SteveW
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Registered: 15th Jul 02
Location: Up in the clouds
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chin up matey.. it will all turn around.
sod the GF leaving you and her mum telling you (thats just mad)
get the car sorted and go enjoy yourself for a bit. a few lads nights out on the pull and you wont rememer your own name let alone hers 
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w4sam1
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Registered: 19th Apr 06
Location: Sutton-in-Craven, North Yorkshire
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How long were you with her for?
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Greasemonkey
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Registered: 17th Apr 02
Location: Drives a Tractor
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It was gettin on for a year together, i split with a girl a few years back who i had been with for nearly 3 years and when that happened it was the hardest thing i have ever had to deal with. Well my now Ex was more than i could ever ask for i couldnt say a bad word about her and even though we only been together for about a year this is a whole lot worse!!!!!
Just strange going from talking to eachother all the time and seeing eachother to her ignoring me and gettin her folks to basically tell me to piss off!!!!
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Cybermonkey
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Registered: 22nd Sep 02
Location: Sydney, Australia
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its hard mate, but you gotta just get on with your own life now. dont make the mistake i have been making and pretend things might work out for the better, because they wont!
time to move on, you wont be in the right frame of mind right now to believe that you will find someone you deserve, but trust me it will happen 
you never know what is round the next corner chin up
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Greasemonkey
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Registered: 17th Apr 02
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Thanks guys, i always find ya meet people when ya least expect it. Me and Jodie met when i started an evening job as a bar man, she was a waitress, she came to work at the pub in her break from dancing college and she instantly had an effect on me, she went back to college and i couldnt stop thinking about her, she eventually came back again a few months later and i asked her out and she said yes right away. Thats the way its meant to be, pulling girls in clubs never works out
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Cybermonkey
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Registered: 22nd Sep 02
Location: Sydney, Australia
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that sounds awesome monkey. i was seeing a girl, i had fallen in love, i still very much love her, she went abroad for 6 weeks, came back and told me it was all a mistake. thing is, im still seeing her everyday because she needs me as a friend. i dont see it like that but who cares right?
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Cybermonkey
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Registered: 22nd Sep 02
Location: Sydney, Australia
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WELL LISTEN UP GRRRRRLFRIEND, you dont let these women treat you like that because its only gonna hurt in the long run!
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Greasemonkey
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Registered: 17th Apr 02
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When you say friends i take it that thats exactly what you mean, you aint sleeping together or ought cos that would be bad i would call that stringing you along. Jodie has cut all contact from me and it hurts BUT she has done the right thing it will be easier this was and i respect her for it.
My GF before Jodie left me and went to australia, we had a house and all that, she phoned me from the airport saing she wanted me back, it never worked out, she has been back in my town for nearly a year now, she tried it on but im not interested anymore as she let me down and left me with too much to sort out
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Cybermonkey
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Registered: 22nd Sep 02
Location: Sydney, Australia
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i really wouldnt have a problem if we were sleeping together its the whole "we are no longer special friends" 
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Greasemonkey
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Registered: 17th Apr 02
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Yeah Jodie said in time she would like to see me as a friend maybe but i know i will only want more so its not gonna happen, she slapped on the no sex ban if we ever do meet up, which we wont, no special friends for me either
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