baza31
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This this year has been a bit of a shitter so far for me, loads of stuffs happened and begining to get sick of it all, constantly getting dragged through court and been in today, had enough of my job so handed my notice in. Meant to be starting a new job on 4th july. I am a fully qualified electrcian and also have a small company dealing with repossessions which is going well.
but...
ive had enough of everything and feel like buying a bag, selling everything i own and just moving away out of this country and doing jobs like working in a bar . Aint overly bothered about money as ive been saving all my life.
mid life crisis at 21 lol?
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Whittie
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chin up
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BigSte
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what u in court for all the time?
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baza31
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quote: Originally posted by BigSte
what u in court for all the time?
Got in a fight with a family- which has majorly esculated ,I got the blame which is typical of my luck . They are trying thier best for compo, been in 5 times now and back on bail till september I class myself as a half decent guy but when you have scum bags dragging you down all the time it kind of gets to you
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All Torque
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Sniper Rifle + Bell Tower + Loads of people below = Let off some anger..
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Kellye
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quote: Originally posted by baza31
quote: Originally posted by BigSte
what u in court for all the time?
Got in a fight with a family- which has majorly esculated ,I got the blame which is typical of my luck . They are trying thier best for compo, been in 5 times now and back on bail till september I class myself as a half decent guy but when you have scum bags dragging you down all the time it kind of gets to you
Flippin eck. Sound like a right lot this family
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Ben D
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then you cant go anywehre till september anywhere... Leaving the country would just be stupid IMO.
I've thought about upping and leaving numerous times but my source of income is my local area and why run from problem your better off sorting out.. running is weak!
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Kellye
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Just move to a different area? Thats what I have done to get away from memories and that.
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baza31
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no this family dont bother me, i have plenty of friends and family blah blah blah.
but i feel like a break, maybe a year away as a change.
definatly not running away just need a break
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Steve
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why you always fighting? apparently your not that type? so you said before
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LeeM
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im movin to tenerife!
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baza31
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quote: Originally posted by Steve
why you always fighting? apparently your not that type? so you said before
A family full of scum bags + beer = want to fight anyone, because ive had a do with one of them . Thats why
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Ben D
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quote: Originally posted by baza31
quote: Originally posted by Steve
why you always fighting? apparently your not that type? so you said before
A family full of scum bags + beer = want to fight anyone, because ive had a do with one of them . Thats why
I had a similar Problem a few years ago but maybe a bit more complicated, Made sure i sorted my "Disputes" with them before i moved to a different estate though, the Pr!ck i had the most run ins with in the family got out of prison last december for murder (dropped to manslaughter) after beating somebodys head in with a brick
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drunkenfool
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Yes mate I know exactly how you feel. I had the shittest year of my life last year, but ive since turned my life round as a result (cos quite a lot of it was my fault) and im planning on moving to Spain to start a new life there. Ive drifted away from all of my old long-term "good" friends (yeah i have some great mates now too, but I dont feel the same ties with england any more, and im sure they will come visit me ), Ive been single for almost 3 years now (apart from a few very short 'relationships' and one night stands, but nobody significant to keep me here), stuff with my parents is a bit weird too (they got divorced when i was 5 and have been majorly fighting throughout my life, court cases the lot, but now my dad is getting divorced and i think him and my mum may be gettin back together ) so yeah, I just kinda wanna get away from it all and start a new life for myself away from all the shit in my past. Im moving to Spain in just over 3 months to do a year at a spanish university as an independent student on my own, then i gotta come back here for final year then i plan to move out there on a more permanent basis.
If you feel like you really want to do it mate, then go for it! It's going to be a life changing decision one way or the other, if it doesnt work out then you can always come back home or move somewhere else, and then at least you wont always be miserable, and thinkging "what if....".
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baza31
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quote: Originally posted by drunkenfool
Yes mate I know exactly how you feel. I had the shittest year of my life last year, but ive since turned my life round as a result (cos quite a lot of it was my fault) and im planning on moving to Spain to start a new life there. Ive drifted away from all of my old long-term "good" friends (yeah i have some great mates now too, but I dont feel the same ties with england any more, and im sure they will come visit me ), Ive been single for almost 3 years now (apart from a few very short 'relationships' and one night stands, but nobody significant to keep me here), stuff with my parents is a bit weird too (they got divorced when i was 5 and have been majorly fighting throughout my life, court cases the lot, but now my dad is getting divorced and i think him and my mum may be gettin back together ) so yeah, I just kinda wanna get away from it all and start a new life for myself away from all the shit in my past. Im moving to Spain in just over 3 months to do a year at a spanish university as an independent student on my own, then i gotta come back here for final year then i plan to move out there on a more permanent basis.
If you feel like you really want to do it mate, then go for it! It's going to be a life changing decision one way or the other, if it doesnt work out then you can always come back home or move somewhere else, and then at least you wont always be miserable, and thinkging "what if....".
Nail and head springs to mind, want company ? lol
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Dom H
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I haven't read the whole thread, just your first post, but I'm going to Barcelona in January, one way ticket out there. I don't see any reason at all for staying in this country!
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drunkenfool
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Registered: 7th Feb 03
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quote: Originally posted by baza31
quote: Originally posted by drunkenfool
Yes mate I know exactly how you feel. I had the shittest year of my life last year, but ive since turned my life round as a result (cos quite a lot of it was my fault) and im planning on moving to Spain to start a new life there. Ive drifted away from all of my old long-term "good" friends (yeah i have some great mates now too, but I dont feel the same ties with england any more, and im sure they will come visit me ), Ive been single for almost 3 years now (apart from a few very short 'relationships' and one night stands, but nobody significant to keep me here), stuff with my parents is a bit weird too (they got divorced when i was 5 and have been majorly fighting throughout my life, court cases the lot, but now my dad is getting divorced and i think him and my mum may be gettin back together ) so yeah, I just kinda wanna get away from it all and start a new life for myself away from all the shit in my past. Im moving to Spain in just over 3 months to do a year at a spanish university as an independent student on my own, then i gotta come back here for final year then i plan to move out there on a more permanent basis.
If you feel like you really want to do it mate, then go for it! It's going to be a life changing decision one way or the other, if it doesnt work out then you can always come back home or move somewhere else, and then at least you wont always be miserable, and thinkging "what if....".
Nail and head springs to mind, want company ? lol
If you ever wanna come to La Coruņa then let us know! Its North West Spain, just above Portugal, right on the coast. Hardly any tourists there either, can't wait!
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Natalie
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Yep would love to go right now, everything is crap at the moment!
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smack
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word my life is a bit of a shit at the moment, struggling with work and saving money so as it stands i couldent ever dream of moving anyware at this time
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Colin
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bee happy, dont worry
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JadeM
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quote: Originally posted by Colin
bee happy, dont worry
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Colin
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http://www.jimcarreyonline.com/soundclips/dd/petheads.wav
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Hammer
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Don't worry be happy
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drunkenfool
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quote: Originally posted by Hammer
Don't worry be happy
You have NO idea how much that song helped me get through the most difficult couple of weeks of last year.
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