Graham88
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That's gotta be hard for you, hope she comes out of it ok.
Must be hard, but don't blame yourself, accidents happen unfortunately.
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stubbsy05
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My thoughts are with you and her family mate. Hope she makes a full recovery.
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N3CRO
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Sorry to hear that mate. As for advise, I honestly don't think I would be able to handle your situation neither and would be doing the same as you.
Hope she recovers 
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Wrighty
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fucking hell fire man, feel sick just reading that cant begin to think what your going through
hope everything works out mate, thoughts with you..
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stan_the_man
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We were going out when we were at school so weve always had a thing for each other.
She moved to Edinburgh and we always kept in touch. I kept hinting that i liked her etc but she never cottoned on.
She moved back down here and we got in contact again.
One day she text me saying she had a dream about me and we decided to meet up for a catch up as we handt seen each other for ages.
On the day of the crash i was actually thinking to myself how happy i was that we were finally with each other. Just wish i had said to her......
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_Allan_
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 Hope she makes a swift recovery.
I know the sight of all wires and machines hooked up can be distressing but they are doing a good job at letting the body rest and recover more quickly. You stay for as long as you are able to and want to. Sounds silly but do not neglect your own eating/sleep needs as well. No good making yourself ill in the process for when she comes too.
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jr
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Sorry to hear that, all the best 
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foxyk8t
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Fingers and toes crossed for you hun at this hard time, i really hope that she pulls thru thats really sad news xx
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little_duke
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sorry to hear that mate,the best thing to suggest is be there for her at her bekan call! (sp).hope she makes a speedy recovery
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Rob E
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Terrible news I hope she pulls though and makes a full recovery
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pow
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Awful, just awful, keep positive, thoughts are with you and her family atm.
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bubble
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in february 2006, my sister contracted MRSA from a patient at work. she got meningycocalitus sceptascemia (sp), and had TOTAL body shut down.
her body retained 85% of fluids, and she put on 6 stone in fluid and was in a coma from end of february 2006 until the start of may 2006.
i went to see her everyday, she had a tube into her heart, one into each lung, a catheter, and loads more. she also had a tube into some arteries with some special name like MVP or something. for weeks she did nothing but lay there, her body bruised and battered from being moved and having between 50-70 injections a day. everyday for 3-4 hours, doctors and nurses drained out fluid that her body had created and kept stored around her. the more they drained out, the more she created.
nothing happens, and days will come where you see her and her face is swollen, and as harsh as it sounds, my sister looked like a corpse.
you have a very tough time ahead of you my friend, best thing i can advice you is to get things like teddy bears, and put them under her fingers, wipe her forehead with a damp cloth, anything that can provoke a sensory reaction from her. even though she is on life support and will be comatosed, she CAN still her things that are being said. dont talk about negative stuff when around her, as she will here this and she will et frustrated that she cant talk back.
try and avoid wearing aftershave or any anti-perspirant that she will recognise, as this can send her into emotional shock, and cause her body to stress out.
i took a teddy bear to my sister, and placed it under her hands, and about a week later her finger was stroking the teddy bear.
chin up son, she is in good hands
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pow
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Bubblevaux, is she OK now?
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bubble
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quote:
Originally posted by pow
Bubblevaux, is she OK now?
yeh she can function properly but she gets very short of breath and forgets things. worst thing to come of it is that since it happened she hasnt been able to get pregnant
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pow
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Ohh man, thats shit You a strong man if you can live though that
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Luke
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This is very sad news mate. I hope she gets better soon & my thoughts are with her, you & her family
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Kerry
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I got a tear in my eye reading this thread
Just shows you that you have to grab opportunities when you can because you never know when your times up
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Mike
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Really sorry to hear that mate Can't imagine what you must be going through. Hope she makes a full recovery
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Neo
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I'd normally say stay strong for everyone else, however i think in this case just do what is best for you and stay sane.
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Russ
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mate
no nice seeing somebody you love like that, when my dad was in for an op i felt physically sick, almost passed out just watching him lie there. all the best mate, hope it works out ok.
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jonnysri
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really sorry to hear about this.
hope she recovers mate. all the best
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Ben G
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that's really shit mate.
i'm not good at consoling people so i'll just wish you all the best and i hope she makes a full recovery. keep us updated
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Jas
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shit one
stay strong pal and hope she makes a swift recovery
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Haimsey
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Fook Wish for the best
Marcy Marc 
White Sport Progress Thread
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cunningham
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sorry to here this mate nobody wants to be in that situation you just have to cope as best as you can
She has the pros looking after her now and hopefully mate she pulls through ok
lifes to short
My GF step sister Fiona Brown died of Cancer this year at 22 makes you think about life in so many ways
think it goes without saying that we are all thinking of you mate its not going to be easy far from it
all he best
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