richardworrall
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its a shit feeling mate but will get better, hopefully you've not got property and shit like that to sort out, that just makes it a whole lot worse.
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PhilC
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the only thing i feel guilty about is how harsh i was when i left...
she told me, so i told her she was a dirty whore and spat on her.
I kinda suprised myself. didnt know i was that much of a twat.
still, it hurt, so it was either that or smash up her 56 plate corsa on my way out...
was feeling fairly revengeful....
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PhilC
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no, nothing like that..
i have her mum's golf gti rim (20" one i think) and her old headunit. its some alpine thing with the ipod input. she wnated them putting on ebay for her.
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PhilC
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i should have known something was up when she booked a weeks holiday in italy accross my birthday to go and see her aunty...
apparenty, the flights were cheaper!!
just to clarify... it was a return ticket for one adult. not some really nice romantic birthday break
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Steve
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why did she tell you? what did she do exactly ?
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PhilC
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she was out for some party. end of year uni thing. and some guy she used to like told her that he liked her. then they basically spent the evening together. at first she told me nothing happened between them and that it's just made her think about how she felt about me. that was pretty much enough for me to walk out. it was only when i was heading for the door she pulled me back and told me the rest.
She said she was just confused and wanted time to think. not interested. i'm done. I've had enough girls walk all over me before. if she cared enough about our relationship and my feelings, she'd have just told him she wasnt interested.
[Edited on 24-06-2007 by PhilC]
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Steve
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did she fuck him?
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Mark1984_SRI
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quote:
Originally posted by Steve
did she fuck him?
Steve, is there any need to talk like that 
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PhilC
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don't know. don't really want to either. things happened, but i wasn't prepared to wait around to hear the details.
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Steve
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well imo, id forgive someone if they say just kissed. people are only human and no matter what your feelings you will always be attracted to others aswell as your partner, especially if its long distance , however if they sexed thats unforgivable
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PhilC
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if she's done it once, she'll do it again. she says she fancies him, just like she fancies me, but she also cares about me. evidence please??
there were a few other issues though.
she told me she didnt smoke, but i'm fairly sure she did.
i cud never date a smoker, most disgusting thing ever.
she'd also had quite a large number of partners b4 me, which is none of my business. i just seemed to be constantly reminded of it though, and its not the nicest thought in the world.
i knew it was for the best when she told me i cud do better... rather than thinking that i just wanted her, i totally agreed (i'm not being big headed, just don;t think i deserved the shit i got from her)
[Edited on 24-06-2007 by PhilC]
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liamC
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i'd have done the same as you mate and walked away and not looked back - onwards and upwards!
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Steve
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if theres feelings there between her and him get out.
i was on about a random snog at a club
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PhilC
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there's feelings there yeah. no regrets.
she fancied the guy b4 she met me. they have a history.
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Fad
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quote:
Originally posted by PhilC
if she's done it once, she'll do it again. she says she fancies him, just like she fancies me, but she also cares about me. evidence please??
[Edited on 24-06-2007 by PhilC]
Best out of it mate you hit the nail on the head, if she was even telling you half the shit you mentioned in the above posts count yourself lucky your out of it and just make the best of it.
Women are sluts nuff said
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PhilC
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the majority of women are heartless sluts. i'm not gonna let her give all females a bad name. if i thought that, i'd only hold it against the next girl i meet. cant blame the next girl for the last one's mistakes.
Edit... heartless sluts sounds better!
[Edited on 24-06-2007 by PhilC]
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Steve
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il go out with you phil
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All Torque
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My ex finished with me last month. She said she wanted to experience single life (as she was too young to settle down, we both were, but still..) and 4 days after dumping me she got with my (ex)best friend.
Something doesnt add up about the whole thing...
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sam-smith
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im still looking for a girl to prove that theory wrong
most have no control when drunk aswell
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PhilC
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sorry to hear that mate.
i'm guessing you dont speak 2 ur ex best mate?
yeh, my last gf b4 this one said she wanted to experience single life too. then got with some other guy the week after. Sam, if u find her, pay some weird science bloke to make some clones. stick them on ebay.
[Edited on 24-06-2007 by PhilC]
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sam-smith
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i could pass her around mfor money
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All Torque
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quote:
Originally posted by PhilC
sorry to hear that mate.
i'm guessing you dont speak 2 ur ex best mate?
yeh, my last gf b4 this one said she wanted to experience single life too. then got with some other guy the week after. Sam, if u find her, pay some weird science bloke to make some clones. stick them on ebay.
[Edited on 24-06-2007 by PhilC]
I dont, hes a penis.
 @ the Weird Science reference.
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drax
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ARGHHHHHH[snip]HHHHHHHHHHv
Fucking bitches like that. I wish they would get a real taste of how much something can hurt when it happens to THEM. Makes me angry tbh.
feel for you mate.
[Edited on 24-06-2007 by Ian]
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Fad
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Smash them in the fanny best form of birth control IMO then they cant breed and make more sluts
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Ian
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To be weak and learn is better than to be strong and wonder.
Forgiveness is the most powerful teaching you can administer.
That said, you spat on her. I can't see her texting back.
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