bradfincham
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mate youve done the best thing, the girl loves attention from any bloke, shes just like nat was!
When shes with you she acts all sweetness and light, when she leaves you, you worry what shes upto as shes off with every bloke in town!
I got out of it, now look at where she is, shes had so many diff partners and has a bad name fro herself, she lots all her school mates and had to move away!
I say get wrecked and live the single life, your still young mate just enjoy it thats it!!
And if she asks you for casual sex say no as you are seing someone! Jealosuy is what kills all girls mate!
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dave17
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yeh i know what she be upto now at weekends etc, coz all her mates are single and little slags 
does piss me off knowing its easier for her to get a shag (being a girl n that) but ive got a few lil contacts i can use tho, got an old friends 20th birthday party on the 30th  
its gona kill to see her out tho, and she said the same back.
i was thinking i shoulda left it on good terms though, didnt hug her or anything to say 'goodbye', would hate it if something were to happen to her. seems a waste of 25months
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Siberia
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after saying that she went off to some fellas place after the club on saturday i just dont know how you would cnsider having her back... i'd break her fcukin nose
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Half Pint
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i saw my ex 2 days after we broke up when i was out with my mates it killed me and i got totally wrecked on Turbo shandys
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dave17
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never said i wanted her back, jus feel like i shoulda said goodbye instead of jus walking off.
and she wasnt on her own on saturday, her mates were there too (or so ive been told  )
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Tom
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This brings back some memories  go and have a laugh with your mates, you're bound to feel how you're coming across (being worried about her etc and feeling it's a waste) but you will realise on reflection you gotta look out for yourself if this girl loved all the attention whilst she was out with her mates and meant to be with you, she obviously wasn't worrying about you then. Not doubting she loved you or anything mate, thing is people get 2 serious 2 young and the need to have fun is gonna outweigh anything unless you're uber dull 
You'll get back into the groove mate go get laid
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Half Pint
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Forget her ! just take some time to think for yourself and decide exactly what it is you want.
Don't contact by text, phone, fact 2 face or any other type of medium maybe you and her will change in a few weeks or months maybe you'll decide it the best thing since sliced bread.
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Siberia
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ive been going out with my misus over 6 years now and i cant remember 1 time where she has said she wanted to go out with her mates without me.... infact she invites me along all the time i get on well with her mates and i invite her along when i'm out with the lads and she gets on with them....
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Tom
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I would like a night off now n then tho siberia 
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luisa
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quote:
Originally posted by Siberia
ive been going out with my misus over 6 years now and i cant remember 1 time where she has said she wanted to go out with her mates without me.... infact she invites me along all the time i get on well with her mates and i invite her along when i'm out with the lads and she gets on with them....
wow now that is commitment! 
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Half Pint
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GAY !
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dave17
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Daaaaaaave | Single Again says:
we had a holiday booked
Greg- Spring break 05 crew! says:
shit
Greg- Spring break 05 crew! says:
what can u do
Daaaaaaave | Single Again says:
ben n that stil wana go i think
Daaaaaaave | Single Again says:
and im goin magaluf aswel
Daaaaaaave | Single Again says:
but i want to go kavos too
Daaaaaaave | Single Again says:
but we have ONE PERSON MISSING..........
Greg- Spring break 05 crew! says:
Greg- Spring break 05 crew! says:
ya no im always up for this shit
well thats that sorted then 
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Tom
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Gayness in a jar
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Siberia
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quote:
Originally posted by Tom
I would like a night off now n then tho siberia
i just dont feel the urge really... tbh she could probably drink alot of my mates under the table probably just got lucky
dont get me wrong we have our arguements but thats healthy
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Tom
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No but no matter how nice and easy going etc your g/f you need a night with the boys to be 100% yourself and talk about birds etc I couldn't be doign with that he says seeing new missus 2nite round at mine then off to mate and his g/friends with her 2moro but that'll be it til Sunday then **Always thinking **
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Siberia
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^ the player in me left along time ago
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Half Pint
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quote:
Originally posted by Siberia
^ the player in me left along time ago
what tom was in you ?
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Tom
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PMSL
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GREG 1
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This rings some bells... hmm very similiar boat to the 1 im in
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bradfincham
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Dave your doing the right thing, at this age you have to be very jealous, sounds harsh!
I left nat and was selfish enough to finish with her so i could leave for oz, i had endless chances i could have cancelled the trip but i thought nope id do it!
The day that plane took off i forgot about uk and just thought about me and the world!
It was amazing and broadened my horizons on life totally, now i would never get into sucha serious relationship for one,
and i now look more into a girl,
there are some nice genuine ones out there, the majority are bitches that will fuck you over to get what they want though!!
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Jamie
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quote:
Originally posted by bradfincham
there are some nice genuine ones out there, the majority are bitches that will fuck you over to get what they want though!!
Think I've met two of theses said "bitches"
Thank god I've finally found a geniune one...
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Ben
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i fell out with my bird on sunday - shes turning into an alky ffs.
and shes also going on holiday with 2slags , i hope to fcuk she dont cheat on me .
but then again i am off to megamuf or ibiza the week she comes back so its alllllll good
on sat night my mate bumped into the lad that shagged his bird, he showed him up by knocking him out ,outside creation in leeds . This guy were just layed with the fairys on the pavement
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Ian
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quote:
Originally posted by dave17
seems a waste of 25months
Not at all - you've learnt a lot.
Not hugging goodbye is a mere detail. Don't worry. Probably better if you don't tbh.
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dave17
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the feeling does get worse with time aswel
i txt her asking her 2 drop round all the holiday stuff, as its all in her name. but she said she will 2mo, coz she needs to cancel her name off it
i need to go out, staying in is no fun
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Ian
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Bad news Dave, it gets worse before it gets better. Its taken me months in the past, and even longer before I've gone out with anyone else. Just stick to your decision which if you remember was reasoned and justified and needed to happen. Not like you didn't give it any thought and come up with it.
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