Tom
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Registered: 3rd Apr 02
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I have been in this exact situation when I was 19, wasn't working out for us and didn't feel it was right to bring a kid into a messy relationship. She was gutted but she had a termination as it was the best thing for all concerned. I maintain it was the right choice although it was one of the hardest decisions we both ever made. As said, 'he' needs to take it seriously and talk to her about it now to discuss the options as early as possible.
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pow
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Before Kirsty and I went into anything, we both agree'd that a child was never to be had before we spoke about it.
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carey
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her mum knows about it but hasn't made her do a test?? ffs she sounds just as bad as the daughter! if she's so sure she's not then why not put her mind at rest straight away - she just sounds like she wants a bit of drama. don't use being 19 as an excuse cos i'm 19 and it doesn't make you retarded she sounds like she needs to grow up!
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SAS-1991
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iv been in the same situation about 6 months ago wi our lass, i were shittin my self! wi me only been 16, and she were 15! did a pregnancy test, and it showed negitive, then 6 weeks after she were due to come on... she did!!! 
Shhe is on the pll, and i keep telling her it dont work for her, cause she is always late on her periods, but she dont have any of it?!
Crazy women!!!
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John
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Reported, 15 is underage.
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Brett
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Registered: 16th Dec 02
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Get rid. End of.
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Phi
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Registered: 8th Jan 07
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 tell her to do a test , then decide what to do once you know the result... no point getting upset over if you dont know the answer! 
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Phi
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quote:
Originally posted by John
Reported, 15 is underage.
 true though
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SAS-1991
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quote:
Originally posted by Corsa_phi
quote:
Originally posted by John
Reported, 15 is underage.
true though
yeye, but every one does it... dont they??!
well she 16 now... so all legal!!
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Phi
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yeah if you like rape....
Nah im kidding
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RyanSxi
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"Everyone does it"
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Phi
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no but seriously thats underage
when i was 15 it probably wasnt a big deal unless the bloke was 20 odd, thats just sick
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John
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quote:
Originally posted by RyanSxi
"Everyone does it"
Think that would work in court
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RyanSxi
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I know its just the excuse that made me chuckle
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Tom
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Registered: 3rd Apr 02
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quote:
Originally posted by Corsa_phi
no but seriously thats underage
when i was 15 it probably wasnt a big deal unless the bloke was 20 odd, thats just sick
When I was 20 the girl I'm seeing now would have been 15 thankfully I only met her a few months ago
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Kathryn W
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Registered: 12th Oct 03
Location: Widnes, Cheshire
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FFS, go and take a test and stop sprawling peoples personal business over an internet forum
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Tom
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quote:
Originally posted by Kathryn W
FFS, go and take a test and stop sprawling peoples personal business over an internet forum
Shut up 
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chloe16v
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Registered: 29th Nov 07
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tests only cost £1.00 now so its not as if she cant aford it. i got pregnant a month before my 16th b/d the first thing i did was go and find out for sure.
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Phi
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a £1 ffs
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chloe16v
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Registered: 29th Nov 07
Location: Rotherham
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yes they are the dip stick type that docs use
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_Allan_
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It was the dip stick that got her into trouble in the first place.
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Ian
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Registered: 28th Aug 99
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£1, you're doing good deals
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