mark.mcg
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dats a proper hard 1 to ask that? wot would you do?
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CCA
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quote: Originally posted by mark.mcg
dats a proper hard 1 to ask that? wot would you do?
Me?
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mark.mcg
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yeah
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CCA
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Honestly i dont no i could say id have due to past experiences an everything but then i cant say that until it happened as i dont no how id feel then
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mark.mcg
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yeahsuppose. as a ;;ad i dnt have a clue how i would react, would ub mad at your bf if he said get rid of it straight away????
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Charlene
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quote: Originally posted by mark.mcg
yeahsuppose. as a ;;ad i dnt have a clue how i would react, would ub mad at your bf if he said get rid of it straight away????
i think i would be abit mad if they just decided what they wanted to do as should be a joint decision, IMO
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quote: Originally posted by mark.mcg
yeahsuppose. as a ;;ad i dnt have a clue how i would react, would ub mad at your bf if he said get rid of it straight away????
I dont no it would be something to deal with at the time but it wouldnt be entirely up to him as it would be my body an my decision as well
If he said get rid or we're over then thats another thing
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mark.mcg
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yeah suppose
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mark.mcg
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so if he did say it was over if you didnt give it away, would you keep it or go with ya bf?
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quote: Originally posted by mark.mcg
so if he did say it was over if you didnt give it away, would you keep it or go with ya bf?
If i loved him enough an knew for definate that i didnt want the baby then i would get rid of it but an abortion changes everything an its not something i would do without alot of thought
Would you ever say that to your gf?
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mark.mcg
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no neva say dat 2 ma gf, it wud have to be both of us making dat dicision
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Charlene
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Suppose you cant say what you would exactly do because if your not in that situation you dont know really
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mark.mcg
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yeah i suppose, but at the mo cuz im not, thats wot i think id do
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IM sorry if i offended anyone ( TOM, ALLY,CuteCorsaAngel et al) . Im no religious nut, ive been in the situation so I have had to think about the possibility of going through with a terminiation. I know i would spend the rest of my life regretting it and wondering what stage my kid could be at etc
Then again im slightly older than most here and have a secure steady Job.
But I still id prefer a kid to hate me for giving them up when born than to not be able to hate me at all.
Im just very against the child being denied the right to live just because its conception wasnt intended.
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Charlene
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Well your allowed your opinion
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barry_kellett99
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quote: Originally posted by Charlene
Well your allowed your opinion
Yea but il just keep them to myself i think
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CCA
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quote: Originally posted by barry_kellett99
quote: Originally posted by Charlene
Well your allowed your opinion
Yea but il just keep them to myself i think
Why?If you have a view that you feel strongly about then express it just maybe explain it a bit clearer next time hun so we dont get mixed up
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quote: Originally posted by Jodi_the_g
quote: Originally posted by barry_kellett99
quote: Originally posted by Charlene
Well your allowed your opinion
Yea but il just keep them to myself i think
Don't this country is built on freedom of speach, no one has to right to tell you to not vioce something you feel strongly on.
Yea but i was a bit strong, wouldnt want to tell anyone what to do
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Ally
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I have strong opinions on pretty much every thing and im not afriad to voice them.
If someone feels the opposite then i respect them for saying it, just what you said wound me up because ive heard all sorts of opinions about abortions both good and bad.
Abortion is against my religious beliefs, but also having a child that i dont actually want is against what i believe so it was a pretty hard choice.
Im glad that it happened to me, and i wouldnt change it. It was an experience and i learned from it, and it made me and richie stronger as a couple.
I should have my own show
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CCA
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You'd probably give better advice than the shows on already their so patronising
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3CorsaMeal
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i'd stick my big toe up her arse and make her sneeze
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Tom
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quote: Originally posted by barry_kellett99
quote: Originally posted by Jodi_the_g
quote: Originally posted by barry_kellett99
quote: Originally posted by Charlene
Well your allowed your opinion
Yea but il just keep them to myself i think
Don't this country is built on freedom of speach, no one has to right to tell you to not vioce something you feel strongly on.
Yea but i was a bit strong, wouldnt want to tell anyone what to do
I respect what you have said now u have explained it
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Skipz
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quote: Originally posted by 3CorsaMeal
stop refering to you babys as "IT" like they are some acceserory, u girls make me sick, bet most girls only have them as its an excuse to have something big passing thru your fanny
fucking quality 
to answer the question page 1..
I dunnowhat i would do depends on the situation..
(i'm 21 nearly 22 )
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quote: Originally posted by Nismo
plus i do not even want to think about kids till 27+ i want to live me life to
i'm 28 and i still dont wanna think the little fcukers
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I would keep it, not really the right time for having kids because of things which happened last summer. But I don't think I could get rid of it unless it was ill and it was for the best.
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