GREG 1
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As you know me and the gf are going through a bad patch...
Not seen her since last Monday (when we had a brilliant day and wicked sex) anyway...
This morning we spoke on text (she was at her mates house) and she said that she wants to be on her own i said do you love me and she went quiet and said course i are for you blah blah.....
I said let me come round later so we can talk things over face to face because i know we can sort it as we did get on so well etc... she said no i can't do that because it would kill me, i said well when you get in give me a call and we can have a little chat....
She text me saying that she was now home gonna have a shower and she would call me... she called me and i said what i wanted to and she basically listened, i said what i thought and what i thought needed changing aswell and she said she didnt feel too good today so we will meet up on wednesday night for a chat etc as i said 3 yrs was to much to throw away especially when we have our anniversary next sat and going to wales on the sunday !
We spoke abit more (my dinner was now ready) and i said do you miss me and she said yeah i do and we then said ok speak to you later blah blah and my mum come in as dinner was ready and she said ok speak to you later love you... i said you 2 pretty quick and hung up as my dinner / mum
Do i call back and say something or just leave it ?
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Charlene
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I reckon you should just leave her for today and just see if she contacts you 
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GREG 1
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Originally posted by Charlene
I reckon you should just leave her for today and just see if she contacts you
Thats what i was thinking, she has e-mail at work and normally (used to) mail me every day at the same time in the morning so maybe she will realise tonight what shes loosing ? (although she is going round to her friends)
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GREG 1
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Also Charlene i didn't want her to think i was being rude when i wasn't, but on the other hand i don't want to contact her for her to think im pestering her
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Charlene
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Yea i can see your point tbh although i think maybe you should leave her, i dont reckon she will think your being as she probs knew you were going to have your dinner and if you keep ringing i would probably think she will think your pestering her or trying to hard to get back with her
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Ben
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leave it mate , or just text her asking what does she want? say your confused over what she wants .
there such a pain in the arse sometimes , even worse when they now live 300 miles away
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GREG 1
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She said in the text this morning she wants to me on her own yet she called me yesterday saying she misses and loves me which is what she said again this afternoon !
Her last words to me where "i love you"
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sunnyb
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i'd leave it mate, let dust seattle, i did the mistake of like keep calling and asking what the problem is, then she ended up cheating on me, and making me feel like a cnut, it will be good for you to get some space away from her, but then make the wales trip a real special one.
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sunnyb
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quote:
Originally posted by GREG 1
She said in the text this morning she wants to me on her own yet she called me yesterday saying she misses and loves me which is what she said again this afternoon !
Her last words to me where "i love you"
3 year relationship and she still says "i love you", you got nothing to worry bout mate, its when she stops saying it you get worried, defo need time apart, doesn't mean she has any1 else or anything!!!
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Nismo
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leave it let her come to you.
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GREG 1
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i said to her this morning (she was hung over) do you love me and she went silent.... yet since we spoke this afternoon and i said to her how i feel what i would change etc and that we arranged to meet somewhere on wednesday to talk she ended the convo with i love you
so weird
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littlemisscorsa!
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sounds harsh but I think maybe she's attention seeking? Although I don't know her so I may be totally wrong? She seems like shes not answering whether she loves you to make you panic a bit??
Play hard to get and maybe she'll realise what she's got and also realise she needs to work to keep you??? Play a little hard to get and wait for her to text you.
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GREG 1
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Nah i don't think she is to be honest
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Kerry
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what ever you do dont pester her
women hate that
let her do a bit of chasing it will do you good
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RCoughtrie
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ur gonna end up hurt greg if u dont start to let it go, like kerry said sit back a bit and let her come calling........ that way shes gonna start missing u... 3 years is a long time, dont answer the phone everytime she calls, take a bit to txt her back....
But if shes just falling outta love, ur on a sinking ship.... time to move on
personaly i jump ship when stuff like this happens.... its hard but u get over it, i like to go out with my mates when ever i can, takes ur mind off it and u meet new females... it all becomes somit of the past
[Edited on 03-04-2005 by RCoughtrie]
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Fad
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It dont matter whether she said she loved you or not...sometimes its out of habbit.
TBH been there got the T shirt and its not goint to be a good result.... 
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lozzd
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Originally posted by Fad
It dont matter whether she said she loved you or not...sometimes its out of habbit.
TBH been there got the T shirt and its not goint to be a good result....
I didnt even get a tshirt
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antscorsa
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stop aksing her if she loves u, seems like uve asked her like a million times, tbh id prob b doign same as u, lifes a bitch and girls are worse
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Ben
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As much as you miss them at the time , when you have your cock in some1 else all the upset goes right out of the window
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GREG 1
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it's all the little things you miss though aswell....
but our chat seemed to be a good one and she said i love you which she wouldnt normally of said if she didn't mean it
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