Joe
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I really hope she comes out ok mate, you are a very decent guy. My fingers are crossed for you.
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CorsAsh
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Likewise, really hoping you have a happy Christmas.
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stan_the_man
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UPDATE
She didnt make it down from Edinburgh today 
No beds in Dumfries hospital.
I phoned at 9am as usual and they said 'Yeah shes all ready to go, got her bathed and theres an ambulance coming at 10am.'
Got a text of Rach's mum saying that there was no beds.
Tempted to go up to the hosp and drag someone out their bed!
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CorsAsh
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Shit man, watch your wording, got as far as "She didn't make it" and my heart stopped.
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stan_the_man
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quote: Originally posted by CorsAsh
Shit man, watch your wording, got as far as "She didn't make it" and my heart stopped.
Yeah i did think that, but er..... meh.
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JonnyJ
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quote: Originally posted by CorsAsh
Shit man, watch your wording, got as far as "She didn't make it" and my heart stopped.
Same here! Hope she makes a full recovery and is back awake for christmas mate, you deserve it
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SAL
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Hope thing's get better Dont come in offday so i dont no the situation, but from this it seem's your doing a very good thing !
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Jamie
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Good luck to her and you mate
Stay strong
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stan_the_man
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quote: Originally posted by Stavs
Hope thing's get better Dont come in offday so i dont no the situation, but from this it seem's your doing a very good thing !
Heres the full thing for anyone who doesnt know / wants to.
quote: My girlfriend was involved in a head on with a Vaux Movano and her Saxo over two months ago. She was trapped in the car for nearly and hour and was unconscious but breathing.
She was heading from my house to hers when the accident happened. Still unknown what happened. All we know is she wasnt on her phone and her car was mechanically ok.
The extent of her injuries were - both feet broken, both thigh bones broken, pelvis broken, right humerous (upper arm) broken, elbow broken, both lungs collapsed, ruptured spleen and an extent of brain damage which we do not know. Her brain was heavily swollen to a very dangerous level.
She had her spleen removed the night of the accident and was put onto life support with a ventilator. She was induced into the coma when she went in but was unconscious prior to this.
Two days after the crash she was moved form Dumfries & Galloway Royal Infirmary (Dumfries) to Edinburgh Western General as she would not wake from her coma.
There she stayed for around 2 weeks until they moved her the Infirmary in Edinburgh, as it has a better orthopaedic (bones) department where her legs and arm where pinned and plated and put into casts. She now has metal bar running down the full length of her thigh bones internally.
Back to the Western where she has stayed up until now where she was kept in Intensive Care.
She started to breathe on her own after a period where they 'weened' her off the ventilator.
She was then moved one step down the ladder to High Dependency (same as Intensive Care, but less 'intense') where she is now fed directly through her stomach wall by a drip, and her ventilator still remains to enter in the front of her neck (tracheostomy) to keep her airways open.
She does react to pain (heart and respiratory rates go up). Her pupils wouldnt dilate but recently one has slightly. This is due to her brain being swollen, but we hope this will progress.
She also yawns alot which is a wierd sight! She flexes her left hand and arm and on the odd occasion, she opens her eyes for a while, the closes them.
There is a fair bit of movement but slowly getting better.
Her GCS (Glasgow coma scale - measurement of how severe someones state of coma is lowest being 3, highest being 15) is usually at a 7-8ish. When she came into the hospital she was a flat 3, unresponsive and needing breathing aid.
She is stable at the moment and seems to be very gradually improving week by week.
She was due to come back down to Dumfries today but there were no beds available.
Not having a car makes going up to see her VERY difficult for me, but i phone at least twice a day and see how shes getting on. Hopefully she'l be down here again soon so i can see her more regularly.
I suppose thats it really. Shes been in a coma for 2 months and 6 days.
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Kathryn W
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Didn't realise the extent of the damage 
She'll pull through!! Seems to have made plenty of progess so far!!
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SAL
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Shit, that's bad ! I can only give my best wishes
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col
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good news mate hope she wakes for crimbo
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Jas
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All the best mate, Il be in Australia as of 2 weeks sat
but il pop on every so often too see if there are any updates
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stan_the_man
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Cheers for all the comments / actions folks.
Really really means alot to see / hear.
Was up seeing her the noight before last. My mum who lives in Italy came over to see me and do the whole mum thing which was nice.
Rach is now in her own room Edinburgh Western, although shes 'booked in' for coming down to Dumfries on Monday.
I noticed that when i speak to her, i dont get any form of response at all, but when i touch her, her heart rate goes up. I stroked her arm and held her hand etc and her heart rate fluctuated a bit.
I was at the doctors on Friday also and he prescribed me some anxiety suppression pills (beatablockers) to hopefully calm me down and help me sleep etc.
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stan_the_man
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UPDATE
Rach came down from Edinburgh to Dumfries today.
She was tested / swabbed all over to see whats what and they should be back soon.
I was sitting there holding her hand and she was holding on to it too. If i tried to pull my hand away, shed hold on tighter and tighter. She actually left nail marks on my hand she was holding on so tight!
Her hand was in a fist shape, and i placed my open palm facing upwards under her hand. She opened her hand and held onto mine! Her heart rate also went for 78ish to 90ish. Theres obviously something going on in there!
My only slight concern is she has a very slight case of MRSA but hopefully the test results will see how that can be treated.
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Robbo
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fingers crssed fella, ur a top bloke
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Cosmo
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Aye, sounds like a good sign if she is responding to touch in the way she is.
Fingers crossed
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CorsAsh
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Great news, slightly tainted by the MRSA but given the duration of her stay it's not surprising.
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Kathryn W
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quote: Originally posted by stan_the_man
My only slight concern is she has a very slight case of MRSA but hopefully the test results will see how that can be treated.
Don't worry to much about that, my dad caught it when he had his heart operations 7-8 years ago...
Didn't affect him at all really..
Although he is now a 'carrier' and needs to be swabbed everytime he needs to stay in hospital and gets his own room!!!
Chances are she may not have it she just may carry it!
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Jamie
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good news mate
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drbeansri
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all the best mate... stay positive.
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stan_the_man
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I have to admit, im a bit concerned that i could catch it? Is that possible?
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CorsAsh
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Tends to prey on people with decreased immune reaction. You can avoid any outside chance of infection by observing the hospital rules on handwashing etc.
Unfortunately it's often staff who don't do that. But knowing several doctors it's hard to stop and rub alcoholic detergent on your hands in an emergency.
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stan_the_man
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I ALWAYS do that. I take my ring off (no were no engaged - its a place for germs to hide) and turn my phone off. Id fuckin die if i caused her any more pain / grief.
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CorsAsh
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Well then, you should be fine. The staff will advise you if you are worried. Or speak to Dr. Young.
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