dan_c4rsa
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Registered: 12th Dec 06
Location: North Yorks Drives: MK3 Seat Cupra
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my dads a dyslexic touchy bastard but i love him 
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JonnyJ
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Registered: 23rd Sep 05
Location: Scotchland
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Its a bit different with mine. I never knew/want to know my biological dad. He fucked off before i was born was just me and my mum for about 2 years before she met my "dad".
Ill always call him dad because hes the only one ive ever known but i had a closer relationship ship with my uncle. Did everything together, shared the same interests and the one i would really call my real dad as he looked after me alot when i was younger.
He died in 2005  Worst day ever
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Shane
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Registered: 10th Jan 04
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my mum and dad split before i was born,
mum had to get an order so he HAD to see me, which he rarely did, when i was 7 i told him i didnt want to see him anymore, think ive seen him about 3-4 times since then,
in that time he has been in prision and become a dirty heroin addict,
to me my dad is dead, all i have is my mum and thats good enough for me, atlease when i have my own kids i have a good idea or what a dad should be to someone
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Eck
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Registered: 17th Apr 06
Location: Lundin Links, Fife
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Me and my dad are close 
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nova_gteuk
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Registered: 15th May 02
Location: South Wales Drives: The Bandwagon
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I still live with my father at age 24  hes 50 in january  split from my mother when i was 16 aint spoken to her since.but hes with an indian women she lives in leamington spa.cant stand her and get shamed when people see my father with an indian lol (not racist just get loads of stick for it lol ) but he's the only family i have along with my brother and sister thesse days so have to put up with it.
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drunkenfool
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Registered: 7th Feb 03
Location: Hereford Drives: Audi R8 V8
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Parents split up when I was 4, didnt see my dad for 5 years for my mum is an evil shit stirring bitch. Mum was with an asshole boyfriend for 12 years, dad got remarried to a really nice woman, but the asshole boyfriend left 3 years ago, now my dad is getting divorced and getting back with my mum. "Strange" is an understatement
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eddiewhiteley
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Registered: 10th Mar 05
Location: down in albion
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my mum and dad have been married 27 years,they live in spain now,always got on really well with my dad,although he can be a complete stress head at times about the smallest things!
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will_ainsworth
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Registered: 8th Jun 07
Location: London, UK
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i miss my dad, he died suddenly in 2005, although we argued imo he was great! done everything for me, but i didnt relise this all untill he died, i know that we would be best of mates now and have loads in common because he was a mechanic, owned his own business and i would have been up there all the time helping him, and him teaching me! the worst bit for me is the way i remeber last, he had a sudden heart attack, mum was screaming i woke up, went in absolutely shat myself, i tried heart massage etc but he had gone, at first i thought he was still there cus i could hear funny beathing noises but it was me pushing in the air, when i looked at his eyes i knew he was dead cus they were glazed over, when paramedics came i got taken out of the room, last thing i saw of him that night was his feet hanging out of the doorway, worst night of my life, but i know he would be proud of me for what i done that night, that year was so fukin horrible, because we used to argue a bit my mum turned around to me before the funeral and said his death was my fault, i will never forgive her for saying that to me because it wasnt atall my fault, but we do get on now! its wierd what things can do to you tho cus until a few weeks ago i havn't dreamed since he died, only lately i have been dreaming, duno what thats about, anyone else had tht problem?
lol soz to go on, helps talking about it sometimes tho!!!
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Jake
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Registered: 24th Jan 05
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quote:
Originally posted by AdZ9
My parents have been together 25 years i think, i get on with both of them but i'm not a very open person with my emotions and i've never let them get close enough and i wish i could but for some reason i cant. Im moving back into their house in January after a year moving out, its going to be weird but i'll appreciate them more after living on my own.
It sounds bad but i dont say "i love you" etc to them much (if at all) i wish i did but i cant for some reason, its my issue and dont know why i dont, i just dont say it as i never have been used to it will seem weird if i started to, hard to explain really, not sure if other people have experienced this
Obviously i love them to bits, but i never tell them that, i know i should!
Im the same, i dont think ive ever said "i love you" to my mum, and the last time i can remember hugging her was when i was about 4. Its weird because im closer to her more than anyone.
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bigdan
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Registered: 4th Jan 07
Location: Jarrow (Newcastle)
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i can tell my parents anything. lasses ive drilled etc and all this but i never say i love you just been brought up to be a mans man imo never tell them my emotions
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AndyKent
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quote:
Originally posted by jake
quote:
Originally posted by AdZ9
My parents have been together 25 years i think, i get on with both of them but i'm not a very open person with my emotions and i've never let them get close enough and i wish i could but for some reason i cant. Im moving back into their house in January after a year moving out, its going to be weird but i'll appreciate them more after living on my own.
It sounds bad but i dont say "i love you" etc to them much (if at all) i wish i did but i cant for some reason, its my issue and dont know why i dont, i just dont say it as i never have been used to it will seem weird if i started to, hard to explain really, not sure if other people have experienced this
Obviously i love them to bits, but i never tell them that, i know i should!
Im the same, i dont think ive ever said "i love you" to my mum, and the last time i can remember hugging her was when i was about 4. Its weird because im closer to her more than anyone.
Me too, just feels wrong.
Shocking how many parents are divorced though, I swear not that many people at school or mates now have separated parents, but loads on here 
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Tom
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Registered: 3rd Apr 02
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I just got back from seeing my old man, told him about losing my job etc, I think he knew not to have a go had a decent chat for about 10 minutes  talking about jobs n stuff. Told him to start phoning me once in a while
Feel a bit better about it tbh, never gonna win any awards for being close though
Pissed talk...blah
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Tom
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Registered: 3rd Apr 02
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quote:
Originally posted by will_ainsworth
i miss my dad, he died suddenly in 2005, although we argued imo he was great! done everything for me, but i didnt relise this all untill he died, i know that we would be best of mates now and have loads in common because he was a mechanic, owned his own business and i would have been up there all the time helping him, and him teaching me! the worst bit for me is the way i remeber last, he had a sudden heart attack, mum was screaming i woke up, went in absolutely shat myself, i tried heart massage etc but he had gone, at first i thought he was still there cus i could hear funny beathing noises but it was me pushing in the air, when i looked at his eyes i knew he was dead cus they were glazed over, when paramedics came i got taken out of the room, last thing i saw of him that night was his feet hanging out of the doorway, worst night of my life, but i know he would be proud of me for what i done that night, that year was so fukin horrible, because we used to argue a bit my mum turned around to me before the funeral and said his death was my fault, i will never forgive her for saying that to me because it wasnt atall my fault, but we do get on now! its wierd what things can do to you tho cus until a few weeks ago i havn't dreamed since he died, only lately i have been dreaming, duno what thats about, anyone else had tht problem?
lol soz to go on, helps talking about it sometimes tho!!!
that's harsh, just remember the good times like he'd want you to mate. Your mum was just taking out her anger and hurt on you unfortunately.
I tried to resusitate my mate who died infront of me, I swore I could hear him breathing but it was just the air we were putting in coming back out slowly.
I didn't cry when my mate died until like a week later, was in shock. The dreaming thing is probably just you letting go.
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Robbo
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Registered: 6th Aug 02
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Glad it went OK Tom mate
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CorsAsh
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Registered: 19th Apr 02
Location: Munich
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Parents been together nearly 40 years. They're great 99% of the time, can be annoying sometimes though. That's normal though surely
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AdZ9
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Registered: 14th Apr 06
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reading peoples posts has really made me think twice about changing and start telling them i love them etc as you never know if its going to be the last time to speak to them!
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Tom
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Registered: 3rd Apr 02
Location: Wirral, Merseyside
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STEvieXE
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Registered: 21st Jan 03
Location: Ballymena N.I.
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i dont think theres anyone else i respect more than my dad
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IndyKalsey
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Registered: 26th Oct 06
Location: Manor Park, East London
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I get on alright with my folks (see them every now & then)
Well, seeing as i'm 23, and my dad is 40 - as is my mum
(so, we're all still young at the mo)
[Edited on 10-11-2007 by IndyKalsey]
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mattk
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Registered: 27th Feb 06
Location: St. Helens
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I work with my dad, hes a pain his temper is annoying, I wouldnt want to work with anyone else though
I argue a bit with my mam but its more banter than anything
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Huwsi
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Registered: 27th Apr 07
Location: Bangor, Gwynedd
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I havn't heard from my dad in ten years
[Edited on 10-11-2007 by Huwsi]
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Phi
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Registered: 8th Jan 07
Location: South
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well here goes...
normal family life up untili was 12.. one day my dad told us ' im divorcing your mum' ookaayy, cut long story short......
he ran off with some america (slightly younger) woman he met on the internet!!! and went to live in USA for ten years!, i was daddys girl so went to live with him when i was 16 a si missed him, i hated it so came back here after 10 months, moved to kent, then started speaking to him again last year i believe, now he has recently divorced the american person, come back here to live, still lieing and being weird ( from what ive heard)...
now im older im really finding it weird to call him dad.... and i also realising ive forgotton what hes like as a person etc etc.. its weird!
yeah thats my story
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