Eck
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A) you still can't spell... its Marriott
B) You are far to obsessed with homosexuality to be straight
C) What has it to do with you about someone's sexual preference?
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Pop
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Originally posted by robmarriott
where? all girls like a bad boy dont they?
i'd imagine some do but not everyone likes getting shit on from a great height
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RS6
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thats what i thought ^
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Russ
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Originally posted by robmarriott
where? all girls like a bad boy dont they?
i thought they liked the funny dependable type.
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Robin
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true Tim 
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RS6
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it can reach a point where you having nothing to do, because all your mates are tied up with gf's
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JadeM
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Originally posted by marklaruk
i want a gf but have no confidence to go out and get one...
i love to go out clubbing and things and meeting new people, but i h8 ppl meeting me and not liking me... fair enough people say fuck em but its just getting out of my ways...
it all goes back to high school really where i had spots since i was 13 and had them until i was 19 or so (still get them abit now but not much at all) i never got bullied or anything and had gr8 friends, i was never gf material and still dont think i am tbh!! even tho ppl tell me different (persoanlly i think its the symapthy vote) my self confidence is so fucking non existant and i find it hard to keep eye contact with women because i feel like such an ugly bastard 
i didnt wana really do much with people outside of school for some reason and kinda same in college, which has led to me been single for ages.
now at 20 i feel so inexperienced with all this gf malarky and feel like im gona grow up an old lonely man
how pissed off am i
what a sad twat! 
[Edited on 30-07-2006 by marklaruk]
Lack of confidence is not a good thing to be chasing women with!! Self confidence & how you handle yourself around people without being cocky is what will make you sink or swim as far as 1st impressions go.
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Robin
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its the lack of confidence which is my downfall too. problem is, one rejection is all it takes to destroy the confidence built up over time
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Sooty
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quote:
Originally posted by Eckmcmann
A) you still can't spell... its Marriott
B) You are far to obsessed with homosexuality to be straight
C) What has it to do with you about someone's sexual preference?
u like starfish
answers all questions really
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RS6
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Originally posted by marklaruk
i want a gf but have no confidence to go out and get one...
i love to go out clubbing and things and meeting new people, but i h8 ppl meeting me and not liking me... fair enough people say fuck em but its just getting out of my ways...
it all goes back to high school really where i had spots since i was 13 and had them until i was 19 or so (still get them abit now but not much at all) i never got bullied or anything and had gr8 friends, i was never gf material and still dont think i am tbh!! even tho ppl tell me different (persoanlly i think its the symapthy vote) my self confidence is so fucking non existant and i find it hard to keep eye contact with women because i feel like such an ugly bastard
i didnt wana really do much with people outside of school for some reason and kinda same in college, which has led to me been single for ages.
now at 20 i feel so inexperienced with all this gf malarky and feel like im gona grow up an old lonely man
how pissed off am i
what a sad twat!
[Edited on 30-07-2006 by marklaruk]
i would agree with this statement! years go by still no change, can be scary 
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marklaruk
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im just been a retard when i think about it...
im at a house party on saturday so just gona throw myself in there and get chattin to people... i know i can be a good laugh (thats the only thing i think is a good point about me) haha.
people say exactly what you have and to grow some brass balls and get talkin and not be timid or cocky.
i feel like such a friggin loser now!! haha
thx 
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marklaruk
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Originally posted by robmarriott
its the lack of confidence which is my downfall too. problem is, one rejection is all it takes to destroy the confidence built up over time
thats what scares me really... but again you gota have brass balls... not everyone is gona like you (hardly anyone for me really), but if you look and keep at it surely someone will be there waiting
just wana have a gf i can hug, chat 2 and shit...
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JadeM
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Originally posted by robmarriott
its the lack of confidence which is my downfall too. problem is, one rejection is all it takes to destroy the confidence built up over time
I used to be like that & didnt feel comfortable aproaching people (girls mainly) on a 1 to 1 basis. Even stuff people take for granted like stirring up a conversation or talking on the phone seemed difficult so id avoid it!! I think it just comes with age tbh. Ive had enough rejections & heart breaks now to know what im doing...I think
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CorsAsh
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Is that Jade or Kolon talking?
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RS6
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quote:
Originally posted by robmarriott
its the lack of confidence which is my downfall too. problem is, one rejection is all it takes to destroy the confidence built up over time
put that down to inexperience though, not used to something its gonna hurt big time if it comes crashing down, im the same, always hope the other half makes the 1st move make it easier lol
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Pop
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don't feel like a loser mark, you can talk about it which ain't bad.
lasses like it if you can talk to them and make them smile.
when you go to the party just chat to them about random stuff that you'd chat to your mates about, don't lie to them. if you're finding it difficult to chat find someone else to talk to because the lass probably isn't right for you
you'll find someone who you can just chat to really easily and you'll wonder what was ever so difficult about it
i'm not mega confident, but i don't act like a nob and i'm a friendly person. the lasses that want a bad boy won't talk to me
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marklaruk
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i have recently been going out with a coupel of friends from school again (nice to know they gave me a second chance after i fobbed them off).
One runs a pub in wakefield and he aint gr8 lookin, but hes a bad boy which the ladies love and well... hes happy hah
other lad seems to always have a gf and he really has the gift of the gab with the ladies...
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JadeM
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quote:
Originally posted by CorsAsh
Is that Jade or Kolon talking?
Kolon mate...I used to be a shy timid little fucker in my early teens you know!!
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Robin
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I'm the same, i have no idea what to say to girls i turn into a 5 year old kid infront of 100000 people
and Mark, i want to settle down with someone, i cant be arsed with the getting cunted every weekend, and clubbing till i faint stuff
maybe i grew up too fast, i've felt like it for a couple of years now
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marklaruk
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im not the brightest bulb, but i can make people smile and alot of people do say i make them smile and that im good company n shit so that kinda makes ya feel better
dont think i could settle down with someone just yet lol...
[Edited on 30-07-2006 by marklaruk]
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CorsAsh
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quote:
Originally posted by JadeM
quote:
Originally posted by CorsAsh
Is that Jade or Kolon talking?
Kolon mate...I used to be a shy timid little fucker in my early teens you know!!
Fuck off you did Well whatever, you landed on your feet when you er, landed in Jade 
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marklaruk
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ur a right lucky bugger with jade, shes bloody hottt!! but then again ur good lookin (no im not gay), so have a much better chance lol
bugger
[Edited on 30-07-2006 by marklaruk]
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Eck
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^^ as said mate, you won't get very far if you're so insecure, confidence goes a long way. But don't get over confident, getting called an arrogant twat isn't nice
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Robin
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i think my other problem is I'm still not over my last gf the cheaterererererer
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marklaruk
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i might just walk in the room and shout i have a 10 inch cock
which is a lie
[Edited on 30-07-2006 by marklaruk]
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