Melville
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and boy if I was in his shoes would I be enjoying myself
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CRFC
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hes a ledgend if shes dacent lookin!
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Andrew
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Originally posted by Ian
That would do my head in.
You want to drive tonight, no sorry, you're not insured on my car because you'll write it off just by paying the premium.
Text me tomorrow instead, no sorry, no credit.
OK lets stay in and have an adult conversation. Um...
FPMSL  But so true... Younger girls are fun to be around but not as a gf. Been there, done that, didn't work out. Working on a girl my own age  Well, a year younger
[Edited on 11-10-2006 by Andrew]
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Steve
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Originally posted by Melville
so what at least he is enjoying himself
yeah hes enjoying himself, but she wont be when he tosses her aside, and as shes a close member of he family this is our concern.
he is known at his place of work to act innappropriatly towards members of staff, and hes even got someone the sack as she turned him down (hes in a position of authority)
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TNM
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quote:
Originally posted by Melville
so what at least he is enjoying himself
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Steve
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quote:
Originally posted by Steve
quote:
Originally posted by Melville
so what at least he is enjoying himself
yeah hes enjoying himself, but she wont be when he tosses her aside, and as shes a close member of he family this is our concern.
he is known at his place of work to act innappropriatly towards members of staff, and hes even got someone the sack as she turned him down (hes in a position of authority)
she wont listen either, so frustrating when its so clear to everyone else whats going on, but you can never see it being the person involved
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Jules S
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quote:
Originally posted by Ian
That would do my head in.
You want to drive tonight, no sorry, you're not insured on my car because you'll write it off just by paying the premium.
Text me tomorrow instead, no sorry, no credit.
OK lets stay in and have an adult conversation. Um...
That makes the VERY large assumption that the lady doesn't have any money 
I had suitably mature 19 year old girlfriend a few years back....no problems at all there 
Agree with the still married bit though, that's 
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Steve
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i mean this is one example of pure bullshit
hes told her that him and his wife are splitting up even though they still live together, if thats not bullshit enough, him and his wife are going on holiday in a couple of weeks, hes told the girl they will sleep in sepreate beds
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mav
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married bits wrong..
Think it's a bit wrong, but if it was 25 and 45 etc is it any better???
I am 33 and no way i would go out with a 19 year old....(would have a one stand with one though )
All depends how you meet and how you get on...
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Andrew
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LMAO at Mav
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Ojc
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24 & 16?
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Steve
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?
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Jules S
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TBH steve,
He's grooming her big time...if you have any influence get her away from him.
I was 33 when I was seeing that 19 year old, don't regret it for a minute. But there wasn't any bullshit invloved and it was a mutual attraction...having seen your last post she is on a one way ticket to fuckedupheadom 
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Ian
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Originally posted by Jules S
That makes the VERY large assumption that the lady doesn't have any money
She's unlikely to be able to offer a comparable financial situation to the 40 year old, and even if she has money at that age, its even less likely to be hers.
Skint, spoilt or plays the lottery. This is not your typical adult arrangement.
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Ste
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quote:
Originally posted by Ian
That would do my head in.
You want to drive tonight, no sorry, you're not insured on my car because you'll write it off just by paying the premium.
Text me tomorrow instead, no sorry, no credit.
OK lets stay in and have an adult conversation. Um...
haha sounds like your speaking from experience, ever been in the reverse of this situation????
I would rather lose by a mile because i built my own car, than win by an inch because someone else built it for me.
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corsa.v6
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wrong
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Steve
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hes 4th governor at a prison, shes an admin assistant on a temp contract at same prison , its safe to say the financial situations are not comparible.
hes totally exploiting his powers, hes already had an official warning at work for innapropriate emails to women at work.
trouble is if it came down to it everyone would believe him due to his position and not her, she would get the sack.
i feel like smacking him in the face but then i remember it has actually got nothing to do with me.
she can only learn the hard way
[Edited on 11-10-2006 by Steve]
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corsa.v6
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true
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Steve
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or telling his wife wtf is going on
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corsa.v6
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gianluigi
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wrong. wouldnt like it if it was my sister.
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Jules S
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quote:
Originally posted by Ian
quote:
Originally posted by Jules S
That makes the VERY large assumption that the lady doesn't have any money
She's unlikely to be able to offer a comparable financial situation to the 40 year old, and even if she has money at that age, its even less likely to be hers.
Skint, spoilt or plays the lottery. This is not your typical adult arrangement.
True, it's unlikely but can happen.
What's more likely is that the 40 year old has enough money not to worry about the female having none.
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Ojc
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I blame the Americans.
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micra_pete
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^^^ agreed
however my dad is 74, my mum is 50
[Edited on 12-10-2006 by micra_pete]
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Dave A
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just mess it up for him. get his name and the details of where he lives and works and let his wife know about it.
simple and nobody will know it was you
then hopefully his wife wil kick him out, she will probably want to be away from the situation and he will end up being a lonely old git.
or
he gets kicked out and she moves in with him
well, scrap that one then, it was a bad idea
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