Andrew
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dave17
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The one in my avatar is my current girlfriend, but weve been going through a funny time recently and has made me think really.
Ive been done over twice, so i turned into a man hoe. This is the first one ive treated properly and cared about since my x, but i stil dont care that much.
Maybe the old saying 'plenty more fish in the sea' really has settled in
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Ian
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Dave that trust more about you than her.
Its only a feeling based on what you've experienced. If you get a knock its hard to trust in the future, but won't always tie in with the trustworthyness of your partner.
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dave17
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Ian your speaking too advanced for me 
Your like wise old chinese man who talks in riddles
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Cosmo
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quote:
Originally posted by dave17
Ian your speaking too advanced for me
Your like wise old chinese man who talks in riddles
Like on the orange adverts?!
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dave17
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exactly like the orange adverts 
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Edd
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replace it with an xe and your laughing
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Ally
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It will take you fooking ages to get over it trust me, but you will get over it.
Plus on the whole not letting her in thing, if you really like her, and she really likes you that shouldnt matter. You will let her in eventually, so just take it slow for now
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dave17
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spluttering more like
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sxi16vjoe
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quote:
Originally posted by Fad
I think it can be only fixed to a certain extent....say you'll be fine if not thinking about it...but the one day you see the person who broke your heart you'll still get that sinking feeling  
Its all to do with seeing them with someone else etc etc I think a small part of you just hangs onto it.....
[Edited on 10-02-2006 by Fad]
If I see my ex I swear to god I will spit in her face.
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dave17
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quote:
Originally posted by sxi16vjoe
quote:
Originally posted by Fad
I think it can be only fixed to a certain extent....say you'll be fine if not thinking about it...but the one day you see the person who broke your heart you'll still get that sinking feeling
Its all to do with seeing them with someone else etc etc I think a small part of you just hangs onto it.....
[Edited on 10-02-2006 by Fad]
If I see my ex I swear to god I will spunk in her face.
u the man 
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Half Pint
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quote:
Originally posted by sxi16vjoe
quote:
Originally posted by Fad
I think it can be only fixed to a certain extent....say you'll be fine if not thinking about it...but the one day you see the person who broke your heart you'll still get that sinking feeling
Its all to do with seeing them with someone else etc etc I think a small part of you just hangs onto it.....
[Edited on 10-02-2006 by Fad]
If I see my ex I swear to god I will spit in her face.
with your mouth or cock
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Davido
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i dont think you fully get over someone you truelly loved, ive been single 18 months now ive met numerous girls and just havent clicked with a single one like i did with my ex, and as Fad says, i seen her last weekend in a bar and got that sinking feeling just got to learn from the experience i guess and get on with life.
Personally in my case i have been done twice also and now i just treat girls badly and i know i do but dont seem to help it, its become to easy to get what i want then after few weeks move on to someone new.
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dave17
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o00o0 atleast im not on my own with this one then
Im way too young for all this, its stupid 
I think it all boils down to trust, if youve been burnt, you dont go and put ur hands back in the fire........
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Carl
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quote:
Originally posted by dave17
o00o0 atleast im not on my own with this one then
Im way too young for all this, its stupid
I think it all boils down to trust, if youve been burnt, you dont go and put ur hands back in the fire........
but if you leave your hand out of the fire you might get caught by the candle on the coffee table.
I'e if she know you don't trust her she might get pissed off and cheat on you.
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Adam-D
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no not ever,
hurt will fade but memories will bring it straight back randomly and kick you in the bollocks
even if your happy at the time
its all gay, pisses me off makes me sad and angry
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Tom
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PMSL @ joe
I think it'll always stick with you as so superbly put by ian
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Danny P
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Reading this thread has pissed me off 
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antscorsa
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dave, maybe uve gone into the relationship a bit tooo serious.
just broke up wiht my gf, she did the breaking and i seriosuly dont want too see her for a while. broke my heart etc but i think of it that im only 20 and theres soo much more out there etc, next girl i meet im defo taking it slower and more relaxed.
[Edited on 10-02-2006 by antscorsa]
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dave17
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thats what i did with this one, was seeing her for 5 months (while she broke up with her bf )
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dave17
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quote:
Originally posted by Danny P
Reading this thread has pissed me off
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Ian
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quote:
Originally posted by dave17
if youve been burnt, you dont go and put ur hands back in the fire........
Indeed Kemosabe
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Ian
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quote:
Originally posted by dave17
This is the first one ive treated properly and cared about since my x, but i stil dont care that much.
Thats not her though - thats you. Its not like she's not the one, its that you haven't noticed it because you're too burnt to be open to that again.
She might be your future wife, but you're not in a position to judge while you associate relationships with hurt.
I usually go a year or so between relationships for that reason. Not in to them otherwise. Thats why I'm 27
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Jamie
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ian the wise old man
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scriv
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lifes a bitch i still think of my ex naomi i suppose its always there u just learn to get on with it . i dont think ive let a girl in since at the end of the day everyone is different so how one bloke deals with stuff is different to anothers theres no right and wrong way to deal with these things
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