JadeM
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quote: Originally posted by foxyk8t
He did kind of say he had played the field abit over the last year or so generally as he got hurt himself, wasnt ready for another relationship and hadnt met the rite girl, he told me last nite tho i have caught him at a good time confused on the whole scenario
Oh Kate
How lucky are you to have (in his words) caught him at the right time ? He sure thinks hes a great catch going by that!! Typical player chat! 
Play it cool and let him do all the chasing. You'll soon know whether he's being genuine or not! 
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foxyk8t
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This is the trouble everytime he says something along those lines i keep thinking he is just buttering me up making me feel special telling me what i want to hear!! Playing it cool is the best way i think i wont be putting out unless it feels right and at the moment it doesn't
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Conway563
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As I said in the U2U Kate. Just do what you feels right, you seem to have your head screwed on!
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Scotty_B
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quote: Originally posted by Neo
Best thing to do, just hold out for 3 months, if he is still willing to go on a date and not have sex for 3 months, then he must like you
Either that or he's having sex elsewhere.
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N3CRO
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I think it goes once a player, always a player.
Don't think you can change him, you'll only get hurt.
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JadeM
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quote: Originally posted by foxyk8t
This is the trouble everytime he says something along those lines i keep thinking he is just buttering me up making me feel special telling me what i want to hear!! Playing it cool is the best way i think i wont be putting out unless it feels right and at the moment it doesn't
Hmm.... He might be genuine enough, maybe ready to settle down in a steady relationship 
As you say, just don't seem over keen to begin with and I'm sure you'll soon work out whats going on with him 
Good luck
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Brett
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Wow, just think of the list of birds he's shagged before you
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RyanSxi
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quote: Originally posted by loafofbrett
Wow, just think of the list of birds he's shagged before you
trust brett
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Brett
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Well, it'd bother me if I was with a bird who'd been fucked by the five-thousand. I imagine it's the same the other way round. It's a consideration to make.
Hi Ryan.
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foxyk8t
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my god brett i didnt think of that thankgod you are here to help me on my way 
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Pip308
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dont blame the player, blame the game!
My friends call me a player but i dont thinki am, i've been in my relationship for 5months now and i'm happy 
Phil
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rustyarchs
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quote: Originally posted by Ellis
You'll have to tame the beast, seen it done before - but rarely!
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