--Dave--
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Originally posted by willay
stop fucking skanks and you wont have anything to worry about.
more like an Essex thing 
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dave17
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 she hasnt got aids, i hope 
id jus rather be safer than sorry.
i can trust her, its just really hard 2 explain it all, som im not gona start on here. spoken 2 my best mate and he said to get checked out aswel, not gona tell Danni tho - unless she pisses me off again and i feel like putting a guilt trip on her 
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--Dave--
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tell her you gave her aids, that'll shit her up 
Though you might not get sex off her again
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Tom
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quote:
Originally posted by --Dave--
tell her you gave her aids, that'll shit her up
Though you might not get sex off her again
Or you might just get her beleiving you and accepting it, then you'll always get it as she would feel too guilty to give it to anyone else
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TNM
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daves told me what the problem is and i can see where he is coming from.
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dave17
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quote:
Originally posted by TNM
daves told me what the problem is and i can see where he is coming from.
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TNM
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quote:
Originally posted by Dave17
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Originally posted by TNM
daves told me what the problem is and i can see where he is coming from.
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Half Pint
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Chin up plenty more fish in the sea 
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Tom
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quote:
Originally posted by TNM
daves told me what the problem is and i can see where he is coming from .
Behind there in lies the problem she has a sore bum-bum
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Ojc
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Gang bang? They are wicked.
Dave I would love a 4some with you and Danni and me and Rachel.
I could rub my willy on your knee as we withdraw from our partners.
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antscorsa
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if it were me and u went on a break and she cheated then that would b it for me, its one thing to want some space but to go that far is crossing the line. i argue alot with my bird at the mo too and breaking up would b sooo hard but i couldnt let her do that.
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the_legend_of_yrag
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quote:
Originally posted by Dave17
right update!!
woke up this morning bout 7.30am to find a tx on my phone, was basically 'if u want to see me 2mo let me know, hope u had a good night' this was sent at 4.20 am so i tx her back then saying 'its upto you, i got stuff 2 do tho'.
then about 12 i get another tx asking me why i was txtin her at 7.30 and did i see any girls i knew there, i said id jus woken up, and that id seen a few girls yeh, mentioned one of their names and got this back 'hope u had a lovely night flirting with ***** guess u stayed at hers then got ur sex off her thats y u were home at 7.30 this morning' i jus txt back 'lol' as it was so stupid
i jus phoned her coz i couldn b bothered with txtin. She was saying that if i wana see **** again then id have 2 dump her coz she wont have me seein this girl (who is a mate) Then she says if i see her, then shes gona go see the bloke she slept with while we were on a break and see how i liked that, i wnt pretty mental because i only kissed a few girls when we were on a break, and she slept with some1 
jus told her if it meant that much to her, then i wont speak or meet this girl coz she means more to me than one of my girl mates. arguement sorted, or so i think.
then she goes on about how she went back 2 this blokes house aain after going out, thats why she got in so late i didnt rise to it, and jus said how it was great she was doing what she wanted and was having fun
then i got an earful about not inviting her out PMSL with me i didnt even start with that, too pathetic.
but seems we were on a roll of some home truths, i asked her about this bloke she slept with when we were on a break. (i only knew his name) im not gona post up what i found out, as itl cause too much of a stir, but lets just say we went back 2 hers, she undressed me n everythin, and wanted me to sleep with her, but i couldn. im not gona go too deep into this but since ive found out what happened, i find it hard to want to sleep with her. i hope i can sort my head out, as we do actually love eachother in some very odd way
but if i cant get over it, i doubt we can stay together.
and for the record, i would never cheat on her, as ive had it done 2 me before and i know how it feels. i was jus saying 'if'
essay pt 2
i find this quite funny she complaines at you replying at 7.30 to a message she sent at 4.30
Thats where you ask the question what was u doing at 4.30 then if i read the post right she was round a blokes? And shes accusing u of sleeping withsomeone? lol get rid of her mate
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jr
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quote:
Originally posted by Ojc
Gang bang? They are wicked.
Dave I would love a 4some with you and Danni and me and Rachel.
I could rub my willy on your knee as we withdraw from our partners.
PMSL
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Ben
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So
1) shes cheated on you
2) shes moaning at you "talking" to other lasses yet shes going back to other lads houses.
3) shes give you something shes caught off someone she cheated with.
4) She slept with someone in this "space" time
5) trying to stop you seeing your mates
**Gives Dave a slap**
get a fucking grip mate. and tell her to piss off
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Danae
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quote:
Originally posted by Ben
So
1) shes cheated on you
they were on a break
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Ben
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i suppose but i would still not like the fact my girlfriend fucked someone on this "break" . Did not exactly wait around for a long time did she , so if she drops them that easy how many times would she have done it when they were together?
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stuartmitchell
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just ignore her for a wee while and watch her get all "I miss you", "I love you" blah blah
she will come back, they always do
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dave17
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quote:
Originally posted by Ben
So
1) shes cheated on you
we were on a break, yeh it only took her 2 weeks, but she was really messed up and this bloke took advantage, im still waiting for the right time to sort that out.
2) shes moaning at you "talking" to other lasses yet shes going back to other lads houses.
this is true i keep saying if it were the other way around, id be in the shit
3) shes give you something shes caught off someone she cheated with.
not true, there is a possibility, but hes only been with 1 person b4, and they were virgins, so maybe not - but maybe 
4) She slept with someone in this "space" time
true, and it made me feel like shit, but she made it upto me and has payed the price.
5) trying to stop you seeing your mates
50/50 on this one, she wants to go out with her mates, and me with mine, but only blokes.
**Gives Dave a slap**
ouch
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dave17
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so we had another chat, and was basically weve got things pretty sorted.
theres waaay too much to type, and its too late for it all
but it seems ok now (for now)
she said what she did was a one off, and she doesnt even know why it happened, didnt fancy him etc, he just used slimey lines on her when she was vunerable 
some of u may thing that shes jus feeding me bullshit that i wana hear, but i can tell when shes lying, and she wasnt when we were sorting things out.
lets just hope i dont have to start another thread like this
cheers for the replies tho, whats it with Danni, Corsasport and 5+ page threads?!?!
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Ian
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quote:
Originally posted by Dave17
she was vunerable
And is she still?
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dave17
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quote:
Originally posted by Ian
quote:
Originally posted by Dave17
she was vunerable
And is she still?
no, because we sorted things out. when she slept with the bloke she was on anti depressants and was smokin shitloads of skunk (her mates got her into it)
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willay
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quote:
Originally posted by Dave17
whats it with Danni, Corsasport and 5+ page threads?!?!
Man, I'm getting that on my CS polo-shirt
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Tom
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quote:
Originally posted by willay
quote:
Originally posted by Dave17
whats it with Danni, Corsasport and 5+ page threads?!?!
Man, I'm getting that on my CS polo-shirt
Yes but this one had no pics at all in 
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Ojc
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Pics?
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dave17
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after all this and i thought we had it 'sorted'. we broke up tonight.
this bloke from her work hasnt stopped trying it, and has eventually worn her down.
on saturday night she came where my mates were (oh the irony ) and we ended up arguing. i brought up this bloke (whos shes been seeing quite a bit, work drinks etc) and asked her if she fancied him, she said 'i dont know'. amongst other things, i jus left it, and said id speak 2 her later.
met her tonight, all the truth came out about how hes been txting her etc. she swears nothings happened (probably also bullshit) but i told her enough is enough and i dont want to be with her anymore.
i got the whole 'but i still love u, can we stil be friends' i jus said no, and told her to leave me alone
im a bit mixed up at the mo, co i feel good that i broke it off, and that i had the strength to do it, but i know im gona miss her, as i do still love her :s
doh well
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