Cybermonkey
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Registered: 22nd Sep 02
Location: Sydney, Australia
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chin up phil, you never know whats around the next corner  heart breaking when a girl you really love turns around and says she doesnt love you anymore 
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Liam
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Registered: 19th Jan 06
Location: Stafford
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Sorry to hear that. Same reason me and my GF split, hope it all works out for you in the end 
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JadeM
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Registered: 9th Feb 06
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Hate to think of me and Colin ever splitting up
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bubble
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Registered: 24th Jan 04
Location: Darwin, NT Australia.
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I know its not what u want to hear but ill share my experience that is still goin on now.....
was with the mrs for 2 years, we got our own place (rented mind) 3 months b4 we split. she had hassle at home from her parents, wont blab them on here, and i thought i could get her out of it and help her by givin us our own space. we moved in and things were fine, but then i started gettin depressed about my sister who was extremely ill in march-sorta caught up with me a bit late, and i didnt talk to the mrs at all. we ended up argui cuz i was down and she didnt know what to do.
so in july i called it off, and i was very nasty to her, never knew i could be like i was-and i am still really ashamed of things i said to her.....
she started seeing a friend of a friend but not serious just going out type thing, and i got really angry, said even more nasty things, and i thought that was it. my heart was killin me, cuz i had made the worst decison ever by finishing with her. and it was killin me knowing how much i wanted her back, so,so,so much.
then on 4 nov 06, i was nearly killed in a car crash, and when in hospital i was screaming my ex's name out on way to theatre and i realised more than ever i not only wanted her, but i needed her.
My mum reluctantly rang her to just let her no i was in hospital n a bit abd etc-and the ex stayed silent. my mum took it as she wasnt concerned-but she was. i came out of hospital and had a text from the ex, wishin me well etc.....she came and visited me, and now we've started goin cinema with each other n talkin loads. she says she realised when she nearly lost me for good, how much we need each other.
Time, no matter which way things go, is a great healer.
peace x
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Reedy
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Registered: 11th Apr 04
Location: Hammersmith
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bubblevaux, although your story ended well it doesnt always go that way.
Best advice is to get back in the game 
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Fonz
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Registered: 12th May 06
Location: Newbury, Berks
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where are all the semi naked women???
tough one though break up never easy...make the most of single life now!! Christmas is coming!!!
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All Torque
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Registered: 17th Nov 05
Location: Milton Keynes Drives: Ford Focus TDCi
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Bubblevaux - The brought a tear to my eye
[Edited on 19-11-2006 by All Torque]
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TNM
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Registered: 5th Apr 04
Location: Nottingham Drives: VW Tiguan
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any pics of his ex with her rat out yet? 
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bubble
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Registered: 24th Jan 04
Location: Darwin, NT Australia.
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quote:
Originally posted by All Torque
Bubblevaux - The brought a tear to my eye
[Edited on 19-11-2006 by All Torque]
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baza31
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Registered: 19th Apr 03
Location: yorkshire
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the only thing to do in this situation is to sleep with her mum... this will annoy her.
or
worse sleep with her dad, this will pull the full family apart
[Edited on 20-11-2006 by baza31]
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Butler
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Registered: 2nd Jun 05
Location: London
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So basically, go out and nearly kill yourself and it will all be better 
Jokes mate, try not to let it get you down. I know how you feel, split up with my girlfriend only a couple of weeks ago and it was one of the hardest times ive been through. Everything is for the best though in the long run. Just wasnt meant to be obviously. Chin up mate.
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britaxcooper
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Registered: 31st Jan 05
Location: N. yorkshire
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really feel for you...
Ive just split with my 1st love last month, really hard...
she lied to me saying she would have me back just not right now... turned out shes with someone else
theres alot more to it but i dont wanna blab on...
Feels much better after this first month, im making good progress. although she suggested being friends and now shes doesnt really care if i never talk to her again, hard being friends, hard not talking you cant win...
On a similar note dont drive home when you have split, i wasnt involved in a accident but nearly killed myself.... i decided it would be best not to mention this to my ex after she said "promise you will drive careful" 
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PhilC
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Registered: 21st Jan 06
Location: Lancs, UK
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I drove home 5 minutes after split, turned up the tunes (LIFEHOUSE!) and had a smile from ear to ear! The take out foods places in town just don't cut it, and I was hungry!
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