Ally
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If she does it then fair play, but once the weight has gone she will have to deal with the excess skin as well
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Lawrah
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http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/magazine/5279052.stm
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Ally
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I understand the comfort food thing, but weighing 23stone @ 13 is terrible
Surely alarm bells went off at 13, not 6 years later when shes pretty much dead!
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FFS 
no willpower.
Same with other things in life, you don't like something about yourself? sort it.
I had wonky teeth due to me sucking my thumb until I was about 10  Had a few comments thrown at me whilst in school so though fcuk it, I'll sort em out. Some people might think it's the same as surgery, but it's not. It's not an easy, or instant fix. And in my case i probably have to wear a retainer every night for the rest of my life.
Some people just dont want to get off their arses and sort things in life.
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"oooh i know I'll just eat for another 6 years and then have surgery, don't have to worry about it until then"
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Ally
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quote:
Originally posted by --Dave--
I had wonky teeth due to me sucking my thumb until I was about 10 Had a few comments thrown at me whilst in school so though fcuk it, I'll sort em out. Some people might think it's the same as surgery, but it's not. It's not an easy, or instant fix. And in my case i probably have to wear a retainer every night for the rest of my life.
Ditto Dave I had a brace for 2 years  glad i did it, even if i did try to pull it off when they first put it on 
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Ally. I hated mine, was worth it though.
Just reading through that article, "Unrealistically I'd like to be a size eight. Realistically a size 16."
Brainwashed I tell ya
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Ally
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I doubt she'd even be a size 16
See its people like that that really piss me off. People that are like... i need to loose 20 stone. NO you need to loose weight, dont say it like that because you wont do it. She would aim for a size 22/24 for now to make it an achieveable goal, or even half a stone at a time FFS.
Pisses me off the people who have a gastric band, u can have the band yes you fatty, but you could die in the op... but you have it anyway.
So my tax pays for your fatty band, then you drop the weight... along with your skin, then over the next few years you gradually eat more and more so your stomach stretches, and you put all the weight back on.
Why the fuck dont you eat healthily, exercise because thats it, for the rest of your life. Theres no easy fix you lazy arsed fat twats.
Sorry, really annoys me. Theres this girl who i chat to at the gym, lost 8 stone, really works hard and has kept the weight off, but the NHS wont pay for her to have a breast lift because its not making her depressed
Yet they will pay for seriously overweight people to have a gastric, when they are close to death
Sorry but it makes me so
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Ally
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and people out there dont take offence, because i am overweight so completely understand what its like
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Lawrah
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"fatty band" hahahahah
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--Dave--
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completely agree Ally.
They should be denied all types of surgery and told that if they don't change their ways they will die. Simple as that. Shock treatment, best way.
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Lawrah
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jail i tell ye
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do you know how much its costs to keep someone in jail Lawrah?
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Lawrah
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shoot them then?
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better
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Ally
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Deffo. I watched a program last year about a guy who couldnt stop eating, was told if he didnt he woulld loose his legs.
Was in a magazine last month saying hes having his legs removed because he couldnt loose any weight.
Im sorry, but being told you will loose your legs should surely be enough motivation.
Im not slagging fat people off, loosing weight is really hard, you develop a relationship with food that u just cant get rid off, but you have to think, i cannot be fat forever, i cannot put it off untill i am beyond help. I am the only person that can do it so go for it!
and can i just say - i have so much respect for people that loose the weight and change their lives for the better!!!
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no doubt it must be one of the hardest things to do. To change your life and the way you live around like that, hats off to em.
I just don't like the ones that complain and rely on surgery to get them out of the hole they dug. I also blame the parents to some degree for letting them get like that. Of course I would love my child however they look but there surely comes a point where it's having a negative impact on their health, that's when I would say something.
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Ally
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Yeh but it can go the opposite way, my mum used to tell me i was fat all the time and it really got me down!
Theres a fine line between motivating yout child and making them feel terrible
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Lawrah
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 looooveeee the cakeee
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--Dave--
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of course Ally, I wouldn't just say to my child "you're fat, stop eating".
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Ally
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Thats what my mum used to say 'oh ally, your so fat'
things like that... and she'd wonder why i hated her
my brother does the little briton thing, he came up last week and in the car he was going
'Ally loves de cake, ally LOVESSS de cake'
so embarrasing
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Fat people are fat.
Fat people should eat less.
Fat people should not recieve any help from NHS, KFC should be able to help them.
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Ally
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I agree Ollie, but they should get help if they loose all the weight and are left with a shed full of excess skin
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--Dave--
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yes, if they have shown effort and resolve to lose the weight they should be rewarded.
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