All Torque
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I said this to my ex best friend when i found out about him and my ex.
"No friend would see his mate's ex so soon after they split. You didnt have to go there but I hope you have a great time together, just to let you know you're one of the worst people I've ever met and a poor excuse for a friend."
I like to think that hit the spot. 
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Butler
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 I think you acted totally rationally and I dont blame you. Dont even give her any benefit of the doubt, dont feel sorry for her. Time to move on! Who knows maybe youll meet some hotties in your new job?
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jay kay
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To be weak and learn is better than to be strong and wonder.
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i like that saying
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PhilC
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Originally posted by Butler
I think you acted totally rationally and I dont blame you. Dont even give her any benefit of the doubt, dont feel sorry for her. Time to move on! Who knows maybe youll meet some hotties in your new job?
It's all about the student nurses!
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drax
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Originally posted by PhilC
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Originally posted by Butler
I think you acted totally rationally and I dont blame you. Dont even give her any benefit of the doubt, dont feel sorry for her. Time to move on! Who knows maybe youll meet some hotties in your new job?
It's all about the student nurses!
Bunch of student nurses come into the place downstairs all the time where I work... Some fittehs too! 
I must make more effort to learn their names!
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TheCam
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Sorry to hear this Phil.
Like you say not all girls at like this and it just takes time to get over her and find some1 thats right for you.
but enjoy your single life mate and go out and have fun with your mates etc.
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R Lee
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I've just been told by the one i "loved", is sleeping with somebody else. Know exactly what you're going through...
Ouch ouch ouch ouch, it fucking hurts
When will the pain end 
No, seriously, when...?
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PhilC
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i've had about 6 hours sleep in the past 3 nights. i've can't stop being sick. start my new job at 9am, i'm suppose to be leaving the house in 40 minutes too.
really dont wanna go
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JadeM
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I can't bare to think how I'd handle it if me and Colin ever split, far less find out he was cheating on me
Phil you need to go to your new job today, I can understand you must be feeling like shit but how much worse are you going to feel if you don't go It'll give you something to focus on in the next wee while and take your mind off it all a bit 
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Sam
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Sorry to hear that mate. I've been there a few times myself so I know how it feels, but what I can tell you is that you won't feel like this forever, you WILL get over it and just put this down to (life) experience.
To be honest though, it's very rare to find someone when you are in your teens/early 20s etc. that wants to really be with you and will not cheat on you, a lot of people in those sort of age groups tend to want to "experience life" first rather than being "tied down" or whatever to someone.
I myself am 27 and am lucky to have found someone genuine and straight up with me, also she is older than me so I guess she is more mature as well... Definately more mature than me too haha!
You'll find someone better than her soon mate, she isn't worth investing any more time/thoughts in.
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andy1868
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your new job is with student nurses? mate, don't even worry about the ex theres bound to be some nice looking student nurses kicking about, its the law of probability
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All Torque
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Originally posted by Sam
To be honest though, it's very rare to find someone when you are in your teens/early 20s etc. that wants to really be with you and will not cheat on you, a lot of people in those sort of age groups tend to want to "experience life" first rather than being "tied down" or whatever to someone.
I 100% beleive that to be true.
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pdwhelan
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I hope that your ex is feeling a million times worse for doing this to you mate! your young though (arent you?) so dont let this ruin your chances of a decent relationship in the future! sorry to hear about this though mate
[Edited on 25-06-2007 by pdwhelan]
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Steve
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Originally posted by JadeM
I can't bare to think how I'd handle it if me and Colin ever split, far less find out he was cheating on me
Phil you need to go to your new job today, I can understand you must be feeling like shit but how much worse are you going to feel if you don't go It'll give you something to focus on in the next wee while and take your mind off it all a bit
dont you know then? 
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Steve
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how long were you with her? dude iv never been sick over a girl and that includes 3+ years relationships. How come its affected you so badly?
I know where your coming fro mwith not going itnto work though, its the worst feeling in the world to have to do that and pretend to everyone your fine etc and not let on summits up
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Dee
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Originally posted by JadeM
I can't bare to think how I'd handle it if me and Colin ever split, far less find out he was cheating on me
Phil you need to go to your new job today, I can understand you must be feeling like shit but how much worse are you going to feel if you don't go It'll give you something to focus on in the next wee while and take your mind off it all a bit
You are 17? If I was to hedge my bets I would say in 2-3 years time it will be YOU getting the itchy feet.
Sorry to put a downer on it
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Steve - everyone reacts differently.
Sorry to hear that mate theres some slags about.. and I've had my fair share of it! Found someone who I can trust now, so it's all good.
But no doubt she'll turn into a slag too.. life goes on
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Originally posted by Dee
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Originally posted by JadeM
I can't bare to think how I'd handle it if me and Colin ever split, far less find out he was cheating on me
Phil you need to go to your new job today, I can understand you must be feeling like shit but how much worse are you going to feel if you don't go It'll give you something to focus on in the next wee while and take your mind off it all a bit
You are 17? If I was to hedge my bets I would say in 2-3 years time it will be YOU getting the itchy feet.
Sorry to put a downer on it
it's always the females 90% of the times i'd say
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sorry to hear that phil,
i had a downer 2 months ago when i was dumped 10 hours before me and the mrs was due in malia.
set ya self a few goals and concentrate on them, having fun, do well at ya new job ETC, worked for me
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JadeM
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Originally posted by Dee
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Originally posted by JadeM
I can't bare to think how I'd handle it if me and Colin ever split, far less find out he was cheating on me
Phil you need to go to your new job today, I can understand you must be feeling like shit but how much worse are you going to feel if you don't go It'll give you something to focus on in the next wee while and take your mind off it all a bit
TextYou are 17? If I was to hedge my bets I would say in 2-3 years time it will be YOU getting the itchy feet.
Just turned 18 - Well lets face it no one knows whats in front of them, all I can say is that if I'm as happy 2 or 3 years down the line as I am now, then that aint gonna happen. We've been together for 21 months, I don't feel I'm missing out because I can go out clubbing with my mates when I want too, but tbh I'd rather be with Colin
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Steve
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Originally posted by Dee
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Originally posted by JadeM
I can't bare to think how I'd handle it if me and Colin ever split, far less find out he was cheating on me
Phil you need to go to your new job today, I can understand you must be feeling like shit but how much worse are you going to feel if you don't go It'll give you something to focus on in the next wee while and take your mind off it all a bit
You are 17? If I was to hedge my bets I would say in 2-3 years time it will be YOU getting the itchy feet.
Sorry to put a downer on it
i agree
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PhilC
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I was with my last gf for 3 years, and it didn't effect me this much.
I've just come in from work, and started crying on the phone to my nan when she asked about her.
I just feel pathetic.
I really thought she was the one. It was perfect before the weekend.
[Edited on 25-06-2007 by PhilC]
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Joe
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Shes a ho-bag mate, its a bitch but your better moving on. Lucky for you you are far enough apart so you won't bump into each other as that just makes things worse.
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JadeM
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Your not pathetic Phil, your can't help the way you feel.
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Planty02
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I know how you feel mate. My Fiance of 3 years (seeing each other 4 1/2 yrs) just split up with me about 2 months ago. There was no cheating but still the worst feeling in the world
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