Steve
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ryzer
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it wont make the papers.
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VXRDanny
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quote: Originally posted by Robin
Dave, it's not just about his ex. Don't draw a conclusion when you don't know what you're on about.
I think it's utterly disgusting that people are slagging him off TBH. If you have something bad to say, say it somewhere else, not in this thread.
you sad individual 
I'm not slating him, I'm merely pointing out what the majority of people are thinking.
How many people are posting... "get well soon mate" "thinking of you" when they don't actually mean it? Disgusting in itself really.
You're right I don't know the in and outs. All I was commenting on was the fact the he'd tried to kill himself. It's obvious his gf/ex gf has a large influence in this. Any wannabe detective could figure that out.
Go make yourself a cup of tea.
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Colin
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quote: Originally posted by Robin
Dave, it's not just about his ex. Don't draw a conclusion when you don't know what you're on about.
I think it's utterly disgusting that people are slagging him off TBH. If you have something bad to say, say it somewhere else, not in this thread.
It is true though, despite how harsh it sounds.
My mate hung himself in the local woods, left his pregnant girlfriend to fend for herself, his parents to wonder where they had gone wrong & lots of mates full of what if's. At the end of the day its a very selfish thing to do.
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mav
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Again a time and a place 'Dave'
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Dee
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quote: Originally posted by Robin
Dave, it's not just about his ex. Don't draw a conclusion when you don't know what you're on about.
I think it's utterly disgusting that people are slagging him off TBH. If you have something bad to say, say it somewhere else, not in this thread.
Not slagging him off, I feel for the poor lad as he must be going through a shit time. We have all been there at one point in our lives. I know I have.
I lost my only Nan, my girlfriend of 3 years, my driving license and had no or little money and that was all in the space of a month.
I knuckled down, bit the bullet and got on with life. No matter how bad things are there is always someone to talk to, TBH CorsaSport probably helped me pull through it all and not once did suicide cross my mind. Life is there to be lived.
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Steve
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its not so much the suicide thing, people minds work in weird ways, its more down to asking on here what to do then actually doing it
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Robin
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I'm not debating the truth in it, I just think this isn't really the time or place to be having a go at the lad.
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Blade_sri
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i dont know this bloke and never will but its sad when someone young trys to kill themself!
quote: Originally posted by VXRDanny
quote: Originally posted by Robin
I think it's utterly disgusting that people are slagging him off TBH. If you have something bad to say, say it somewhere else, not in this thread.
you sad individual 
I'm not slating him, I'm merely pointing out what the majority of people are thinking.
How many people are posting... "get well soon mate" "thinking of you" when they don't actually mean it? Disgusting in itself really.
You're right I don't know the in and outs. All I was commenting on was the fact the he'd tried to kill himself. It's obvious his gf/ex gf has a large influence in this. Any wannabe detective could figure that out.
Go make yourself a cup of tea.
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bree
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get well soon eck and get back on here and smile  
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mav
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quote: Originally posted by Robin
I'm not debating the truth in it, I just think this isn't really the time or place to be having a go at the lad.
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Colin
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Must be a mental thing actually getting to the point of thinking yip im going to kill myself.
Im away for dinner now folk's...............just incase you notice im gone & think well............gosh urm....you know 
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VXRDanny
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wack indeed Colin 
What I've posted is merely my opinion, nothing more. We're all entitled to one, where else am I going to go and post it? Some random thread in South-East perhaps?!? No.
Don't get me wrong, I feel sorry for people who try this and do actually hope those who survive get through their problems.
FFS I know people close to me who have been through worse, a lot worse and yes they've been upset etc... it takes a fcuked up individual to want to end their own life though in my opinion.
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Rebecca
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Some people are weaker than others though.
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Tommy L
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quote: Originally posted by VXRDanny
wack indeed Colin 
What I've posted is merely my opinion, nothing more. We're all entitled to one, where else am I going to go and post it? Some random thread in South-East perhaps?!? No.
Don't get me wrong, I feel sorry for people who try this and do actually hope those who survive get through their problems.
FFS I know people close to me who have been through worse, a lot worse and yes they've been upset etc... it takes a fcuked up individual to want to end their own life though in my opinion.
topshot
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VXRDanny
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quote: Originally posted by novabex
Some people are weaker than others though.
true. Even so, how weak do you need to be to try something like that? That's what family are for. To help you get through these things.
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VXRDanny
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quote: Originally posted by corsa_tomtom
quote: Originally posted by VXRDanny
wack indeed Colin 
What I've posted is merely my opinion, nothing more. We're all entitled to one, where else am I going to go and post it? Some random thread in South-East perhaps?!? No.
Don't get me wrong, I feel sorry for people who try this and do actually hope those who survive get through their problems.
FFS I know people close to me who have been through worse, a lot worse and yes they've been upset etc... it takes a fcuked up individual to want to end their own life though in my opinion.
topshot
well and truly rumbled
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Dee
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There are phonelines, family, friends, internet forums that can all help you pull through hard times. You just need to work at it rather than just quitting.
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Tommy L
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lucky guess tbh.
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AdZ9
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Some people don't feel like they can turn to their family. I never turn to family if i have a problem, don't know why i just like to sort it myself i dont even turn to friends. Obviously if it was something massive and really serious i would turn to them for sure.
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K2 GTi
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Im the same..I don't turn to my mum unless it's something really bad.
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VXRDanny
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suicide attempts I would class as 'something massive'
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Fro
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tom tom the detective.
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Dee
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Same as me, I don't turn to friends I sort it out in my head. Makes you stronger when you experience these things.
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VXRDanny
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quote: Originally posted by corsa_tomtom
lucky guess tbh.
not really
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