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Originally posted by barry_kellett99
If you think your mature enough to be in a relationship and sleeping with people then you are mature enought to handle the consequences
anyone who gets rid is a selfish bastard
you can always give it up
You could be in a relationship an have sex but it doesnt mean your ready for the responsibilty of looking after another human being that will be totally dependant on you.
Giving it up is just as bad as the kid then grows up an finds out they were unwanted by their real family an just thrown into another family
That aswell 
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Originally posted by Charlene
I would keep it because don't think its right in killing a baby, and anyways my mam would look after it while i still went to college and got a career, im 17 aswell
:lol I though that ally 
As if your mum would drop everything and raise your child!
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Originally posted by barry_kellett99
If you think your mature enough to be in a relationship and sleeping with people then you are mature enought to handle the consequences
anyone who gets rid is a selfish bastard
you can always give it up
you're a bint.
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Originally posted by TNM
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Originally posted by Ally
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Originally posted by Charlene
I would keep it because don't think its right in killing a baby, and anyways my mam would look after it while i still went to college and got a career, im 17 aswell
:lol I though that ally
As if your mum would drop everything and raise your child!
 Well if you read it after that i said shes a childminder anyway
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Originally posted by Charlene
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Originally posted by TNM
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Originally posted by Ally
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Originally posted by Charlene
I would keep it because don't think its right in killing a baby, and anyways my mam would look after it while i still went to college and got a career, im 17 aswell
:lol I though that ally
As if your mum would drop everything and raise your child!
Well if you read it after that i said shes a childminder anyway
I will impregnate you in a min 
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The reason for this post is my ex broke up with me for a girl, who had only just turned 16 3 days before, who has now ended up getting pregnant by accident
He wants it as he has always wanted kids an is 21 an is really great with them
The baby is due in august but the thing is her age an she hasnt even finished school
Just wanted opinions on what everyone would do so thanks guys
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Tom
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Originally posted by CuteCorsaAngel
The reason for this post is my ex broke up with me for a girl, who had only just turned 16 3 days before, who has now ended up getting pregnant by accident
He wants it as he has always wanted kids an is 21 an is really great with them
The baby is due in august but the thing is her age an she hasnt even finished school
Just wanted opinions on what everyone would do so thanks guys
Tis weird isn't when you hear about ex's being that situation, I feel we should get together and talk about the things we have in common and practice making babies 
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Originally posted by Tom
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Originally posted by CuteCorsaAngel
The reason for this post is my ex broke up with me for a girl, who had only just turned 16 3 days before, who has now ended up getting pregnant by accident
He wants it as he has always wanted kids an is 21 an is really great with them
The baby is due in august but the thing is her age an she hasnt even finished school
Just wanted opinions on what everyone would do so thanks guys
Tis weird isn't when you hear about ex's being that situation, I feel we should get together and talk about the things we have in common and practice making babies
Thanks but i have plenty of people to talk to 
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Alright then sorry to bring this in but if you were with your partner an they were raped an got pregnant what then
Its still a living human being an they are part of 2 people so what would you do then
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Originally posted by CuteCorsaAngel
The reason for this post is my ex broke up with me for a girl, who had only just turned 16 3 days before, who has now ended up getting pregnant by accident
He wants it as he has always wanted kids an is 21 an is really great with them
The baby is due in august but the thing is her age an she hasnt even finished school
Just wanted opinions on what everyone would do so thanks guys
Oh my gosh, same with my ex! he was 22 though, i think its a bit irresponsible especially when she is so young but like i said earlier, each to their own  , she could be really mature and have all the support they need
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Originally posted by CuteCorsaAngel
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Originally posted by Tom
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Originally posted by CuteCorsaAngel
The reason for this post is my ex broke up with me for a girl, who had only just turned 16 3 days before, who has now ended up getting pregnant by accident
He wants it as he has always wanted kids an is 21 an is really great with them
The baby is due in august but the thing is her age an she hasnt even finished school
Just wanted opinions on what everyone would do so thanks guys
Tis weird isn't when you hear about ex's being that situation, I feel we should get together and talk about the things we have in common and practice making babies
Thanks but i have plenty of people to talk to
God you're no fun you are you
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Originally posted by barry_kellett99
If you think your mature enough to be in a relationship and sleeping with people then you are mature enought to handle the consequences
anyone who gets rid is a selfish bastard
you can always give it up
I got pregnant last May, was 3 months and i had a termination.
I didnt think it was fair to bring a child into the world, with no money, no steady job and no house.
What the fuck do you know anyway, you dont know every single senario so you cant call people who have terminations 'Selfish'
It would be selfish to ahve the kid, then find out that you cant cope so you chuck it on someone else.
Charlene that wasn't aimed at you, if your mum is a child minder and would help you then thats cool. Just my opinion is not to have it then leave it to a parent to look after, i dont see that as being fair.
I cant believe some people opinions on things like this. I was dead against abortions before i actually got pregnant. I thought people who had terminations were sluts, but being pregnant, being ill, moody, bloated and it not feeling right were more than enough for me to change my mind.
Rant over ... awaits abuse
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Originally posted by Ally
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Originally posted by barry_kellett99
If you think your mature enough to be in a relationship and sleeping with people then you are mature enought to handle the consequences
anyone who gets rid is a selfish bastard
you can always give it up
I got pregnant last May, was 3 months and i had a termination.
I didnt think it was fair to bring a child into the world, with no money, no steady job and no house.
What the fuck do you know anyway, you dont know every single senario so you cant call people who have terminations 'Selfish'
It would be selfish to ahve the kid, then find out that you cant cope so you chuck it on someone else.
Charlene that wasn't aimed at you, if your mum is a child minder and would help you then thats cool. Just my opinion is not to have it then leave it to a parent to look after, i dont see that as being fair.
I cant believe some people opinions on things like this. I was dead against abortions before i actually got pregnant. I thought people who had terminations were sluts, but being pregnant, being ill, moody, bloated and it not feeling right were more than enough for me to change my mind.
Rant over ... awaits abuse
No I fully agree with you, maybe Barry_Kellett would rather more unctrolled chav trampy kids were running about all because it's wrong to have a termination. My view is that they are no-where near being real children until they leave the womb
[Edited on 20-01-2005 by Tom]
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Originally posted by Ally
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Originally posted by barry_kellett99
If you think your mature enough to be in a relationship and sleeping with people then you are mature enought to handle the consequences
anyone who gets rid is a selfish bastard
you can always give it up
I got pregnant last May, was 3 months and i had a termination.
I didnt think it was fair to bring a child into the world, with no money, no steady job and no house.
What the fuck do you know anyway, you dont know every single senario so you cant call people who have terminations 'Selfish'
It would be selfish to ahve the kid, then find out that you cant cope so you chuck it on someone else.
Charlene that wasn't aimed at you, if your mum is a child minder and would help you then thats cool. Just my opinion is not to have it then leave it to a parent to look after, i dont see that as being fair.
I cant believe some people opinions on things like this. I was dead against abortions before i actually got pregnant. I thought people who had terminations were sluts, but being pregnant, being ill, moody, bloated and it not feeling right were more than enough for me to change my mind.
Rant over ... awaits abuse
Thats because people have rose tinted specs on ally and cant see much 
I know what you mean. been there and done that 
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Its ok  , i wouldn't leave the baby on my mother its just what she said to me if i got pregnant, as she wouldnt want me having an abortion but what was said before about not knowing until your in the situation is true as things change
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Originally posted by linz
Oh my gosh, same with my ex! he was 22 though, i think its a bit irresponsible especially when she is so young but like i said earlier, each to their own , she could be really mature and have all the support they need
She isnt mature at all im afraid to say,we used to go round an see her an her mum when me an him we together as he was mates with her mum.
She has a 13 year old sister who is way more mature than her an is almost like an 18 year old
I was told she was really happy about it as she will get her own council flat an she will get to dress her kid up in really cool stuff
Personally i think she is too young but then again you never no how people will cope an she may be a good mum but then again she may get bored
Have to wait an see
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Originally posted by Charlene
Its ok , i wouldn't leave the baby on my mother its just what she said to me if i got pregnant, as she wouldnt want me having an abortion but what was said before about not knowing until your in the situation is true as things change
aye no woman will ever know if she is ready untill she actually falls pregnant
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Everybody thats written something on this post is aloud their own opinion an shouldnt push their beliefs on anyone but as ally said you never no if your ready till it happens
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Originally posted by CuteCorsaAngel
Everybody thats written something on this post is aloud their own opinion an shouldnt push their beliefs on anyone but as ally said you never no if your ready till it happens
I don't beleive anyone has pushed there views on anyone just argued there own beleifs
And the reason this is the case is because certain ppl did not explain there beleifs, so how can we understand them
[Edited on 20-01-2005 by Tom]
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Originally posted by CuteCorsaAngel
Everybody thats written something on this post is aloud their own opinion an shouldnt push their beliefs on anyone but as ally said you never no if your ready till it happens
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depends on exact circumstances and unless u have been in this position u truly do not know what you would do..
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Originally posted by Tom
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Originally posted by CuteCorsaAngel
Everybody thats written something on this post is aloud their own opinion an shouldnt push their beliefs on anyone but as ally said you never no if your ready till it happens
I don't beleive anyone has pushed there views on anyone just argued there own beleifs
And the reason this is the case is because certain ppl did not explain there beleifs, so how can we understand them
[Edited on 20-01-2005 by Tom]
No im not saying anyoes pushed their beliefs im just saying i dont think people should it was only a comment
Who didnt explain their beliefs
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Originally posted by CuteCorsaAngel
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Originally posted by Tom
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Originally posted by CuteCorsaAngel
Everybody thats written something on this post is aloud their own opinion an shouldnt push their beliefs on anyone but as ally said you never no if your ready till it happens
I don't beleive anyone has pushed there views on anyone just argued there own beleifs
And the reason this is the case is because certain ppl did not explain there beleifs, so how can we understand them
[Edited on 20-01-2005 by Tom]
No im not saying anyoes pushed their beliefs im just saying i dont think people should it was only a comment
Who didnt explain their beliefs
Barry_Kellett or whatever his name is, I feel he has been raised in a church tho I probably would have different views if I hadn't been in this situation - I think that's the point here
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Just to say didnt mean to offend anyone with this post an as long as your happy with your decision go with it an dont be pushed into something you dont want
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go jerry go jerry go jerry
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