Shelly
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This happened to my sister, her fella left her when she was 3 months pregnant. she was given an ultimatum, him or baby.
I have the most gorgeous little niece who means the absolute world to me now, she is so special.
The dad realised in the end he was wrong.
You need to be grown up, it's not something you can throw away like a piece of litter.
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Leighton
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It is not something you should even need to think about, let along putting a post up here about it.
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LeeM
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my mates in the same boat, we all know shes bullshitting so hes takin her to the doctors.
i also split up with my gf recently, and mark my words whatever she says if you've slept with someone else she most probably has as well
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taylorboosh
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she isnt like taht at all, i wanna be with her, but i get what ppl are saying coz girls do make stuff up like this
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Ally
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take her to the doctors, if she refuses then shes lying
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Conway563
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If you want to be with her then what's the issue? Be a man and take responibility
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ducky
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Firstly sounds to me like you don't wanna be with her but don't want anyone else too either and secondly sounds like she's doing the the whole baby scare thing to get back with you either that or the stress of the break up for her has made her worry and has delayed her period. I'd be very suprised if she is actually pregnant my dear.
As others have said ask to go to the doc's with her. Worry about that step before thinking the worst.
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taylorboosh
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because im wondering if its her trying to trick me to get back with her........what if i force herto docs and he says she is telling truth and she no longer thinks i trust her
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ducky
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Has she actually done a test???
[Edited on 28-01-2008 by ducky]
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C2RL R
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you dont need to say you don't believe her.
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Daimo B
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quote:
Originally posted by Shelly
This happened to my sister, her fella left her when she was 3 months pregnant. she was given an ultimatum, him or baby.
I have the most gorgeous little niece who means the absolute world to me now, she is so special.
The dad realised in the end he was wrong.
You need to be grown up, it's not something you can throw away like a piece of litter.
Termination, so yes you can if you want to.
I want to enjoy my life before living my life supporting someone elses, be it my own child or not.
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_Allan_
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Originally posted by willay
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Originally posted by andy1868
coat hanger
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taylorboosh
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quote:
Originally posted by ducky
Has she actually done a test???
[Edited on 28-01-2008 by ducky]
nope not yet, this will be next week when i get payed.
it is soooo much responsability if she is
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whitter45
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if you think she would trick you by saying she's is expecting to get you back, do you really want to be with someone who is like that
You finshed for a reason i take it. An ex is called an ex for a reason - don't go back and move on
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ducky
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Originally posted by corsabadboy
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Originally posted by ducky
Has she actually done a test???
[Edited on 28-01-2008 by ducky]
nope not yet, this will be next week when i get payed.
it is soooo much responsability if she is
As I said before I wouldn't start worrying about the whole "my life is over....I'm too" till you know for sure.
But there is one thing that seems clear for now and that is either way if she is or isn't you shouldn't get back with her till you decide if you can see a future with her.
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taylorboosh
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if she is i would get back whether i wanted too or not
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Conway563
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quote:
Originally posted by corsabadboy
if she is i would get back whether i wanted too or not
Which would make you mierable, not be good for her and ultimately probably be a shite life for the baby
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Daimo B
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Originally posted by corsabadboy
if she is i would get back whether i wanted too or not
So you would make yourself unhappy for the rest of your life. Also probably giving the child a poor upbringing due to constent arguing.
But i'll lay odds that shes aint pregnent and is doing the usual bunny boiler headcase physco ex gf part.....
Go round and inform her parents that she is claiming she is pregnent, see if she continues that story, as i bet my life she aint told them either
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Cosmo
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Are you both in a position to bring up a baby...decent full time jobs? House? Mature enough to realise that a baby comes before anything you want to do?
If so then it could work. But if, which is probably the case, you arent then the best option would be to get rid. Why bring a baby into a world where you cant provide for it.
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Half Pint
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I vote stairs....
Honest officer she fell, and that's not my sole mark on her head 
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taylorboosh
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Originally posted by VXR
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Originally posted by corsabadboy
if she is i would get back whether i wanted too or not
So you would make yourself unhappy for the rest of your life. Also probably giving the child a poor upbringing due to constent arguing.
But i'll lay odds that shes aint pregnent and is doing the usual bunny boiler headcase physco ex gf part.....
Go round and inform her parents that she is claiming she is pregnent, see if she continues that story, as i bet my life she aint told them either
i bet my life her dad would murder me
eeeeeeeeee a dinna eh, i believe a test is in order
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Superlite Ltd.
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quote:
Originally posted by liamC
a cunt punt should do it.
[Edited on 28-01-2008 by liamC]
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taylorboosh
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quote:
Originally posted by Cosmo
Are you both in a position to bring up a baby...decent full time jobs? House? Mature enough to realise that a baby comes before anything you want to do?
If so then it could work. But if, which is probably the case, you arent then the best option would be to get rid. Why bring a baby into a world where you cant provide for it.
bot hworking but no not really
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Daimo B
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Originally posted by corsabadboy
i bet my life her dad would murder me
eeeeeeeeee a dinna eh, i believe a test is in order
Oh right, its your fault 100% now then? She never dropper her knickers, she never talked about protection. You have the sword, therefore its your fault?
Hmmmmmmm....
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dannymccann
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quote:
Originally posted by Ally
take her to the doctors, if she refuses then shes lying
Fuck that, Jeremy Kyle will sort you out fo'sho
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