James_DT
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Location: Cambridgeshire
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quote: Originally posted by Sam
I just wondered if anyone else on here had done this and if it worked out for them?
No. Complete head fuck once she got interested in someone else. She's a different person now, but it's still hard as fuck for me to let go.
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Sam
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Registered: 24th Dec 99
Location: West Midlands
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quote: Originally posted by Matt H
You've clearly thought this through far too much for it just to be sex. You want more by the sounds of things.
So stay away
I miss the way things used to be with me and her, but I don't like the person she has become now. I guess a (big) part of me wishes the old her would come back and we could sort things out, but the reality of the situation is that ain't gonna happen, she is a different person now (i.e. a slut), and has clearly found it easier than me to move on.
I'm trying really hard to move on and that, but I'm finding it extremely difficult, even if I try not to speak to her or whatever if she calls or texts me I always respond I can't seem to just ignore her, I'm such a pussy! 
Oh well, no-one's fault but my own I guess. C'est la vie!
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Matt H
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Registered: 11th Sep 01
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Delete her number
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Sam
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Registered: 24th Dec 99
Location: West Midlands
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It doesn't make any difference I know the number off by heart - it used to be one of my old numbers!
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Ry_B
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Location: Solihull, W Mids Drives: 45BHP beast!
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quote: Originally posted by Sam
It doesn't make any difference I know the number off by heart - it used to be one of my old numbers!
Gutted
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Matt H
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Delete your memory
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Craig W
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Fuck buddies should be randoms, not people you have history with.
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Kathryn W
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Registered: 12th Oct 03
Location: Widnes, Cheshire
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Sam change your number so that she cannot contact you again. And then if she is on your MSN which i remember she is block and delete her so she has a really hard chance of getting in touch with you
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Sam
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Registered: 24th Dec 99
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quote: Originally posted by Matt H
Delete your memory
I wish! 
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liveseytowers
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Registered: 18th Apr 05
Location: Blackburn
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Dont do it! I've been shagging a burd at work and it mess's with your head big time. She doesnt want anything serious and i've got a GF so i thought it would be all good but its hard not to get attached and it doesnt help when she goes out and tells me she's pulled Biatch
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Matt H
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quote: Originally posted by Craig W
Fuck buddies should be randoms, not people you have history with.
Yup
Well, maybe not randoms. Thats more of a one night stand thing.
It just has to be someone you know & want to bone
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Kathryn W
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Registered: 12th Oct 03
Location: Widnes, Cheshire
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Two people that do not want to be in a relationship although want plenty of sex... and do not want more than that..
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B3KYR
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Registered: 5th Jan 05
Location: Wakefield
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sam DON'T do it, we have talked about this girl before and deep down i think you know it will make things worse.
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Andrew
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Registered: 5th May 04
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You cannot turn your feelings on and off. She is an ex for a reason.
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nik
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quote: Originally posted by liveseytowers
Dont do it! I've been shagging a burd at work and it mess's with your head big time. She doesnt want anything serious and i've got a GF so i thought it would be all good but its hard not to get attached and it doesnt help when she goes out and tells me she's pulled Biatch
A) If you have a girlfriend, then why are you shagging about? and B) As per A, why are you upset if this work pal says shes pulled?
Cunt springs to mind
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ClaireF
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Registered: 1st Nov 05
Location: hurlford, scotland Drives: corsa again
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yeah fuckin two girls behind each other back is out of order really
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CCA
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Registered: 6th Dec 04
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well said nik
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Ry_B
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I never actually realised that 
If you've already got a bird then the answer should be a defo no no.
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ClaireF
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fine example of why relationships dont work
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Ry_B
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quote: Originally posted by vauxcorsagirl
fine example of why relationships dont work
Fine example why fuck buds are the way forwards
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dave17
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Registered: 3rd Sep 02
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it works.
but im keeping my mouth closed coz certain people read wot i write on here
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A1EX
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Registered: 29th Mar 00
Location: Turku, Finland
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agree with most, ive tried it, got too attatched etc hard to let go, steer clear
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Ally
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NO.
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glasgow_corsa_c
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quote: Originally posted by Korsa-Kat
Sam change your number so that she cannot contact you again. And then if she is on your MSN which i remember she is block and delete her so she has a really hard chance of getting in touch with you
agree.
i have done this twice now and its the easiest way to get rid of them
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MikeE
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Registered: 7th Mar 03
Location: Milton Keynes
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quote: Originally posted by Craig W
Fuck buddies should be randoms, not people you have history with.
hit the nail on the head here!
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