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Why have a kid if your going to leave it with a different person everyday whilst you work full time and not even see it grow up.
I dont leave my daughter with anyone, i work the hours she is at school
I could say why have a child if you cant afford to support it without draining the social 
You dont have to work full time, there is such a thing as part time, and there is nothing wrong with a child going to private nursery and mixing with other children
Thats like saying while a child is in full time education you miss seeing it grow up
ffs get a grip on yourself
Was that quote even aimed at you Kerry?? I don't see your name mentioned anywhere there at all. All i said was why have a kid if you work full time?? Whilst a child is small, i personally wouldn't want to work, i would want to spend as much time with it until it went to school.
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Are you kerry's lap dog Robbo??
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Robbo
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STFU are you Karens lover or something Do u actually think before u post?!
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Katie
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very mature.
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STFU are you Karens lover or something Do u actually think before u post?!
Such childish comments make me think that it is you who doesn't think before they post. You don't seem to have your own oppinion, except for going along with everything kerry says, i just wondered if you spoke for yourself, that's all?
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Robbo
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STFU are you Karens lover or something Do u actually think before u post?!
Such childish comments make me think that it is you who doesn't think before they post. You don't seem to have your own oppinion, except for going along with everything kerry says, i just wondered if you spoke for yourself, that's all?
OK once again, STFU Kerry optimises the proper REAL single parent, Karen is a freeloading tango twat  WHo feels the need to post that she has no money yet pays no rent and also that her council tax is £2k per yr (bullshit) but she doesnt pay it U r a newbie to all this so you dont have the history of seeing what shes like
Please refer to Ian's many previous comments
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BORING
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Robbo
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Shut it you 
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Katie
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Maybe i am a newbie and don't know what she is like, but i don't like the way some people talk to other's on here, it's meant to be a friendly website, not a place where people sit and put people down and be spiteful to one another, but if that's the way you like it and it makes you feel better, so be it.
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Robbo
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tbh love i couldnt give 2 fucks what u think
 
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Karen
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£78 per month on nails and a tan and £20 for the kids future. OMFG.
Was just thinking this
You'd rather look like an orange than save for your sons future..
Unless daddyo saves more for him
Exactamundo... fkn ridiculous 
My son already has more than 10k in savings so wheres the need in me saving loads every month?  He isnt even 2 yet and needs no acess to money for a very long time.
Plus the CSA money goes into his account too so thats £150 a month from his dad
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Robbo
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Thats alkright then, let the dad pay for him an u keep up those lovely nails
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I can see this thread soon!
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Originally posted by Robbo
OK once again, STFU
This comment makes me (no offence Katie)
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Originally posted by Ally
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What about the single parent families who work but still need certain benefits to get by? You don't know what your talking about.
I think he is on about people who baltently could go out and work if they wanted too, yet they choose to take benefits instead of working.
EG - I am 19, looking to buy my first house soon, need 4k for a deposit, 1k for legal fees/survey, then need to be earning a minimium of 900 a month to survive...
HOWEVER
If i got myself pregnant ... the council would give me a place for little or no money AND they would pay me to live there! and if i kept having children, i would get an even bigger place.
katie i think you are on about single mums who work and get their child benefit? which most mums are entitled too, yes i agree with child benefit seeing as we all pay so much tax its nice to have some support back.
However i do not agree with girls who have a kid, dont work (even thou they could) yet choose to get benefits instead of making somthing of themselves.
Karen - i am not slagging you off or saying you are wrong in what you do, because i know how hard it is being a mum. I am saying i do not think saving £20 for your son, yet spending £80 on stuff for yourself is a good idea, however you do what you want, your life, your money and you are entitled to live your life however you choose too.
Anyway i am off to watch the fireworks i hope ive made paul j proud
Rhys has more savings than I ever had and plus CSA money which I already said so I really dont need to put money away for him but I dont want to think in years time I didnt put any of my own money aside for him so I just put a little away. If I was working or not half of what I get just now I would still get regardless from the inland revenue as I have a kid.
I will go to work in a years time when he goes to nursery and work while he is there.
Its not like Iv been on beneifts since he was born. I did work 30hours a week for the first year but just found it hard as I wasnt spending alot of time with him. I think that being with him all the time though has helped him loads, he is far more advanced in things he can say and understand what im saying compared to other kids his age.
Theres nothing wrong with a single parent wanting to be with there kid all the time.
And for the comment about why have kids if u cant afford it or will be in a relationship- I did have a good job when I fell pregnant and also in a loving relationship too. Had no reason to think I would end up like this. But 4 days after giving birth my bf at the time decided it wasnt the life he wanted and was all too fast for him so he left. He turned out to be an imature twat and im glad he doesnt see his son if he is going to act like that
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Robbo
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he doesnt even get to see your son?
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Karen
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he doesnt even get to see your son?
his choice not mine
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Robbo
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Fair enough...
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Sam
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Furry muff...
Not sure about that?
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