Colin
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Originally posted by kz
cool cheers jules. i lack confidence, so i would be hoping it would go well, or next time id wait about three years before doing it again 
Nah just go in relaxed, stay calm, shes agreed (if she says yes  ) to go on a date because she obviously likes you..........she wants to spend her time getting to know you - that should be a confidence booster in its own. If it doesnt work out learn from the experience & move on.
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kz
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or as my work colleague says... "if in doubt, get your cock out"
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Colin
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Originally posted by kz
or as my work colleague says... "if in doubt, get your cock out"
If you want to scare her away yea
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kz
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lol joking. anyway cheers for advice... corsasport actually being serious wtf is happening
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Jules S
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If she's up for a date (sounds like) ask her up front what she wants to do...i reckon 1 in 10 will say 'i would like to do etc' if so job sorted 
See id say that 9 times out of 10 they say, ive not got a clue..........you decideMust just be the girls around these parts
Nope...thats exactly my point. 
Women
They dont want to be seen to be led..but always want to be led...
If you have issues with paying for a meal go to a BYO....and let one pay for the meal and one for the vino 
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JadeM
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Oh and if she hardly speaks all night don't let that put off. On our 1st date I was so nervous I hardly spoke a word all night, fcuk knows what possesed Colin to ask me back out
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Jules
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Originally posted by Colin
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Originally posted by Jules S
If she's up for a date (sounds like) ask her up front what she wants to do...i reckon 1 in 10 will say 'i would like to do etc' if so job sorted
See id say that 9 times out of 10 they say, ive not got a clue..........you decideMust just be the girls around these parts
Nope, this girl I'm seeing later this week said she'd like to go out for a drink when I asked her, we were trying to decide where to go tonight, I was suggesting places all of which weren't good for one reason or another - said ok - you decide, she said she couldn;t and asked me to decide again! Women = barking mad!
In the end she made a suggestion, I said yes and that is that until Thursday night
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TheCam
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AK
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i've had dates with non speaking girls ace
Cant really r'ber my first real 'date' with Fee. We'd know each other for years before hand... think we just ended up hamered and in some shite pub falling about the place. I then buggered off for 5 weeks and didnt phone. Came home and started again
that was about 6years ago now
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Andy Stocker
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Bowling
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Deano_sxi
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take her paintballing and nail her in the baps
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Fee
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i've had dates with non speaking girls ace
Cant really r'ber my first real 'date' with Fee. We'd know each other for years before hand... think we just ended up hamered and in some shite pub falling about the place. I then buggered off for 5 weeks and didnt phone. Came home and started again
that was about 6years ago now
I think our first date was when I turned up at yours shit faced and we got through a litre of vodka at about 4 in the morning
Other than that I only remember the pub off the royal mile, but your brother and some work people were there, so I don't think that really classes as a date
the rest of that year is pretty much a blur
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andy1868
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deano_sxi has the right idea
but seriously, as colin said, nothing ventured nothing gained. i too am pathetic with women, i took a girl out not too long ago, picked her up, went for afew drinks and had a nice walk down the canal, nothing stressful or pressured etc. dropped her off at home so i knew she got back alright, it was all good
take the chance mate
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kz
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Originally posted by Deano_sxi
take her paintballing and nail her in the baps
romantic!
i might go out for a candle-lit dinner, accidentally on purpose knock the candle over, set fire to the place, save someone, then ill be a hero 
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IvIarkgraham
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good plan!
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Kerry
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you guys
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Matt H
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Go shopping
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antscorsa
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take her for some drinks, have a good chat etc for an hour or so then go cinema!! plenty to talk about then
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stuartmitchell
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Wouldn't recommend going for a meal bud, I think eating is quite a stressful thing to do on a first date, worried about spitting food out or making a mess etc
I took the current lady out on a Friday night, went to a few bars, had some good chat, got a bit pissed, conversation flowed even more, went to a club, pulled. Result 
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Cosmo
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Originally posted by JadeM
Oh and if she hardly speaks all night don't let that put off. On our 1st date I was so nervous I hardly spoke a word all night, fcuk knows what possesed Colin to ask me back out
he said it was your 'fuck me' eyes IIRC.
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Cosmo
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cinema or out somewhere busy and loud are bad ideas, cant speak at either and you end up having to think about finding somewhere else for the 2nd date where you'll have to think if you two can speak for that long!
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stuartmitchell
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All the more reason to find a wee quiet corner 
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Hammer
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I took a bird out to the cinema on the first date, first thing she did was point out a stain on the passenger seat and asked if it was spunk. Went to the cinema watched Narnia and she sat and spoke about anal sex for the entire film
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andy1868
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hammer, sounds like my kind of girl TBH
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Cosmo
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I took a bird out to the cinema on the first date, first thing she did was point out a stain on the passenger seat and asked if it was spunk. Went to the cinema watched Narnia and she sat and spoke about anal sex for the entire film
I hope you married her? Or atleast fucked her ass in the car after the film?!
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