Tom
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PMSL 'Big enough to cheat, big enough to beat' 
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JadeM
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quote:
Originally posted by supacook2k
the week it happened we had a big bust up and hardly spoke for the week. i think most of the reason is to do with the fact we weren't speaking and she was really p'd off with me but then what if we argue again. loads of stuff running through my mind! i'm just gonna have to think it over really well
What happened that she decided to tell you now after 2 months?
I would end it without a doubt no matter how hard it was. Things would never be the same if I kept seeing someone who had cheated on me, I would always wonder if he was doing it again 
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supacook2k
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we were arguing at a wedding party and she stormed off so i went after her. i' cant really remember how we got onto the subject but i remember asking her if she had cheated on me and she said yes. i suppose if i didn't ask i might have never known. i'm glad i know and would rather know now than say 2 years down the line when we've been together longer
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RPM
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How long you been with her?
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JadeM
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Hmmmm it's up to you - you might be able to put it behind you, but personally for me it would be bye bye 
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Tom
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^ yep, I should imagine if you have ever had any hint of jealousy in your blood it won't last long if you do decide to carry on seeing her.
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PhilC
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some guys are just arseholes, nothing you can do. i'd blame her. fuck her up. i'll get the bin bags...
[Edited on 23-05-2007 by PhilC]
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Toby
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never bin cheated on that i know off, never cheated on anyone but have got with birds that have had boyfiriends
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Jules
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I'm married soon to be divorced - I'll let you draw your own conclusions.....
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Whittie
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Yes, its the worst feeling in the world.
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bubble
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i have and its wank
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Eck
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Can't say I've been cheated on personally, but if I was, I would tell her where to go mate. I would never trust the person the same, and every relationship is built on trust.
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Jamie
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What Eck said 
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Ian
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I have - many years ago now in a very young relationship and therefore I forgave. She didn't know any better. You have to learn from these things.
That said, anyone vaguely serious about life should know what is right and what is wrong. I would without a doubt walk away the very same day with anyone my age.
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Robin
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quote:
Originally posted by Ian
I have - many years ago now in a very young relationship and therefore I forgave. She didn't know any better. You have to learn from these things.
That sounds familiar 
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All Torque
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quote:
Originally posted by Robin
quote:
Originally posted by Ian
I have - many years ago now in a very young relationship and therefore I forgave. She didn't know any better. You have to learn from these things.
That sounds familiar
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Adam-D
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i spose i have yeah.
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Kellye
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Yes I have been cheated on to many times, not found a decent lad yet who dont cheat, I seem to attract all the cheating B......s.
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willay
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kelly I'd never treat you like that.
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Adam-D
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not all lads cheat, i know i never have and never will.
its easy not to. a girl comes upto you wants a bit of fun flirtting, , on it goes, , she makes a move, deny this move and go find your g/f
in my eyes it makes me realise how lucky i am to be who im with at the time. and not to jepordise it.
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JadeM
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quote:
Originally posted by Adam-D
not all lads cheat, i know i never have and never will.
its easy not to. a girl comes upto you wants a bit of fun flirtting, , on it goes, , she makes a move, deny this move and go find your g/f
in my eyes it makes me realise how lucky i am to be who im with at the time. and not to jepoardise it.
I agree not all guys cheat, but there are lots of different forms of cheating!!!
Yeah there are some slags out there who get a kick out of flirting with guys they know are in relationships
Nice someone stops and thinks what the consequences could be, before jumping in 
[Edited on 24-05-2007 by JadeM]
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Fro
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Yeah couple of times.
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STEvieXE
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yeah i have when i was alot younger by a tramp. gave her the road there and then, tbh wish i had of knocked her fuck in. broke my heart. hate the bitch.
havent been since (that i know off)
i have done it before but never in a serious relationship and wouldnt ever dream of doing it on my current gf.
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sammyb_SXi
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I got cheated on in a past relationship n it hurts like hell, i didn't take it too well and it completely shattered my confidence.
I hate cheaters coz i know how it feels to be on the receiving end so would never even think of doing it myself.
I even get annoyed when i no of people who are cheating on thier partners (even thugh its none of my business)
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