Ian
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Two ways of looking at this, either it'll do your bro good or it won't. I was bullied many years ago, just made me angrier inside, which is useful sometimes even now.
If you are thinking of approaching the lads my advice would be stay calm and unimpressed and just ask them to stop. Totally on the level, tell them you're not happy with the situation and don't think it should continue and you would like them to help you out.
I've spoken to loads of scalls for this reason, once because one wanted to beat my mate up in a shop, I just told him that wasn't the type of behaviour I was used to and asked him to leave the shop, another there were loads of lads hanging around down the road I used to live in, going to houses to knock for their mates driving cars clearly just bought from auction, untaxed etc., I just said don't do this by my house I don't want to see you untaxed uninsured cars ragging round under my window.
They usually start off confrontational as the lads expect a fight, then you say things which actually make sense, but mix in a bit of annoyed and intolerant. Its never failed me. Half the time when you pull a scally and tell him off properly and reasonably he's experiencing something which he never had in the home, and its quite a shock.
You also must remember that when little scall tells bigger brother scall and cousin scalls back home it mustn't sound like you wanted a fight.
If they go home and say 'some guy asked me to stop doing bad stuff' the people who would have previously firebombed your house on the bounce usually agree.
[Edited on 02-12-2005 by Ian]
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mav
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While ago I used to get trouble when all the school kids walked past my house.
Throwing stones / snowballs / ice balls etc and nicking valve caps..
They were all about 14-15 and I found out one of there names and I knew what they looked like and where they walked from school...I parked up at a top of a road and when i seen the group coming I booted it down skidded to a stop beside them jumped out quick and grabbed one and asked who was XXX XXX..He shat it and said he's on his way up etc etc..
I went back to my house and when they walked past with this guy i went out with my baseball bat put it under his chin and said if him or any of his mates come near my house/car/property etc again I would wrap it round his fucking neck..
Never had one more bit of bother after that..
It could have back fired though as the 15 year old I put the bat under was about 6ft and his mates were not tiny, I am only 5ft 8.. But show your willing and mad enough and gets results 
Or do it Ians way
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3CorsaMeal
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do it, people need to learn lessons, just shout and look scary, like your mentally ill
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bradfincham
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I would do it,
i was getting hassled after school by some 15 year olds when i was 11 and little then 
My brother found out about it, he just grabbed them and squared upto them, the kids shit themselves and ran off
never ever had trouble since that day as the name got around etc
Plus my brother is 10 years older then me!!
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Tom
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PMSL at the film director on page 2 
Have you done anything yet tim?
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CorsaControl
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quote: Originally posted by Tom
PMSL at the film director on page 2 
Have you done anything yet tim?
I was buzzin mate, it was good because i bea them without actually having to get my hands dirty
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Tom
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Fair enough, I could never get a mate to agree to letting me fakely chase after him with a knife oin the other hand I could get a mate to help me 'get my hands dirty'
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CorsaControl
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quote: Originally posted by Tom
Fair enough, I could never get a mate to agree to letting me fakely chase after him with a knife oin the other hand I could get a mate to help me 'get my hands dirty'
My mate was buzzing as much as i was... he was just a p1ssed off, nobody likes bullies, it one of those stories that always pops up and makes you chuckle 
Thing is i have a really ruff family but they would never help me out for kids i sort small time people out, they would deal with any more serious threats but i dont live in a ruff area so im ok mostly just little scally brats
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TNM
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Tom its not coming out of school time yet 
Off to town soon to buy my tickets for the Carl Froch fight tonite then i will go and wait for him by school
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Tom
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quote: Originally posted by TNM
Tom its not coming out of school time yet 
Off to town soon to buy my tickets for the Carl Froch fight tonite then i will go and wait for him by school
Good effort, I was thinking this was days old then realised i only posted in it last night, having bb at home has confused me 
Where's the fight timmeh boy?
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I was driving through my village one night as spotted 3 lads kicking the crap out of a lad on the floor.
Without hesitation i stopped the car got out caught up with them and slapped the lot of them, taught them a lesson. They behaved after that. They shouldnt report you, some poeple just need teaching a lesson lol
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Kathryn W
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Wait outside the school but dont tell your little bro... then follow him a little and if the other boys go near them/start fighting etc, then go upto them... Don't touch them but warn them with words so they get pretty scared (you'd have to think of something to say) then walk away.... but don't say that your, your bro's brother as if they do go to the police/mum/dad etc then they dont know who you are etc
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Wrighty
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teach them a lesson mate,just dont get caught/into trouble
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Sam
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Just kick the shit out of them (make sure there is no-one about though)!
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Paul_J
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Personally If I saw my little brother being hit by anyone I would want to kick the shit out of them.
Maybe as someone said, let your bro take up boxing or something... then when the guys see your little bro and his mates, and start on them - tell your bro and his mates to kick the shit out of the 15 year old boys.
Then watched from a distance - if it starts going sour for your brother, jump in and sort the losers out.
Generally I'd imagine 1 of the reason's they pick on your brother (no offence) is because he's an easy target they know probably won't fight back.
If someone shows they're willing to fight back / could kick the crap out of them - they won't pick on them.
Same reason a mugger won't try to mug someone his own size, or a large group of people if they're on their own. Would go for someone who they think is weaker / smaller / younger.
This is why, in most fight situations it starts out with people pushing each other. The pushing is actually a form of a test to see if the other person is willing to fight. IF someone is pushing you, and you don't push them back - the person pushing you knows you aren't a threat and will probably hit you for shits and giggles.
As I say - Get your bro to get a lot of mates together, or whatever - and when the kids start on him ... don't take no shit.
But make sure you / and maybe your mates are waiting round the corner, so if it goes wrong for your bro you can help him out (but act like your just a passer by who's seen a fight happening).
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Carl
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i work in an off-licence, get loads of trouble with young ones. they dont give a shit what ever you say.
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Tom
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quote: Originally posted by Paul_J
Personally If I saw my little brother being hit by anyone I would want to kick the shit out of them.
Maybe as someone said, let your bro take up boxing or something... then when the guys see your little bro and his mates, and start on them - tell your bro and his mates to kick the shit out of the 15 year old boys.
Then watched from a distance - if it starts going sour for your brother, jump in and sort the losers out.
Generally I'd imagine 1 of the reason's they pick on your brother (no offence) is because he's an easy target they know probably won't fight back.
If someone shows they're willing to fight back / could kick the crap out of them - they won't pick on them.
Same reason a mugger won't try to mug someone his own size, or a large group of people if they're on their own. Would go for someone who they think is weaker / smaller / younger.
This is why, in most fight situations it starts out with people pushing each other. The pushing is actually a form of a test to see if the other person is willing to fight. IF someone is pushing you, and you don't push them back - the person pushing you knows you aren't a threat and will probably hit you for shits and giggles.
As I say - Get your bro to get a lot of mates together, or whatever - and when the kids start on him ... don't take no shit.
But make sure you / and maybe your mates are waiting round the corner, so if it goes wrong for your bro you can help him out (but act like your just a passer by who's seen a fight happening).
I love your essays
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barry_kellett99
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quote: Originally posted by Paul_J
Personally If I saw my little brother being hit by anyone I would want to kick the shit out of them.
Maybe as someone said, let your bro take up boxing or something... then when the guys see your little bro and his mates, and start on them - tell your bro and his mates to kick the shit out of the 15 year old boys.
Then watched from a distance - if it starts going sour for your brother, jump in and sort the losers out.
Generally I'd imagine 1 of the reason's they pick on your brother (no offence) is because he's an easy target they know probably won't fight back.
If someone shows they're willing to fight back / could kick the crap out of them - they won't pick on them.
Same reason a mugger won't try to mug someone his own size, or a large group of people if they're on their own. Would go for someone who they think is weaker / smaller / younger.
This is why, in most fight situations it starts out with people pushing each other. The pushing is actually a form of a test to see if the other person is willing to fight. IF someone is pushing you, and you don't push them back - the person pushing you knows you aren't a threat and will probably hit you for shits and giggles.
As I say - Get your bro to get a lot of mates together, or whatever - and when the kids start on him ... don't take no shit.
But make sure you / and maybe your mates are waiting round the corner, so if it goes wrong for your bro you can help him out (but act like your just a passer by who's seen a fight happening).
I had a mate who wasnt exactly tiny, but looked really young. He is such a funny lad though, he used to always get picked on, and people would try and start on him by pushing him, and he never pushed back, instead he just swung and more often than not put them down
Its so funny
His motto was, if some kunt is going to give you a hiding you may as well hit him as hard and early as you can!!
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dannycorsa c
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quote: Originally posted by barry_kellett99
quote: Originally posted by Paul_J
Personally If I saw my little brother being hit by anyone I would want to kick the shit out of them.
Maybe as someone said, let your bro take up boxing or something... then when the guys see your little bro and his mates, and start on them - tell your bro and his mates to kick the shit out of the 15 year old boys.
Then watched from a distance - if it starts going sour for your brother, jump in and sort the losers out.
Generally I'd imagine 1 of the reason's they pick on your brother (no offence) is because he's an easy target they know probably won't fight back.
If someone shows they're willing to fight back / could kick the crap out of them - they won't pick on them.
Same reason a mugger won't try to mug someone his own size, or a large group of people if they're on their own. Would go for someone who they think is weaker / smaller / younger.
This is why, in most fight situations it starts out with people pushing each other. The pushing is actually a form of a test to see if the other person is willing to fight. IF someone is pushing you, and you don't push them back - the person pushing you knows you aren't a threat and will probably hit you for shits and giggles.
As I say - Get your bro to get a lot of mates together, or whatever - and when the kids start on him ... don't take no shit.
But make sure you / and maybe your mates are waiting round the corner, so if it goes wrong for your bro you can help him out (but act like your just a passer by who's seen a fight happening).
I had a mate who wasnt exactly tiny, but looked really young. He is such a funny lad though, he used to always get picked on, and people would try and start on him by pushing him, and he never pushed back, instead he just swung and more often than not put them down
Its so funny
His motto was, if some kunt is going to give you a hiding you may as well hit him as hard and early as you can!!
totally agree. sounds like me when i was at school. used to get bullied then 1 day i flipped and battered some1 who thought he cud keep bullying me. maybe the anger built up inside me and it all came out on him. didnt get bullied after that.
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barry_kellett99
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I think my mate did it for the comedy factor more than anything.
Some idiot tried to push him off a stool in a club by sitting on the other side and pushing agains him, so my mate stood up quick and whipped the stool away, he went on his arse... got up and did the "i am well 'ard" pigeon stance and nodded his head forward as if mimicing a head butt
So my mate Mark really cracked him on the chin, and he was down again.
Was hilarious.
"Quote - well i thought he was going to hit me so i thought fuck it, il hit him first!"
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barry_kellett99
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But then my story is totally irrelevant as i am 25 and that happened about 3 years ago, hardly school kids!
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