Lawrah
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Im not a fan of marrage.Its become all about money now.
I dont see why you cant live your life happily not married with someone you love..
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dave17
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I seriously cant see me having kids for ages, but i want my kids to think im cool and trendy. Not an old cunt 
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Ally
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Agree with Matty on the old Dad thing, my dad is 54 this year and im 19  34 years older than me. Hes very healthy and cycles to work and back every day which is about 10 miles but he will be in his 60's when i have kids, and probably wont be around when they are in their early teens
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Edd
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so you are all criticising a girl for having a child at 12 but then moan you dont want to be old parents???
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Sooty
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Originally posted by Ally
Agree with Matty on the old Dad thing, my dad is 54 this year and im 19 34 years older than me. Hes very healthy and cycles to work and back every day which is about 10 miles but he will be in his 60's when i have kids, and probably wont be around when they are in their early teens
My dad is 71 this year... im 21
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1 SCR
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Originally posted by Matty G
plus I dont like being single. too lonely.
and want my kids to be brought up with stability as I didn't have that with my Mum and Dad splitting up so I know what its like to not have it and dont want them to go through that.
i completely agree with ^^. I had the same problem and wouldnt want my kids to have the same up bringing.
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mwg
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I haven't had a bad upbringing by any means. But I would like my kids to have their Mum and Dad living together, no hassle of step dads and mums (even though I get on fine with mine). I was lucky that I was young when they split up but its still not the same not having my Dad living with us even though I am used to it.
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a_j_mair
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my big brother is getting married in april 07
he will have just turned 26 iirc
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JadeM
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I will some day, dont want a church wedding though - I dont go to church so why get married in one Id prefer something low key & personal abroad with a mass party on my return. Plenty to do before all that though!!
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Tom
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Agreed on the church bit 
I don't know that I want to, not becuase of the commitment but the whole issue of sorting out shit if you break up.
I wouldn't mind a long term g/f tho, actually i think i've got one 
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Carl
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Originally posted by JadeM
I will some day, dont want a church wedding though - I dont go to church so why get married in one Id prefer something low key & personal abroad with a mass party on my return. Plenty to do before all that though!!
same here, hate all that church bollox, I can't see myself getting married, love to have kids, and i like all that having the same name stuff but the rest is bollox imo.
If/when i do get married why do i want a load of random relatives there that i actually never see?
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Ally
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I know what u mean Carl, my cousin who i havent seen for years is getting married... i get an invite addressed to me and richie and on the back it says suggested presents - money or argos vouchers
funnily enough we arent going.
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mwg
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I think its funny when people get married in a church and a couple of months before they get married they start going to church. Then as soon as the wedding is done they dont go anymore
I'd get married where ever the lass I was marrying wanted to get married (within reason) is easier as they are the ones that get all excited about it, the men just turn up and drink lager
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Ally
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Yeh but it means different things to different people, some people see alot of 'meaning' in getting married in a church
Id be happy if we packed our bags, went to the bahamas, got married on a beach with only our close and immediate family then spent 2 weeks shagging, drinking and sunbathing
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Tom
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Matty soooo true
Ally most people make wedding lists you tight ass
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Ally
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Originally posted by Tom
Matty soooo true
Ally most people make wedding lists you tight ass
Righty - ok here you go
Saw him december 2004 with another lass who he'd just had a baby with
he cheats on her, gets this other lass pregnant then leaves his newborn baby and other girlfriend to be with the newly pregnant one.
Previous girlfriend gets mad, he demands DNA test, which he then tells his mum he cant pay for because he is so broke and yada yada so she agrees to pay (single mum, not much money and costs £500)
he then turns around a week later announcing he is getting married (where has the money come from for this???) and is asking for money off everyone else, which will only go to pay for his child support.
PS - he does drugs, drinks like a fish and cant keep his dick in his pants.
So no we arent going!
sorry tom, just didnt want you to think i was a tight ass because im not.... spending money is one of my best features 
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mwg
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spending money is a feature of any woman. wouldn't call it their best feature personally
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JadeM
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Originally posted by Matty G
I think its funny when people get married in a church and a couple of months before they get married they start going to church. Then as soon as the wedding is done they dont go anymore
I'd get married where ever the lass I was marrying wanted to get married (within reason) is easier as they are the ones that get all excited about it, the men just turn up and drink lager
Exactly im not a religious or traditionalist type person so why the fook get married in a church!!
Too true with the 2nd bit
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JadeM
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Originally posted by Ally
Id be happy if we packed our bags, went to the bahamas, got married on a beach with only our close and immediate family then spent 2 weeks shagging, drinking and sunbathing
Are you the wedding planner ive been looking for
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Lawrah
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Originally posted by JadeM
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Originally posted by Ally
Id be happy if we packed our bags, went to the bahamas, got married on a beach with only our close and immediate family then spent 2 weeks shagging, drinking and sunbathing
Are you the wedding planner ive been looking for
Ill just ignore the marrage bit, but i would happily do the latter
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mwg
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excellent
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Edd
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quote:
Originally posted by Lawrah
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Originally posted by JadeM
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Originally posted by Ally
Id be happy if we packed our bags, went to the bahamas, got married on a beach with only our close and immediate family then spent 2 weeks shagging, drinking and sunbathing
Are you the wedding planner ive been looking for
Ill just ignore the marrage bit, but i would happily do the latter
how will you get me there without him knowing?
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JadeM
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Just say 'i do'......but have your fingers crossed & wink at the priest
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Lawrah
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Originally posted by Edd
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Originally posted by Lawrah
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Originally posted by JadeM
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Originally posted by Ally
Id be happy if we packed our bags, went to the bahamas, got married on a beach with only our close and immediate family then spent 2 weeks shagging, drinking and sunbathing
Are you the wedding planner ive been looking for
Ill just ignore the marrage bit, but i would happily do the latter
how will you get me there without him knowing?
how will you get there without her knowing ?
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Edd
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ermmmm.........
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