Andrew
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Some girls are worth just being good friends with. I've got one that really helped me out a few years back when i was really low and i'll never forget her for it. I would never want a relationship with her, never mind a one night stand. She's a true friend and i hope always will !!
Those who say all girls are stupid and are good for one thing should get there head out there arse and look around.
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Adam-D
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life is what you make of it, i see jules point, everyday
just take the good with the bad and amble along,
im past careing now, i see it as thier loss as not to sound big head'd but im fucking ace 
and ive been told before im "too nice" lmao ah well its my nature.
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John_C
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quote:
Originally posted by Adam-D
life is what you make of it, i see jules point, everyday
just take the good with the bad and amble along,
im past careing now, i see it as thier loss as not to sound big head'd but im fucking ace
and ive been told before im "too nice" lmao ah well its my nature.
this man speaks the truth exactly wot i feel
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Jules
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Ditto, and also what I get told a lot by female friends "You're too nice"
Always the bridesmaid never the bride - springs to mind 
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JayT
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i have been out with 2 absolutely gorgeous girls but both of them knew they were good looking and il be honest i let them walk all over me! if we had an argument i was always the first to apologise (sp) and if we hadnt seen eachuva that day id be first to text her etc! the reason that i split up with the two different girls was that i was "too nice" which has always baffled me as to why that was a bad thing! i have to say, some pretty girls have nice personalities and like it if your nice to them all the time, but on the other hand there are so many attractive girls out there that know they are good looking and know that if they break up with you they can pick their next man and get them!
but thats girls for you
[Edited on 20-12-2006 by corsa boy Jay T]
[Edited on 20-12-2006 by corsa boy Jay T]
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Cybermonkey
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girls are headfucks. they are as confused as us when it comes to relationships and dating etc etc
right now, over at www.horsey-ponysport.co.uk, there is an identical thread about how nice girls never get the hot guys. probably. Im totally with Jules and Adam-D, just stroll along at your own pace, and if you so happen to meet someone that you click with, just go with the flow. I am over chasing this one girl to the ends of the earth. if she really wants to waste time messing about, then im leaving her to it!!
she has missed out on possibly the best relationship she could ever hope for, with me. her loss for not realising this!!
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Jamescorsa97
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Registered: 19th Aug 04
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quote:
Originally posted by Cybermonkey
girls are headfucks. they are as confused as us when it comes to relationships and dating etc etc
right now, over at www.horsey-ponysport.co.uk, there is an identical thread about how nice girls never get the hot guys. probably. Im totally with Jules and Adam-D, just stroll along at your own pace, and if you so happen to meet someone that you click with, just go with the flow. I am over chasing this one girl to the ends of the earth. if she really wants to waste time messing about, then im leaving her to it!!
she has missed out on possibly the best relationship she could ever hope for, with me. her loss for not realising this!!
Amen. I currently realising I am in the "Too nice" zone.
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Ojc
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If your looking for love it won't find you.
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Tom
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I have a bit of a thing for a girl i've known for years, she likes nobheads e.g. she's had two relationships in the past year first one used to put her down and pretty much make her have sex  (her words), second one was with an ex who she met whilst working in spain, he stole off her and gave her the clap, she took him back about 2 months ago and he stole off her again (  ) silly cow.
Now she's single and she know's I wana ride again (I did have a go while she was with the one who made her have sex ) and she text me on friday out of the blue  I totally blew her out as I only blagged her last time by being an arrogant cocky fucker. She has been texting me trying to arrange seeing me over xmas every day since friday.
Such is life
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Tom
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I should add I would never go out with this girl btw she is just fit as fuck
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AdZ9
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and another point which is true is that you always want the ones that you can't have! I've known this girl for about 4 months and shes amazing, we click in EVERY way and it feels so natural, BUT she has a boyfriend and has been with him for like 3 yrs
what Ojc is right, if you going looking for love you wont find it, you may think you found it but it isnt "true love" i had this in my last relationship, thought i was in love with this girl but realised i wasnt its jsut i thought i was as i was single for ages before!
life is a cunt when it comes to relationships haha
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Tom
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Agreed, and I get so much more attention from other girls when I am meant to be seeing someone must project confidence or something
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Cybermonkey
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quote:
Originally posted by Tom
Agreed, and I get so much more attention from other girls when I am meant to be seeing someone must project confidence or something
so true 
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Ojc
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I love you TBH
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AdZ9
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Ojc i think i love you
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Cybermonkey
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Originally posted by AdZ9
Ojc i think i love you
fucking n00bs, he would eat you alive
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K2 GTi
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The your "too nice" saying, is just put that way not to sound harsh
Seriously
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Cybermonkey
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quote:
Originally posted by K2 GTi
The your "too nice" saying, is just put that way not to sound harsh
Seriously
so fucking true. then they want you as a best friend  fucking friendship zone has caught me out a few times. BEWARE THE FRIENDSHIP ZONE!
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K2 GTi
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quote:
Originally posted by Cybermonkey
quote:
Originally posted by K2 GTi
The your "too nice" saying, is just put that way not to sound harsh
Seriously
so fucking true. then they want you as a best friend fucking friendship zone has caught me out a few times. BEWARE THE FRIENDSHIP ZONE!
yeah, bascically, they don't want anything more than friendship which is why they say that..
people who are getting boosted because a female has said that to you needs to think twice : 
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SteveW
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i have had the "Your too nice", so i worked on that and then it was "you've changed and i dont like it"
So there really isnt any winning.
thats why i sleep around with dirty ho's
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Half Pint
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Originally posted by Ojc
If your looking for love it won't find you.
i'm just looking for ass and your will do nicely Oliver 
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Tom
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Your too nice basically means you're an ugly cnut and she don't want you schlong anywhere near her
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K2 GTi
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Originally posted by Tom
Your too nice basically means you're an ugly cnut and she don't want you schlong anywhere near her
not what adam thinks 
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Tom
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I would never read too much into it or try and purposely change a girls opinion if she sais that to me, it's basically a lost cause. Trying to change your behaviour just looks desperate anyway
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Jamescorsa97
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Been in the "friends" zone before.
Got out of there asap!
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