Robin
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quote:
Originally posted by andy1868
well, unless i'm in your dreams (  ) you are in fact awake
I fear you may be correct, and I am indeed awake at such an ungodly hour 
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andy1868
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welcome to the morning thread 
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pow
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ROBIN, ANDY 
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Robin
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Pow
I need to get some breakfast (that's a novelty) but I don't know what I can be arsed to make 
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pow
Andy ive got a lecture in an hour 
Marcy Marc
White Sport Progress Thread
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andy1868
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pow 
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pow
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Marc
Robin, Coco pops 
Andy
[Edited on 30-11-2007 by pow]
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andy1868
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i was gonna say coco pops
why the ?
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Iain M
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Mark
i was gonna say something and i have completely forgot.
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JadeM
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Morning I'm mega tired today, never mind its FRIDAY yaaaaay!!! 
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Iain M
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Alright Jade
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pow
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Coco pops are
JADE
Was just about to U2U you muh dear.. 
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pow
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YAKKKKKKKKKKKK
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pow
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Heartbroken, CHOOOOON
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willay
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overplayed
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willay
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Everything started about 6 months ago when I got out of a long term relationship (6yr), and got together with a friend of mine from Uni. Things were really fun, but I didn't see a future for it because I was about to leave uni and had no idea where I was going. So I broke it off, and she was pissed for a while, but we made up again.
I'd never really forgotten about her, primarily because she made me so happy, and it was exciting to be getting into a new relationship. The last couple of months since we split up in May weren't great, but I found a job and settled in a place, met a lot of new people yadda yadda.
Two weeks ago I meet up with some friends and her for the first time in about five months, and it's great, chatting and laughing like old times, like I'd never been away. So I left half (more like 3/4rs) considering whether I wanted to get back together with her, and spent a week mulling over it, no idea what her feelings where.
Last weekend, I dropped in to see her again (had a short stop on the train and a few hours to kill) so we went for a drink and a bite to eat, she gave me a tour of the sights where she lived. It was really good to be around her again, but I didn't feel like I wanted to start our relationship again, probably because it had ended quite badly last time, and I didn't want that to happen again. So we walked around, laughed and told stories about life, just pretty normal stuff with a girl I get on with really well.
That night she messaged me saying that she still wanted to get back together, and I told her that I still had feelings for her, but they weren't enough to make a commitment to, and that I didn't want to hurt her any more. At this point she accuses me of lying to her and screwing her around, when from my viewpoint I hadn't done anything of the sort, and gone out of my way to make sure I didn't hurt her any more by being upfront.
So I'm left now with a friend who won't talk to me, and we're both pretty stubborn so it could stay like this a long while. It seems like even by being friends with her I'm going to hurt her no matter what, which is really frustrating as I miss her very much. I either have to forget her completely and lose a real friend or try and make a relationship work that I'm not 100% into, which will just end up a mess.
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pow
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His own fault tbh.
I just recieved one MMS
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Robin
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Coco Pops and coffee
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pow
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Cocopops
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willay
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I went out with this girl for three years. We did everything together, were always happy and rarely had fights. As far as I knew things were going great. For the last year or so we were so comfortable around eachother that we just stopped doing as much. We would spend the day just watching TV and the relationship got stale, I guess.
I enlisted in the Marines and got delayed multiple times from going to bootcamp for different reasons. The last time I had about 4 days untill I was supposed to leave before I got delayed again. She said I would just sit there and not talk to her or spend any real time with her even though we were together in the same room. And she said that hurt her alot. But I Never even thought about it, I thought it was fine. I would be gone for three months for boot camp and I would be back. I knew it would be a long distance relationship, I wanted her to come where I would be, however.
She broke up with me about one and a half months ago now. At first I really had no idea what was going on. She said she needed time to think about things, I asked howmuch time, and she says 3 days. 3 days comes and goes and she needs more time, this keeps going on for a week or so and I try to get out of her whats going on. I ask if I should just bring all of her stuff over to her house and she says not to. I don't and we keep doing the same thing for a week. I'm trying to get whats going on and she says she needs space. Eventually it all comes out that she does not know what she wants in her life, and wants to be able to have a career for herself and needs to be single so that she can focus on her school and work. This all came around the same time I expressed feelings of wanting to marry her someday.
I started drinking pretty heavily after that, I would drink about a bottle of Jack Daniels a day and pretty much stayed drunk and feeling like shit for over a week. Then I got a flu and lost 10 pounds, but that did not stop me from drinking.
The drinking slowed down but the pain lasted for weeks. I would wake up and think of her, lay in my bed and think of her, and sleep and dream of her.
We would talk every once in a while and I would ask if theres anything I could do, but I always got the same story.
Anyway, time passed and I met a new girl. Me and the ex would still talk every once in a while but it definately slowed down. I went on a few dates with the new girl and had sex with her. For people that say the best way to get over one girl is to get under another, thats definately not for all people.
We had sex and thats about it. It does nothing but make me depressed because I do not want to go out and have sex with random women all the time, I want a lasting relationship. And I know its definately not going to happen with this girl.
A few days ago the ex tells me she misses me out of the blue, and I ask what she means and she says shes been hanging out with the same people and misses me being around. So we hang out and we have a talk and drive around town and I do something stupid. I ask if shes been on any dates. She says yes and a whole bunch of stuff, basically shes not interested in them but went out anyway and still does not want a relationship.
So now I'm here, with one girl that I don't want to be with and constantly thinking of actually how to end it with her. It would not be hard, except shes friends with a couple of my friends, and I wonder if they will think I just used her for sex, which I think I probably did without even thinking about it. I thought going out with new people would make me feel better, but it didn't. So I pretty much am just talking to her less now.
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Tommy L
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pow
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Tom
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Fro
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DISTRICT LINE IS SHIT. IM CLAIMING MY LAST TWO DAYS TRAIN FARE FORM THE LONDON UNDERGROUND THIEVING CUNTS!
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Iain M
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I am going to make a coffee and read
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Fro
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Btw
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