treatment
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Phi
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is it the same as meeting your partner online? thats pretty normal these days, but are these people actually looking for a real relationship or just like having a 'vitual' one?
internetz breaks up marriages! true story!
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Bart
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quote:
Originally posted by JadeM
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Exactly.
But if your 19 odd and do it, pffffff who cares. Sometimes you get caught and pay the price
I wouldn't dare now
I struggle to understand why someone in a relationship would sign up to dating sites/virtual sites to begin with.......
because men dont think with there heads 
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