Ben-B
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you asked CS for serious advise 
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DC90
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Tis a shame it had to go that far for you to realise what she means. I'm sure you'll both sort it. 
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Andrew
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It's a bit mad how the human brain works. We fall for the one we really shouldn't, the one with a husband and a kid and quite a bit older yet there are others offering themselves on a plate.
Good luck mate, hope it works out for you!
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Tom
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Originally posted by Andrew
It's a bit mad how the human brain works. We fall for the one we really shouldn't, the one with a husband and a kid and quite a bit older yet there are others offering themselves on a plate.
Good luck mate, hope it works out for you!
You live in cloud cukoo land pugnut 
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Ben-B
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Andrew
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I would love to investigate the human brain me
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Tom
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I would love to investigate the human brain me
Go and read up on psychology then
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Andrew
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It's all theory and opinion based Tom. Looked into this before 
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Tom
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Originally posted by Andrew
It's all theory and opinion based Tom. Looked into this before
 what else do you want
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Shell
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Originally posted by Andrew
It's all theory and opinion based Tom. Looked into this before
Most things in science are theory and opinion based. Simply testable hypothesis.
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Theham85
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Originally posted by Shelley
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Originally posted by Andrew
It's all theory and opinion based Tom. Looked into this before
Most things in science are theory and opinion based. Simply testable hypothesis.
You are pretty smart for a herpe
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All Torque
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Originally posted by Cosmo
Sounds as if she wants to be with you and just making you pay like a typical woman.
Talk to her calmly on Wed/Thurs and tell her how you feel - and then stop being a prick and make it work if you want to be with her!!
what he said
Make the most of wed/thurs. If its your last shot then give it everything youve got mate. Best of luck 
Do not EVER take relationship advise from Planty02
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Jake
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why is this?
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All Torque
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He cannot follow his own advice and he ignores advice from others.
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ShEp
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Originally posted by ShEp
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This relationship day for real?
Wow... What else is in there?
It's real
And as for what else, sign up and find out
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kz
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Came upstairs after watching Survivours (good show btw! anyone else watch this?) and had a text saying can you ring me please.
I did so and we talked, mainly about random crap tbh which was pretty good. Said a little about the situation but it's agreed I'm seeing her thursday night when she finishes work @ 9 so we have just a few hours.
She said whatever way it goes we need a few days apart and I guess shes right!? I'm feeling more positive than I was earlier anyway.
And I know what you're saying about now becoming a doormat, but I've been there and done that and I won't let it happen. As I said before, happy medium ftw!
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Ben-B
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good luck mate :thumbs
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Butler
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Dude ive been in the situation recently, except the other way round. I chucked her round cos things got too heavy, she become to dependant and it became too much. We argued loads and she left. All our memories came flooding back, just came to realise that we had both been stupid argueing when we had been so good together before and it really made me realise how much she actually means to me. I want to work through it now, but its not going to be easy. She did some stupid stuff. I wont go into it. I know how you feel though, its painful, really does hurt in your heart.
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Sam
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kz - wasn't it you that posted a thread relatively recently saying you were not really arsed about your g/f?
[Edited on 17-12-2008 by Sam]
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Theham85
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Pics?
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kz
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kz - wasn't it you that posted a thread relatively recently saying you were not really arsed about your g/f?
[Edited on 17-12-2008 by Sam]
lol probably, but like I said, I didn't know how I really felt until now
I think I'm being played for a mug now. Talked for a bit on MSN earlier I said can I phone you instead she said I'm gotta put my brother to sleep in a bit so call me @ 8.
So rang her @ 8:10 and she said I'm out with my mates ring me @ 10 and the reason I couldn't see her tonight was 'cause she was baby sitting, but yet she saw her mates. Bit gutted... do I ring her later? Mug? 
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Theham85
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Ooooooooh I hate that phone SHITE, its pretty selfish really, a simple "yes" or "no" will suffice, but when the bullshit starts rolling its time to get the hell out. After all you are not a doormat
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Tommy L
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Dont call her. Just see her tomorrow.
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Theham85
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Originally posted by corsa_tomtom
Dont call her. Just see her tomorrow.
Quote, aye wait for her to call you, you end up feeling like a bit of a cock 
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fir3vip3r
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time to move on imo mate
sounds like she is
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