Ally
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Dump her, being single is great
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Martyn
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Originally posted by Dom
sounds abit fucked mate, just tell her straight mate - but its sounds that your really dont spend much time with each other, maybe thats what you need to work on, because sounds you two just pass in the night, apart from the occasional "Do a Dave" moments  
However, if you want it over quickly, just admit that your sorry, buy her some flowers/chocs, treat out...you get the idea,and then get back to anal rammings 
Sorry that just made me piss my pants
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PainZ
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Are you single ally?
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Martyn
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Originally posted by Martyn
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Originally posted by Dom
sounds abit fucked mate, just tell her straight mate - but its sounds that your really dont spend much time with each other, maybe thats what you need to work on, because sounds you two just pass in the night, apart from the occasional "Do a Dave" moments
However, if you want it over quickly, just admit that your sorry, buy her some flowers/chocs, treat out...you get the idea,and then get back to anal rammings
Sorry that just made me piss my pants but I feel this is good advice
[Edited on 28-03-2005 by Martyn]
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Martyn
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Originally posted by PainZ
Are you single ally?
yesh seems so . . .
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Ben
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Originally posted by Fad
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Originally posted by Ben
ive just read all of that 
just call her and say "come round later, i need a word with you"
when she comes just put it to her straight and ask her what she wants , to be with you or single .
personally if i were you i would have of said something to this 'trainer guy' the slimey cock piece.
and even if she gives you the worst answer you can always go out and get a shag. so all is not lost.
You speak the truth
its only because ive been in that situation and got all too involved and upset .i dont seem the point in beating around the bush , as not only does it waste peoples time , it hurts people and wastes 'on the pull' time. If you say things how they are then people dont get confused and know it how it is.
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kinkycorsa
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Originally posted by Ally
Dump her, being single is great
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Ally
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Originally posted by PainZ
Are you single ally?
Richie wishes
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City
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Originally posted by Ben
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Originally posted by Fad
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Originally posted by Ben
ive just read all of that
just call her and say "come round later, i need a word with you"
when she comes just put it to her straight and ask her what she wants , to be with you or single .
personally if i were you i would have of said something to this 'trainer guy' the slimey cock piece.
and even if she gives you the worst answer you can always go out and get a shag. so all is not lost.
You speak the truth
its only because ive been in that situation and got all too involved and upset .i dont seem the point in beating around the bush , as not only does it waste peoples time , it hurts people and wastes 'on the pull' time. If you say things how they are then people dont get confused and know it how it is.
All the above is true sense!
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antscorsa
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dave i swear were cing the same girl as im gettin this shit aswell, all she wants to do is see her mates and says im following then moans cos i dont take her out. next time your up croydon let me know, i was in lloyds fri nite adn the fanny was unreal.
u talking about a girl from ravensbourne, any1 i know
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dave17
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right update!!
woke up this morning bout 7.30am to find a tx on my phone, was basically 'if u want to see me 2mo let me know, hope u had a good night' this was sent at 4.20 am  so i tx her back then saying 'its upto you, i got stuff 2 do tho'.
then about 12 i get another tx asking me why i was txtin her at 7.30 and did i see any girls i knew there, i said id jus woken up, and that id seen a few girls yeh, mentioned one of their names and got this back 'hope u had a lovely night flirting with ***** guess u stayed at hers then got ur sex off her thats y u were home at 7.30 this morning' i jus txt back 'lol' as it was so stupid
i jus phoned her coz i couldn b bothered with txtin. She was saying that if i wana see **** again then id have 2 dump her coz she wont have me seein this girl (who is a mate) Then she says if i see her, then shes gona go see the bloke she slept with while we were on a break and see how i liked that, i wnt pretty mental because i only kissed a few girls when we were on a break, and she slept with some1 
jus told her if it meant that much to her, then i wont speak or meet this girl coz she means more to me than one of my girl mates. arguement sorted, or so i think.
then she goes on about how she went back 2 this blokes house aain after going out, thats why she got in so late  i didnt rise to it, and jus said how it was great she was doing what she wanted and was having fun
then i got an earful about not inviting her out PMSL with me i didnt even start with that, too pathetic.
but seems we were on a roll of some home truths, i asked her about this bloke she slept with when we were on a break. (i only knew his name) im not gona post up what i found out, as itl cause too much of a stir, but lets just say we went back 2 hers, she undressed me n everythin, and wanted me to sleep with her, but i couldn. im not gona go too deep into this but since ive found out what happened, i find it hard to want to sleep with her. i hope i can sort my head out, as we do actually love eachother in some very odd way
but if i cant get over it, i doubt we can stay together.
and for the record, i would never cheat on her, as ive had it done 2 me before and i know how it feels. i was jus saying 'if'
essay pt 2
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dave17
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ant - u probably do know her, but im keeping my mouth as i dont want her dragged into it
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dave17
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Originally posted by Ben
personally if i were you i would have of said something to this 'trainer guy' the slimey cock piece.
mate i wanted to, but she wouldn let me near him, coz its her new job and shes doing well at it, and didnt want me 2 cause trouble. fair enough i spose, but i know his face for next time
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Ian
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You asked her and she told you, and now you can't sleep with her because of what she told you?
Promiscuity on breaks is good - it teaches you that breaks are a very bad idea.
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Hammer
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Originally posted by Ian
Promiscuity on breaks is good - it teaches you that breaks are a very bad idea.
True, finding out what the other halfs been up to when ur technically not attached is a killer. It lodges sumthin in your head and its tough to get rid of
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TNM
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He biffed her up the ass then Dave?
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Siberia
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to be honest it sounds like thats all shes good for.... if she slept with someone else break or no break i wouldnt be able to still go out with her...
i would however abuse her rectum from time to time.....
imagine me comeing home to the misus... "oh i went back to some birds gaff with all her mates" WHAP... BANG... SLAP.....
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3CorsaMeal
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sounds shitt, split up, or just gonna be heart ache later.
sounds like young love
or just bum her and not get too attached, just pretend your going out with her
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--Dave--
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i've just read all that and now i have a woody
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antscorsa
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haha no probs dave
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Ojc
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Originally posted by --Dave--
i've just read all that and now i have a woody
Funny, the same happened to me towards the end. The part about her sleeping with someone else.
On a serious note, this sounds just like mine and Danielles relationship and take it from me it won't get better and to save heartache I would split up now.
Its the hardest thing you will probably ever have to do, but it will save you pain and anger in the future.
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--Dave--
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honestly mate she sounds like a complete head fcuk but like you said you're not doing yourself any favors
you need to have that chat and find out what you both (mainly she) wants out of the relationship. then you can go from there
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TNM
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Dave dump her and then txt an EX 
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Dom
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Dave dump her and then txt an EX
i feel we should bring this back
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Howdy Dom
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