Aaron
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The film Road Trip springs to mind* 
*I didnt read the thread so some other genius may have already said this
[Edited on 15-06-2008 by Aaron]
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Jas
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Originally posted by Doug
I have just been in Aber uni for 3 years and I was in a constant relationship with my GF who lives 100 miles away in Wrexham.
Neither of us Cheated (as far as I know :lol
If you want any advice on Aber or anything give me a shout 
OR....
if you want some to keep an eye on her. cash per hour
I live near there
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kz
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Originally posted by Ben G
and to add, i've cheated on her because i gave in to temptation  worse thing ever
does she know? and do you mean sex or just kissing
i pulled another bird in a club and i must love my gf (even though weve never said it) cause omg i feel like absolute shit really really wish i hadnt
when i first met my gf she said shes going uni (will probably be next year) and she wants to do lots of drugs and sleep around... charming! so yeah, when she goes, weve kinda talked about it and it will probably be 99% we will break up
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mattk
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FFS kz if my G/F says she wanted to do drugs and sleep around at Uni she would have seen her arse along time ago
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dan-h
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yep lasses who go to uni will be getting tooled all night every night, lots of uni birds come drinking over sunderland a lot and newcastle, easiest lasses to pull EVER
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jacko198
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Originally posted by mattk
me and my g/f were each others first, Id hate it if she had already been with someone else.... strange I know
Exactly the same here
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Eck
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My gf is going to Uni, but fortunately it's quite close so she's coming home every day
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Ash_EP3
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My GF is off to uni in September, she is going to Demontford (Leicester - which is about a 3 hr drive away  )
My mate says he's had 4 gf's that have all gone to uni and they have split up whilst they have been away
Tis going to be mighty tough
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Neo
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I'm in exactly the same boat, girlfriend is off to Manchester in September.
Not sure what i'm going to do, dont really want to move up there as i have pretty much free living at home, and more money then i need coming in.
Really not sure what i'm going to do, kinda makes me feel as if i'm going to be sick reading some of the posts in here
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Tom
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Tough thing tbh, I would have been exactly the same about worrying whether you'd get through it without (either of you) cheating etc. I agree 100% with Ash, you should prepare yourself for it not working out, if it does then bonus. But you can't sit there 24 hours a day when she's gone and let it wreck your head or you'll go mad. I don't think I could stay with someone who was away meeting new like minded people every night, mostly based on my own loose morals
If it were me i'd try and speak to them as little as possible
[Edited on 17-06-2008 by Tom]
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Superlite Ltd.
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quote:
Originally posted by All Torque
quote:
Originally posted by jacko198
Get her to go to one neer you so she can still live at home 
Not possible at all. Shes going to Aberwrystwyth 240 miles away each way.
sorry mate, i'll look after her
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Neo
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Originally posted by Tom
you should prepare yourself for it not working out, if it does then bonus.
Bullshit to that
If thats how you lived your life on everything, including job prospects, oppurtunitys etc then you wouldnt enjoy anything.
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pow
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Some people need to get a grip in here tbh
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Tom
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quote:
Originally posted by Neo
quote:
Originally posted by Tom
you should prepare yourself for it not working out, if it does then bonus.
Bullshit to that
If thats how you lived your life on everything, including job prospects, oppurtunitys etc then you wouldnt enjoy anything.
Quoted for future use 
I was talking from my own perspective btw given that I wouldn't be able to stop myself thinking about her cheating , I'm not saying everyone is the same
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Matt L
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mine goes away in sept only to liverpool which is about an hour away so hopefully wont be too bad. but i dont really see it working out in the long run as she doesnt intend coming back to stoke once shes left. and i cant see me leaving for another atleast 6years so who knows whats going to happen.
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All Torque
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Originally posted by Matt L
mine goes away in sept only to liverpool which is about an hour away so hopefully wont be too bad. but i dont really see it working out in the long run as she doesnt intend coming back to stoke once shes left. and i cant see me leaving for another atleast 6years so who knows whats going to happen.
Move in with me and Ian
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willay
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Mutually end it, that way she can have fun at uni without feeling guilty.
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Superlite Ltd.
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quote:
Originally posted by willay
Mutually end it, that way she can have fun at uni without feeling guilty.
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liamC
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Originally posted by All Torque
Worst topic heading ev4r.. etc.
How do you cope when your BF or GF moves far away wether its work/Uni/other and you see them < once a month and hardly hear from them? What arrangements do you have to see them?
Has anyone had to end a relationship (or even a friendship) due to this?
Was it mutaul or was there some sleeping around involved? (Road Trip)
My head feels like a sack of spanners at the moment, GF is going to uni in September and if I don't get my insecurities/paranioa out of the way its going to end sooner rather than later
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Havent read the whole thread, but my mates boyfriend moved away for Uni for 3 years and theyre still together. Shame like, as I was dying to slot her.
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Originally posted by All Torque
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Originally posted by jacko198
Get her to go to one neer you so she can still live at home
Not possible at all. Shes going to Aberwrystwyth 240 miles away each way.
There's fuck all in Aberwrystwyth except sheep and fields. A lad I know went there. She'll end up going into beastiality.
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All Torque
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Originally posted by willay
Mutually end it, that way she can have fun at uni without feeling guilty.
Fuck, you, buddy
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All Torque
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Liam - Aber has 52 pubs, 2 beaches, loads of young people...
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willay
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quote:
Originally posted by All Torque
quote:
Originally posted by willay
Mutually end it, that way she can have fun at uni without feeling guilty.
Fuck, you, buddy
Dont mean that in a bad way, just being realistic, soon as she is miles away then you have to start making the relationship work instead of it just functioning by itself if you know what I mean? If you can deal with it, the milage, the cost, the distance, the lonelyness which can all come with a relationship like that then go for it mate.
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Tom
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Originally posted by All Torque
Liam - Aber has 52 pubs, 2 beaches, loads of young people...
No clubs
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Whittie
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I see louise most weekends, friday, saturday and sunday. Quite rare that we dont see eachother at the weekend now I'll either go down to london, or she'll come up to north wales.
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Superlite Ltd.
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quote:
Originally posted by All Torque
Liam - Aber has 52 pubs, 2 beaches, loads of young people...
and most importantly...
me 
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