Russ
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i had this, one day before she left, i grabbed her round throat and started to strangle her just before she blacked out i let go and said if you cheat on me ill kill you and ur family. shes been ace ever since
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JadeM
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quote: Originally posted by schoey
Thanks Jade, i know she loves me and respects me. But it doesnt stop the worrying as coastalcorsa said.
I know what your saying, I'd be exactly the same. My imagination runs riot at times Its gonna be really hard for you 
XxX
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corsa5dr
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I was in a similary situation over th last few years, my now ex GF went away to uni 2 hours away. Its not an ideal situation but if you make and effort it will work, but you need to try and trust her. Dont let your mind run wild with stupid thoughts.
It worked for us for a long time, despite me being the jealous type. We did split up in the end but it I dont think it was because of the long distance/uni thing, it just wasnt meant to be.
Good luck mate
[Edited on 25-04-2006 by corsa5dr]
[Edited on 25-04-2006 by corsa5dr]
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MarkW
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my girlfriend is going to Winchester Uni as its the best for what she wants to do - fashion / design and all that - 240 miles and just short of 4 hours away gonna do everything i can to make it work though
if its meant to be its meant to be 
will be a crap feeling inside though when she does go
[Edited on 25-04-2006 by MarkW]
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vibrio
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quote: Originally posted by schoey
So my gf is going to uni in september. What happens when this happens usually?
I dont think ill be able to hack her livin' it up, going out all the time.
Talk to me, fellow corsasport people.
she will drink lots, study hard and probably get hit on by lots of men unless she is ugly or fat the she will just get hit on by drunk ugly or drunk fat men. then she will realise thank going out with pikey car modifiers why ultimately not get her what she wants and she will dump you for some going up the ziggaroid lickity split 
[Edited on 25-04-2006 by vibrio]
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Cosmo
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Depends on the couple really!
If your fairly solid and both like each other then the temptations wont matter wherever she is.Ive been with my gf for 4 1/2 yrs now through college, different Uni's, etc with no problems. Yeah people try to chat her up but she doesnt fall for that!
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mwg
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I couldn't hack it if I had a gf at Uni... I dont trust any woman at the moment
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vibrio
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quote: Originally posted by Cosmo
Depends on the couple really!
If your fairly solid and both like each other then the temptations wont matter wherever she is.Ive been with my gf for 4 1/2 yrs now through college, different Uni's, etc with no problems. Yeah people try to chat her up but she doesnt fall for that!
thats only because she is really ugly or she lies
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Carl
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quote: Originally posted by vibrio
quote: Originally posted by Cosmo
Depends on the couple really!
If your fairly solid and both like each other then the temptations wont matter wherever she is.Ive been with my gf for 4 1/2 yrs now through college, different Uni's, etc with no problems. Yeah people try to chat her up but she doesnt fall for that!
thats only because she is really ugly or she lies
obviously got a vast experience around attractive ladies.
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Jamie Walby
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I LOVE living in a town with a uni 
Having said that, if a bird said to me 'I have a boyfriend' I would leave her be. And that is the honest truth.
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gianluigi
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Schofield your such a baby 
On a more relivant note, couple i know that have parted ways because of uni, have inevitable split up...
however my mates gf wanted to go to sheffield he told her if she go sheff, they'd have to split up, so she went to essex uni, 45 mins down the A12.
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Lynny
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not all lasses are the same, i have mate whos in uni in leeds, his lass is up here, theyve been together 2 years and neither has cheated
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schoey
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Thanks for yoru comments Ross, most useful as ever 
Hopefully ill end up thinking like you cosmo.
Oh and shut it number two!
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vibrio
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quote: Originally posted by Carl
quote: Originally posted by vibrio
quote: Originally posted by Cosmo
Depends on the couple really!
If your fairly solid and both like each other then the temptations wont matter wherever she is.Ive been with my gf for 4 1/2 yrs now through college, different Uni's, etc with no problems. Yeah people try to chat her up but she doesnt fall for that!
thats only because she is really ugly or she lies
obviously got a vast experience around attractive ladies.
yes just that none of them touch me
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vibrio
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quote: Originally posted by Jamie Walby
I LOVE living in a town with a uni 
Having said that, if a bird said to me 'I have a boyfriend' I would leave her be. And that is the honest truth.
I would just think she is making excuses
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gianluigi
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PMSL
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Greasemonkey
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THink about it man your worried about her going up there to uni, all the pressure is not on you she will no dougt be worrying about leaving you behind,
Trust me, my GF goes college 2 1/2 hours drive away and i ended up cheating on her. My advice would be break it off its only fair on you and her live ya lives
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dave17
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oooo risky one matey.
I know i couldnt deal with it, because i dont trust ANY females except for family members 
Blokes will always try it, doesnt matter if theyve got a bf. I prefer it when the have, its more of a challenge. So harsh i know
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Melville
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Make sure she doesnt go anywhere near Greasemonkey
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mwg
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quote: Originally posted by Melville
Make sure she doesnt go anywhere near Greasemonkey
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Brett
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quote: Originally posted by J-Me
Believe me mate, ive been there, and no I was not the boyfriend sitting at home
twat
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gianluigi
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quote: Originally posted by loafofbrett
quote: Originally posted by J-Me
Believe me mate, ive been there, and no I was not the boyfriend sitting at home
twat
yes. but he is a single horny guy looking for a good time. the girlfriend is in the wrong.
but i did feel the harshness in his post.
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Greasemonkey
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To try and scrape some credability back for myself, if i approached a girl and she had a BF i would walk away
I live with the fact my GF is 155miles away and i do trust her and im an incredibly paranoid person because of the years of smoking too much erb 
[Edited on 25-04-2006 by Greasemonkey]
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Melville
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quote: Originally posted by Greasemonkey
To try and scrape some credability back for myself.....
Good one
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vibrio
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quote: Originally posted by Greasemonkey
To try and scrape some credability back for myself, if i approached a girl and she had a BF i would walk away
I live with the fact my GF is 155miles away and i do trust her and im an incredibly paranoid person because of the years of smoking too much erb 
[Edited on 25-04-2006 by Greasemonkey]
oregano?
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