sxi16vjoe
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a coke head is a coke head in my views, im against the use of drugs anyway, but i couldnt care about anyone doing it, its more my ex/best friend hanging around just incase she gets involved which is what i was concered about
Shes probably already tried it mate.
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Graham
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a girl who doesnt drink or smoke and has never tried weed. it would be a bit odd if she has
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sxi16vjoe
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Originally posted by Graham
a girl who doesnt drink or smoke and has never tried weed. it would be a bit odd if she has
she sounds like fun mate 
maybe a livener would do her good.
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Graham
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alot more fun than getting stoned, drunk and tasting like an ash tray the next morning 
but hey shes doing good with her life, not a drop out waster
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JadeM
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Originally posted by Graham
alot more fun than getting stoned, drunk and tasting like an ash tray the next morning
but hey shes doing good with her life, not a drop out waster
You listened far too hard in social studys mate 
Shes not your girlfriend anymore so let her get on with whatever & whoever she wants
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sxi16vjoe
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someone cant get over being dumped. She probably sits there with her knew boyfriend laughing at you.
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Cosmo
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there are some wankers on here today
If one of my mates (ex or not) was with someone who was on coke I would tell them. What sort of friend would you be if you didnt? Some may think its acceptable taking it, but Ive seen what it can cause first hand and wouldnt want someone I cared about being in that position without knowing full well what he/she was getting involved with.
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Brett
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Originally posted by sxi16vjoe
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Originally posted by Graham
a girl who doesnt drink or smoke and has never tried weed. it would be a bit odd if she has
she sounds like fun mate
maybe a livener would do her good.
my thoughts exactly
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sxi16vjoe
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Originally posted by Cosmo
there are some wankers on here today
If one of my mates (ex or not) was with someone who was on coke I would tell them. What sort of friend would you be if you didnt? Some may think its acceptable taking it, but Ive seen what it can cause first hand and wouldnt want someone I cared about being in that position without knowing full well what he/she was getting involved with.
What can it do then mate? The bloke obviously just does it when hes out. Everyone I know does the same.And everywhere you go today people are sniffing bugle.
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Cosmo
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Originally posted by sxi16vjoe
What can it do then mate? The bloke obviously just does it when hes out. Everyone I know does the same.And everywhere you go today people are sniffing bugle.
Where does it say how often he does it? 
Ive seen people who started with it 'only when Im out' and end up doing it everyday. Ive seen people start stealing from family and friends to pay for the habit. Ive seen people take money that was being saved for their kids xmas presents and blow it all. Ive seen it totally ruin someones life as they couldnt control the habit and thought it was just a 'recreational' use when they were totally addicted.
Werent you the guy who got sent down for trying to bring drugs into the country? I wonder why everyone you know takes it 
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JadeM
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Originally posted by Cosmo
there are some wankers on here today
If one of my mates (ex or not) was with someone who was on coke I would tell them. What sort of friend would you be if you didnt? Some may think its acceptable taking it, but Ive seen what it can cause first hand and wouldnt want someone I cared about being in that position without knowing full well what he/she was getting involved with.
There's no way someone could be going out with a 'coke head' without knowing about it.......no way! Now there's being a mate & then there's being a jealous ex bf wanting to push their nose in & kick up a stink If this new boyfriend is just taking something now & then & isn't a raging scarface wannabe psycho then I see it as the later!!
Face it drugs are big business....but if taken responsibly there not a big deal!! Find me someone who hasn't taken anything by the age of 20 & I'll saw well done good for you...but I bet the majority has !!
[Edited on 28-03-2006 by JadeM]
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3CorsaMeal
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using drugs is ok, abusing them is wrong and what ruins people
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3CorsaMeal
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extremism is bad in any form
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Cosmo
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Originally posted by JadeM
There's no way someone could be going out with a 'coke head' without knowing about it.......no way! Now there's being a mate & then there's being a jealous ex bf wanting to push their nose in & kick up a stink If this new boyfriend is just taking something now & then & isn't a raging scarface wannabe psycho then I see it as the later!!
Face it drugs are big business....but if taken responsibly there not a big deal!! Find me someone who hasn't taken anything by the age of 20 & I'll saw well done good for you...but I bet the majority has !!
I havent  Ive no need to take drugs to have a good time.
If she has never had experince with drugs or people on them then she might not realise that is why he acts weird or whatever. Just because you could spot someone on them doesnt mean she could.
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CCA
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everyone has taken a drug in some form or other
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Brett
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Originally posted by Cosmo
Ive seen people who started with it 'only when Im out' and end up doing it everyday. Ive seen people start stealing from family and friends to pay for the habit. Ive seen people take money that was being saved for their kids xmas presents and blow it all. Ive seen it totally ruin someones life as they couldnt control the habit and thought it was just a 'recreational' use when they were totally addicted.
Fairly extreme end of the scale
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Cosmo
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BTW- Thats illegal drugs I havent taken.
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sxi16vjoe
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Originally posted by Cosmo
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Originally posted by sxi16vjoe
What can it do then mate? The bloke obviously just does it when hes out. Everyone I know does the same.And everywhere you go today people are sniffing bugle.
Where does it say how often he does it?
Ive seen people who started with it 'only when Im out' and end up doing it everyday. Ive seen people start stealing from family and friends to pay for the habit. Ive seen people take money that was being saved for their kids xmas presents and blow it all. Ive seen it totally ruin someones life as they couldnt control the habit and thought it was just a 'recreational' use when they were totally addicted.
Werent you the guy who got sent down for trying to bring drugs into the country? I wonder why everyone you know takes it
Whats that sposed to mean then?
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Originally posted by Cosmo
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Originally posted by JadeM
There's no way someone could be going out with a 'coke head' without knowing about it.......no way! Now there's being a mate & then there's being a jealous ex bf wanting to push their nose in & kick up a stink If this new boyfriend is just taking something now & then & isn't a raging scarface wannabe psycho then I see it as the later!!
Face it drugs are big business....but if taken responsibly there not a big deal!! Find me someone who hasn't taken anything by the age of 20 & I'll saw well done good for you...but I bet the majority has !!
I havent Ive no need to take drugs to have a good time.
is that because you can do it with alcohol?
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chris-sri
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I think you did the right thing by telling her but now you have to leave her to make her own decision. Like everyone else is saying drugs are a massive part of todays society but that doesn't make it right. You just risk looking like the jealous ex if you pursue it. Does she have any other mates that you can get to have a word?
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JadeM
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Originally posted by Cosmo
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Originally posted by JadeM
There's no way someone could be going out with a 'coke head' without knowing about it.......no way! Now there's being a mate & then there's being a jealous ex bf wanting to push their nose in & kick up a stink If this new boyfriend is just taking something now & then & isn't a raging scarface wannabe psycho then I see it as the later!!
Face it drugs are big business....but if taken responsibly there not a big deal!! Find me someone who hasn't taken anything by the age of 20 & I'll saw well done good for you...but I bet the majority has !!
I havent Ive no need to take drugs to have a good time.
If she has never had experince with drugs or people on them then she might not realise that is why he acts weird or whatever. Just because you could spot someone on them doesnt mean she could.
I have But I dont think its big or clever or anything...its just available!
You would need to be very very dim to not realise your partner is a drug addict
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Brett
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Originally posted by chris-sri
Does she have any other mates that you can get to have a word?
You think she wants all her fuckin mates moaning at her? FFS
She knows the score, she's old enough to make her own mind up you plebs.
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Cosmo
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Originally posted by loafofbrett
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Originally posted by Cosmo
Ive seen people who started with it 'only when Im out' and end up doing it everyday. Ive seen people start stealing from family and friends to pay for the habit. Ive seen people take money that was being saved for their kids xmas presents and blow it all. Ive seen it totally ruin someones life as they couldnt control the habit and thought it was just a 'recreational' use when they were totally addicted.
Fairly extreme end of the scale
yeah it is, but that person started just having it while he was out, like people have said on here. He always said it wasnt an addiction and could give up whenever. He ended up doing it more and more until he was doing it everyday and fucked himself up.
He is off it now and is a paranoid mess. Wont go out the house, trust few people, cant meet anyone new as thinks they are against him, etc.
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sxi16vjoe
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Originally posted by JadeM
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Originally posted by Cosmo
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Originally posted by JadeM
There's no way someone could be going out with a 'coke head' without knowing about it.......no way! Now there's being a mate & then there's being a jealous ex bf wanting to push their nose in & kick up a stink If this new boyfriend is just taking something now & then & isn't a raging scarface wannabe psycho then I see it as the later!!
Face it drugs are big business....but if taken responsibly there not a big deal!! Find me someone who hasn't taken anything by the age of 20 & I'll saw well done good for you...but I bet the majority has !!
I havent Ive no need to take drugs to have a good time.
If she has never had experince with drugs or people on them then she might not realise that is why he acts weird or whatever. Just because you could spot someone on them doesnt mean she could.
I have But I dont think its big or clever or anything...its just available!
You would need to be very very dim to not realise your partner is a drug addict
Exactly.Everyone acts different and he would not be able to hide it.
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Brett
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Originally posted by Cosmo
yeah it is, but that person started just having it while he was out, like people have said on here. He always said it wasnt an addiction and could give up whenever. He ended up doing it more and more until he was doing it everyday and fucked himself up.
He is off it now and is a paranoid mess. Wont go out the house, trust few people, cant meet anyone new as thinks they are against him, etc.
But to assume everyone will end up like this is bollocks
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