Mike
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Originally posted by All Torque
I need to speak with MattK, he has it dialled 
I think in Matt's case it's all down to trust, I've never met his missus but I know he trusts her 100% and I think she's the same.
Regarding your situation I had it all worked outin my head but as I started typing I realised it was bollocks Probably best anyway, I can't see me giving any good relationship advise out 
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CorsAsh
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Do you give advice on haircuts? Robin needs some.
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All Torque
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Originally posted by SVM 286
Pete! Stop being such a bloody gay you great big massive bloody gay you!
Mornin dear btw   X
You're non preem, whisht 
JK, love you.
[Edited on 15-06-2008 by All Torque]
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All Torque
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Originally posted by CorsAsh
Do you give advice on haircuts? Robin needs some.
Mike has a shaved head, imagine Robin like that
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Mike
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Originally posted by All Torque
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Originally posted by CorsAsh
Do you give advice on haircuts? Robin needs some.
Mike has a balding, shaved head, imagine Robin like that
Edited for the harsh truth
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SVM 286
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Originally posted by All Torque
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Originally posted by SVM 286
Pete! Stop being such a bloody gay you great big massive bloody gay you!
Mornin dear btw X
You're non preem, whisht
JK, love you.
[Edited on 15-06-2008 by All Torque]
What's whisht deary? 
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CorsAsh
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Originally posted by All Torque
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Originally posted by CorsAsh
Do you give advice on haircuts? Robin needs some.
Mike has a shaved head, imagine Robin like that
I was. 
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All Torque
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Originally posted by SVM 286
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Originally posted by All Torque
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Originally posted by SVM 286
Pete! Stop being such a bloody gay you great big massive bloody gay you!
Mornin dear btw X
You're non preem, whisht
JK, love you.
[Edited on 15-06-2008 by All Torque]
What's whisht deary?
Eck said it once, must be an Irish thing 
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Brett
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Originally posted by CorsAsh
Or, like the t-shirt the ex I'm referring to bought, "If you love something, let it go free, if it comes back it's forever, if not, who gives a FCUK."
The tshirt makes sense tbh. If it's meant to be then it'll last. If not, then you're best rid. Who wants a relationship where you have to keep a close eye on her? If anything, if it did work out, then it would only make the relationship stronger.
Still, i'd be worried in your situation
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SVM 286
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quote:
Originally posted by All Torque
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Originally posted by SVM 286
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Originally posted by All Torque
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Originally posted by SVM 286
Pete! Stop being such a bloody gay you great big massive bloody gay you!
Mornin dear btw X
You're non preem, whisht
JK, love you.
[Edited on 15-06-2008 by All Torque]
What's whisht deary?
Eck said it once, must be an Irish thing
I've been drinking white wine and Nelson all night so I shall LMFAO at that. I love you too btw.
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SVM 286
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I shall try and be cogent in spite of this evening's consumption Peter.
Whilst resisting the temptation to tell you to man up and either ignore this shit or move on, if you are that worried about her fidelity then the chances are she's not the one and it won't work out.
If she loves you (like she should) there will not be a question of the stability of your relationship, long distance or otherwise.
You have to face up to it mate. These are trying times and either she adores you and will be decent and everything will be fine, or she won't. Either way, nothing you can do or say will make any difference. It's down to her.
Chin up son. There's always tomorrow and at least you've not got the AIDS.
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All Torque
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The bottom line is that this is NOT a fidelity (sp) issue, its about the distance and feeling left behind and how people change.
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SVM 286
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Don't worry sunshine. Trust me. If you REALLY love each other you won't be left behind and she won't change enough for it to matter. Be patient. It'll soon be over and she'll be back and you'll soon be sick of the sight of each other.
It's all down to perspective dear. Look at the bigger picture. Broaden your horizons. Trust me.
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Eck
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It's actually WHEESHT Pete
And as Jim said, if it's meant to be, you'll be ok
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Colin
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Im going to be working away from home shortly, but I trust her 100% not to play away from home when im working away from home 
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Beato
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I'm based outside Reading and I have a GF that stays in my home town. I usually see her every couple of months and they are some good times. You have to be able to trust each other though
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Eck
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Originally posted by Colin
Im going to be working away from home shortly, but I trust her 100% not to play away from home when im working away from home
As long as you can trust her not to drive your BMW (when you eventually buy one!) then everything else is just piffle!
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Colin
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Originally posted by Colin
Im going to be working away from home shortly, but I trust her 100% not to play away from home when im working away from home
As long as you can trust her not to drive your BMW (when you eventually buy one!) then everything else is just piffle!
Wouldnt actually bothe me Eck........but theres no way she'd get insured on one, I cant even add her to the golf which is nickt gut!!
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mattk
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Pete...
You will get used to it, my g/f is in cardiff for most of the year, its 200 miles from home, I go up every 3-4 weeks for a weekend, just make the most of the time you see each other, that weekend every month I see her is fantastic, we go shopping have a nice dinner and get drunk on the night, it is sort of hard leaving to come home though
Its as mike said though its all down to trust, I expect you trust her 100% and if you do you have no problems, just remember she has to go through what your going through too
Mike B knows all about my problems from saturday night MSN
[Edited on 15-06-2008 by mattk]
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DC90
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If you both trust each other then it should be fine. Although, that could change when she's away. I know for a fact i'd hate it but thats just the kind of person I am. Just don't let it play in your head loads just yet, you still have a while until she goes so just enjoy it and tell her exactly how you feel. I'm sure she will do her best to make you feel better and put your worries at rest
[Edited on 15-06-2008 by DC90]
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ianic SRi
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my mate lives in watford because he plays for them and his girlfriend lives up here, its a 2 hour drive.
they've been perfect together, neither of them have cheated and they are very close, he does come back every weekend though whereas by the sounds of it you dont do it at uni lol
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Doug
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I have just been in Aber uni for 3 years and I was in a constant relationship with my GF who lives 100 miles away in Wrexham.
Neither of us Cheated (as far as I know :lol
If you want any advice on Aber or anything give me a shout 
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Rob E
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I was quite suprised at how much I drifted apart from some very close friends when they went to uni (im talking life long friendship in one case) Now I occasionally get the odd facebook message off them and if im lucky a text letting me know they are home 
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LeeM
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my gf's goin to uni this year but is only going to manchester met which is a 40-50 minute drive away so will probably se her at least once a week.
i trust her anyway, shes only slept with 4 people including me shes really not one to sleep around at all. its me she should worry about
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mattk
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me and my g/f were each others first, Id hate it if she had already been with someone else.... strange I know
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